I have been meaning to post this, but until now had not gotten around to it.
Ladies, it is a scary game of cat and mouse to say the least and one of the ways that I have seen many women try to get around certain issues is by advertising on their web site that they are just doing massages or for time only.
I’ll tackle the “massages” first. You would be better off simply stating prostitution in your ads than massage, I know that sounds crazy, but it’s true.
Prostitution in the state of New York (as well as many other states, but not all) under current New York State law, Prostitution in New York is a class “B” misdemeanor punishable by up to 90 days in jail. If it is your first offense, you have no outstanding warrants, you have no drug paraphernalia on your person or weapons and you are not being an aggressive ass and you have proper ID on you, most times you will be released on a “OR” (Basically your signature) or with a 10% bail. If central booking is extremely overloaded, or if you have followed the above, you may be issued a D.A.T., a Desk Appearance Ticket. But it is just as serious as if you were taken into booking, if you do not show up a Bench Warrant will be issued for your arrest.
BUT if you have advertised as offering massages- even the NuRu massages, or a sensual body rub, you have now upped the ante and have committed a class E Felony, punishable up to 4 years. Massage in the state of New York falls under the New York education law, 7801 and 7802. Practice of Massage without a license constitutes the unlawful practice of a profession, is a class “E” felony punishable by up to 4 years in prison. Not down at the tombs, but prison. I am not stating that they will enforce this per se, but just that simple wording in your ad or web site is enough to take it from a simple misdemeanor to a felony. It’s just something to think about.
Okay, your web sites and review boards. If you have a disclaimer on your web site, with a menu and or reviews, it doesn’t matter if you never discussed the exchange of money for special services, the moment you show up, especially if at a hotel, with condoms, you are screwed. Even with the disclaimer.
That disclaimer becomes null and void once you place specific menus on your site and or reviews that admit to illegal activity, even if posted as “purely entertainment” or whatever wording you have used.
Even if you only showed up to the hotel, or had someone come to your hotel, they don’t even have to discuss with you the details of any transactions.
And for each review that is posted up, as well as your web site if it has a menu, and or reviews, can be counted, individually, as in each one, as a charge against you. As can any used covers or wrappers they find.
Even if not used as an individual charge, they can use this to build an incriminating case against you.
It becomes such a catch 22, as so many clients insist on seeing “reviews” but seem to forget that they are participating in an illegal activity, and are in fact incriminating you (and themselves) each and every time they post a review up.
And just to re-emphasize this, as another poster had pointed out, the show me yours or let me touch it, is not a good guideline to follow, think of it this way, they are undercover, and within the laws, are allowed to basically do anything to see the arrest through. Think about all the drug dealers out there, do you really think if an undercover had to be honest, that dealers wouldn’t ask first?
And for you gentlemen out there, if you have found a lady that you have truly enjoyed, or have come to care for, think carefully if you really want to put up such explicit reviews about her. Really a simple, yes you saw her, and so forth, should suffice for a review, and if anyone has any further questions, ask them to BC you.
And those of you writing to ladies, even talking in acronyms, and you go to a sting, you’re toast. You have implicated yourself just by walking in the door; you don’t even have to lay the money down or discuss anything.
Your best bet is to do some research if you can, go with your instinct, and know that if you do find yourself in hot water, that, unless you have drug paraphernalia on you, or any of the above that I mentioned, it’s a third degree (A class) misdemeanor. NY PL 230.04
Yes, it is humiliating, especially now that we have the internet to splash all of our info everywhere, but with the finances of our state, it is highly unlikely that you will serve hard time, but none the less, it’s better to be safe than sorry.