Yeah, I do get it. Many girls I met have that all business attitude. They don’t want to come and expend themselves. They feel if they get through the transaction, getting your money, without experiencing a hint of emotional or sexual activity, they preserved themselves, and won, kept it business, business transaction, like a smart business woman.
Overseas, I often visited a gorgeous Viet girl of the above description. I really liked her, and I knew that she would rather give me great service and get me off, and never really get involved sexually or emotionally.
But, she was so cute, every time, I just had to make her cum. Me, cumming, without seeing her get lit up was a buzzkill for me.
I used to meet her in the street before going upstairs. In the street, she would shake her head and roll her eyes upon seeing me. (She was attractive and a local favorite) She knew she was “cumming,” much to her dismay, and there was no way I was taking a “fakie.”
We had a really nice rapport. I never voiced my Modus Operandi to her. I just remained the innocent, ignorant, passive, stupid, dumb average John just there to unload ASAP. But, in reality I needed her to unleash her sexual aroma to make it a good night.
Had I ever aggressively let it be known my intentions, she would have built a wall around herself and it would have become competitive and she might never have yielded. It would have totally changed the dynamics. It all revolved around her premise that I was just that poor, dumb, stupid john that just needs too long to nut, and if she chose to take me on that day to increase her income, she would just have to surrender to the fact that she was getting wet and climaxing.
Sometimes, depending on the circumstances, it is good to hide your intentions and remain calm and humble to get what you need and want.