Men are wonderful..

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LIDAWN

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#1
I spent a couple of hours with a client the other day..
I have to tell you guys.. it was amazing.. We talked so much and so long.That the connection was amazing when the date proceeded as planned...It really made me think..
. I get turned on , there is no doubt, and I LOVE my work.... but this turn on started with conversation...He grabbed my mind and turned it on..
The excellent conversation made the date, only just incredible... the date i wish would never end.... like many others before...
Does this EVER happen to anyone else? Providers or clients?
The mental stimulation part that is as good as any sex and an even better precurser to the fact...
I have had this many times now... such wonderful chatter and lengthy talks.. I begin to feel, like I know you guys so well..... you are so honest and kind and thoughtful and fun.... The conversations are so genuine and open..
Makes a girl feel human and desirable in so many ways ,that it makes the job not a job , but a pleasure...
SO............ here is my point .. lol about time right..?
I was just wondering.. is this what it is really all about.. The sex or the connection?
What do you guys/ girls think..... what is the real reason for the hobby.... just curious..
Hugzz and kisses as always...
DAWN of long island

http://www.cajuncumfort.com




[Edited by LIDAWN on 03-31-2001 at 03:17 PM]
 
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Hotpuppy

Mr.Butterworth
#2
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I began the hobby in order to have sex with women that I was up to then invisible to and to explore certain areas of my nature that I hadnt been able to in my "regular" relationships. I discovered over the years that the best experiences with providers were those in which an intellectual and dare I say it spiritual/emotional connection (however slight) was made before the physical connecting. I now look upon this as a necessary component (for me) of the date. I have at times spent more time pursuing the former over the latter and felt every bit as satisfied.
Note to Dawn: I emailed you not long ago and received an auto , just curious, but can I look forward to hearing from you or have I already gotten my response, thanks, take care, hp
 
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RoosterC74

#3
#3
Response to the Cajun Princess

Dawn,

It all depends upon the male and female involved. In your case, and from personal experience, it was truly the connection. Although, that is not always the case in this hobby, it certainly is the case with you. I believe the reason for that is because you take great care in making each and every one of us feel comfortable with you. You have a keen way of reading people at first sight. You are open and warm, and share personal stories and experiences with us. Likewise we do the same with you. My experience with you was more like a long walk on the beach with someone that you wanted to get to know a bit better.

I believe that is why you, and a select few like you, are at another level. It is far more then just sex with the select few of you. As you stated in your post, it is truly a form of connection. It is getting to know someone on a new and better level. However, I certainly can not leave out that great amount of sexual energy that you enjoy also. Wink-Wink!
 
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RoosterC74

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Response To Hotpuppy

Hotpuppy,

From first hand experience with Dawn, I can tell you that you will be very fortunate if you have the opportunity to meet her. From what you described in your post about this topic, Dawn is the right gal for what you desire. She is warm, open, fun to be around, professional, and has a great personality. Dawn will make you comfortable within the first 5 or 10 minutes you meet with her. The screening process is for both her and your protection, but once you get through it, it is well worth it. I only wish the Jersey Shore was closer to Long Island.

[Edited by RoosterC74 on 03-31-2001 at 05:00 PM]
 
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Ozzy

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#5
dawn, to answer your question..... it happens more than i care to, much more. i've gotten in way too much trouble with "dates that you wish would never end".......

maybe it's my strong charismatic personality(LOL) or my sick sense of humor, but.....

i've got to start seeing more girls who don't listen so intently to what i say.




:cool:
 
Slinky Bender

Slinky Bender

The All Powerful Moderator
#6
#6
"i've got to start seeing more girls who don't listen so intently to what i say. "

Why do I see every woman on the board shaking thier head and thinking "Start going out with guys, then".
 
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nj george

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#7
sex or the connection?

dawn...took ya long enough to realize this sweetie! *just teasing!*

i don't think that there is any one catch all answer to that question. every one, i feel, (both clients and escorts alike) are in this for there own specific reasons. the motivation behind it i believe differs from person to person. i know of escorts that are in this for nothing more than the $$$$$. where, inspite of the sweet phoney exterior, they don't care a ratz ass about the client as a person. i know others that love the companionship aspect of the business and put up with the sex just to meet new people. and then there are others that truely enjoy both the companionship and the sex...which of course is mutually consentual and not part of the original business contract!!! and i think the same goes for clients as well. some just want sex, pure and simple, and will come across as nice people, but only because they have the agenda of eventually getting into your pants. others truely value the companionship aspect of the date in a sincere way and really want to get to know a lady, not just as a provider but as a human being with real feelings with strengths and weeknesses and insecurities and flaws just like anybody else. this is the way i approach my dates. i always try to get the human element to be present. and i always try to get to know the lady as a real person and make a connection on a personal level. not all escorts are receptive to this type of openness. but the ones that are BY FAR have shown me my most memorable times. it's not even open to debate. the ones that aren't open to it are sometimes just as phoney as the clients with an agenda. you know...the sweet exterior...but once they get their review, they don't want to know me. i only met dawn once, about a month or so ago, but the date was about 75% conversation. the rest of the time........we played cards. don't know how much she enjoyed it(the conversation) , but she was able to learn a few things about me and where i was comng from, and i learned a few things about her and i feel that it made the card playing much more interesting and fun*wink*

i can "get it" anytime i want to. about 10 min from my house is a massage place where they offer f/s. the girl's name is gina...hot petite asian woman in her thirties. gives you a wild ride complete with all the dirty talk you want. but 2 minutes after you are done she has her clothes on and is showing you the door...all in all a very empty experience in spite of the hot session.. it is the ladies that give a little of themselves in every session that are the gems. of course alot of this has to do with personal chemistry. but i have met a small handful(and i mean a very small handful) of escorts that are like this. and.....funny thing.....when i think back of my favorite dates they are always with these very special ladies. :) :)

know i've rambled a bit here but i hope this helps answer your question dawn.
 
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DannyNJ

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#8
Awwwww Dawn - you are such a sweetheart! I sincerely appreciate all those nice comments about our time together! I realize you don't want to reveal your clients, but after all those nice words - I'll fess up to the group that it was me you were referring to.

(NOTE: I'm full of shit. Never met Dawn, but would like to think she'd have that reaction to an appointment with me. But I DO hope to meet her someday if I ever get out to L.I. heh heh)
 
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LIDAWN

#9
#9
hotpuppy

i am not sure at all that i received anything from you.. obviously my error if you will just email me once again we can move quickly hrough this process.. sorry about it.. sometimes the mail is over whelming..

Goerge.. - yes it was lovely and yes we did spend a lot of time chatting and i do feel like i know you.. it was an extremely enjoyable afternoon.. after our chats on the phone it made the transition like seeing an old friend.. was really nice and relaxing.. so was the card playing. wink wink.... love those red cards best...
Rooster- as always you touch my heart... with those genuine words of yours that never fail to make me smile and blush... butterflies are always the fancy free sort.. wait till you see the new addition... the art continues as does the world around us.. my friend..

Slinky and ozzy... i guess i am gonna have to come to Jersy the week after the 8th and see you guys should i tell you when? hmmmmm....
xxoo
Dawn

I got my EZ pass the other day..
Hugz to my angels and to those i have not yet met a wink and nod..
I loved the variety of comments... very interesting....
 
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Ozzy

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#10
dawn....

neither of us are in jersey, so you can save on that EZ pass.

now slightly off topic, but here's one reason why i always say that some of the girls i meet in this business get tons more respect from me than many of the woman i meet in my personal life.....

there's this one girl who i've been seeing about once a week for about a month and the half now. during that same approx time i've been dating a girl who i've known thru friends for a year or so, since late january. now last night was a special night (in a way) for me and who do you think called me very late last night (3am) to ask how everything went.........

the real girlfriend who i've dated for 2 months and who absolutely knew of this special event, but couldn't attend it.

or the provider who i've only seen about half a dozen times and mentioned this event only briefly during some "pillow talk" last week (the last time i saw her)???


you got it.....the sweet provider called (knowing i'm up at those hours) to ask how everything went. we wound up talking for almost an hour and during that conversation i relized how much i was dating the wrong woman. perhaps this belongs in the "what you wish for" thread, but i just wanted to add a little of what dawn was perhaps getting at here......


:cool:




[Edited by Ozzy on 04-02-2001 at 08:38 AM]
 
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RoosterC74

#11
#11
Response to the Cajun Princess

Dawn,

Thanks for the kind words about my post that responded to your question. As I stated before, all that I have said about you is absolutely true. You are certainly a true gem found in the forest. Also, keep that wonderful butterfly flying-"free bird".
 
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Ezrlove

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#13
Sex is in the brain and there is no better turn on to me then a woman who can stimulate my mind. Dawn you bring so much to the table that most men can not appreciate you. To me, making a connection is what this hobby is all about.


I think its wonderful that you met a man that stimulated your mind, body and soul. I am sure it was very refreshing.


Just think Dawn, that is how you make us feel when we visit you. You are a beautiful person inside and out and have an enormously big heart. Finally somebody gave you what you give us, an overwhelming feeling of happiness.


Ez
 
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LIDAWN

#15
#15
candie you nut

It is i must confess a beautiful thing..
When this happens...
However ... as i said i have made this conection before .. it was just a nice reminder that there are still good men to be had in the world.. some are worth keeping and you make the time happen just so they can be near you for a bit longer.. you call the sitter and say can i have another hour of time lol
of course that rarely works out either the more time thing so asking sometimes is a moot point but the want is there...

As candie says ..
Yes i am hung like a bull watch me put it on.. giddiup..
hugzz and much love as always

xxoo
DAWN
 
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littleguy

Gold
#17
#17
JC,

Brother, and I thought I was cynical.

While you state a very clear and lucid case, you do not seem to allow for any exceptions, and, as we all know it's the exceptions that make the rule.

While I'd be willing to concede that the vast majority of the time the case you state so eloquently is probably true, I cannot believe that you do not allow for the exceptions, the times when the lady (or the gentleman) may be just real human beings, with real emotions and desires.

You portray the lady as being a money making machine and probably all too often that is the case. But does that apply to the part-timers also ? The ladies that hold a "normal" job, take out personal ads and see 1 or 2 guys a WEEK ? The newer professional on the scene that will see no more than 1 guy a day because otherwise SHE wouldn't enjoy it ?

"So let there be no more talk of romance and "connection" on this board"

With all due repect, I don't believe it's ANY of our decisions to say what can and cannot be discussed on this board. Personally, I'm not crazy about some of these fluffball conversations and mutual admiration society kinds of threads (although some of them are somewhat interesting), but you CAN ignore them if you want.
 
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Carl M

Hanging by a thread
#18
#18
Originally posted by LIDAWN
I spent a couple of hours with a client the other day..
I have to tell you guys.. it was amazing.. We talked so much and so long.That the connection was amazing when the date proceeded as planned...It really made me think..
. I get turned on , there is no doubt, and I LOVE my work.... but this turn on started with conversation...He grabbed my mind and turned it on..
The excellent conversation made the date, only just incredible... the date i wish would never end.... like many others before...
Does this EVER happen to anyone else? Providers or clients?
The mental stimulation part that is as good as any sex and an even better precurser to the fact...
I have had this many times now... such wonderful chatter and lengthy talks.. I begin to feel, like I know you guys so well..... you are so honest and kind and thoughtful and fun.... The conversations are so genuine and open..
Makes a girl feel human and desirable in so many ways ,that it makes the job not a job , but a pleasure...
SO............ here is my point .. lol about time right..?
I was just wondering.. is this what it is really all about.. The sex or the connection?
What do you guys/ girls think..... what is the real reason for the hobby.... just curious..
Hugzz and kisses as always...
DAWN of long island

Dawn all I have to say is time spent with you is like heaven- nothing else enters my mind when I am with you- you are that good!
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