I think some of the ladies who have been in the business for quite some time, or are older can probalby relate to what Slinky and others (me included) go through as we get older. When I was in my 20's, multiple pops in short periods of time was not an issue. Now, while I am in my 50's, on many meds for health reasons, our bodies don't perform like they used to. Now, if I pop once in 2 hours; great! I tell this to the ladies once we start in bed. Many of the mature ladies understand that. Why? We're human, and so are they! You want to perform like your 20? Take the blue pill. The younger providers don't understand, want to perform well for you, and please you. Yes, we're paying for it, and if you make it clear when they make the comment to you about you 'popping', just explain it. I have had some great 'oralfests' with a number of providers after the first pop. For me, after round one, the attempts after that are great, without the explosion. The ladies like it too...We just go non stop until they wear me out, or I need oxygen.......
Me personally, I like the older women, as they do get it, can relate to more of the 'personal side' of a person and not concentrate on the 'business' part of the performance and session.