Now, this isn't what you think it's going to be about: it's not about getting a bad review, or even a comment on her looks, ore even bad service.
I'm getting older and obviously my frequency of orgasm is diminished from when I was a teenager and could pop 5 times in a night. So, even if I'm having a good time with a girl, I'm not necessarily going to finish the session by popping. But what I'm finding lately is that girls seem to get really hurt/offended/whatever if I don't "finish". And I don't think it's just an act, because most of them stay WAYYYYYYY over any reasonable allotted time trying to get me to finish, and then when I'm too tired to go on (and I can tell they are too tired as well), they get all pouty, say things like "you don't like me", etc.
Now, this is commercial sex, bought and paid for. And I'm the one paying. So what's the big deal if I say I had a good time, but I'm tired or what-have-you? I can understand that part of it is thinking they won't get return business, but over 30 years I think I've gotten at least a little sense of when things are "real" and when they aren't, and a substantial amount of this seems to be genuine (especially if it's a girl who I go with on multiple occasions, and it almost didn't happen before or actually didn't happen before, and I still went back with them). And I never had the feeling that the girls I'm seeing have "pride in their work", but could I be wrong and that's it? Sounds unlikely.
I will add that the longer I've known a girl/more times I've been with her, the more this happens. But I'm not so sure I know exactly what the "it" is that's happening.
I'm getting older and obviously my frequency of orgasm is diminished from when I was a teenager and could pop 5 times in a night. So, even if I'm having a good time with a girl, I'm not necessarily going to finish the session by popping. But what I'm finding lately is that girls seem to get really hurt/offended/whatever if I don't "finish". And I don't think it's just an act, because most of them stay WAYYYYYYY over any reasonable allotted time trying to get me to finish, and then when I'm too tired to go on (and I can tell they are too tired as well), they get all pouty, say things like "you don't like me", etc.
Now, this is commercial sex, bought and paid for. And I'm the one paying. So what's the big deal if I say I had a good time, but I'm tired or what-have-you? I can understand that part of it is thinking they won't get return business, but over 30 years I think I've gotten at least a little sense of when things are "real" and when they aren't, and a substantial amount of this seems to be genuine (especially if it's a girl who I go with on multiple occasions, and it almost didn't happen before or actually didn't happen before, and I still went back with them). And I never had the feeling that the girls I'm seeing have "pride in their work", but could I be wrong and that's it? Sounds unlikely.
I will add that the longer I've known a girl/more times I've been with her, the more this happens. But I'm not so sure I know exactly what the "it" is that's happening.