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Recently I've run into this girl that appears at the local strip mall I frequent near my home. She's asked me for a cigarette on a couple of occasions.
Yesterday, I noticed her hanging by the deli and as I started to walk in she asked me for a cigarette. I said sure and returned to my car and pulled one out for her. When she asked me she was kind of squatted against the outside wall of the deli and I very easily noticed she wasn't wearing a bra. She was showing a great deal of her chest which was quite nice.
I gave her a cig and off she went.
This morning I saw her again and she made the motion for a cig. I gave her the one minute universal sign and went in to buy a pack. When I came out I started chatting with her.
I introduced myself and she told me her name and said told me she usually comes here in the morning for coffee. She said she was waiting on some form of public transportation to bring her to the doctor since I imagine she doesn't have a car. I told her that if she needed a ride somewhere just let me know. She said thanks, not today but she smiled and said thanks. I noticed that she didn't wait in the area for this van she mentioned but walked to a nearby apartment somewhere close by.
I guess she grubs cigs from various people, I just happen to be becoming a regular for her.
So my question is... what is the best way for me to proposition her for a car date (or maybe more) without knowing if she would be offended or want a regular type of relationship?
I've thought of mentioning how expensive cigarettes are now-a-days and that you need a part time job just to afford them and that I might know of a way for her to make some cash.
Still, I really have never crossed that line with a girl in terms of pay for play who may just be a girl struggling. With a SW there is no doubt that a service is provided but with an unknown like this how do I proposition her correctly. I don't have time to nuture her, just want to help us both out if ya catch my drift.
I don't want to insult her but I have a feeling she might be interested in this. Or maybe she's just interested in something good happening for her.
So, how about some feedback on this situation?
thanks
MC
Recently I've run into this girl that appears at the local strip mall I frequent near my home. She's asked me for a cigarette on a couple of occasions.
Yesterday, I noticed her hanging by the deli and as I started to walk in she asked me for a cigarette. I said sure and returned to my car and pulled one out for her. When she asked me she was kind of squatted against the outside wall of the deli and I very easily noticed she wasn't wearing a bra. She was showing a great deal of her chest which was quite nice.
I gave her a cig and off she went.
This morning I saw her again and she made the motion for a cig. I gave her the one minute universal sign and went in to buy a pack. When I came out I started chatting with her.
I introduced myself and she told me her name and said told me she usually comes here in the morning for coffee. She said she was waiting on some form of public transportation to bring her to the doctor since I imagine she doesn't have a car. I told her that if she needed a ride somewhere just let me know. She said thanks, not today but she smiled and said thanks. I noticed that she didn't wait in the area for this van she mentioned but walked to a nearby apartment somewhere close by.
I guess she grubs cigs from various people, I just happen to be becoming a regular for her.
So my question is... what is the best way for me to proposition her for a car date (or maybe more) without knowing if she would be offended or want a regular type of relationship?
I've thought of mentioning how expensive cigarettes are now-a-days and that you need a part time job just to afford them and that I might know of a way for her to make some cash.
Still, I really have never crossed that line with a girl in terms of pay for play who may just be a girl struggling. With a SW there is no doubt that a service is provided but with an unknown like this how do I proposition her correctly. I don't have time to nuture her, just want to help us both out if ya catch my drift.
I don't want to insult her but I have a feeling she might be interested in this. Or maybe she's just interested in something good happening for her.
So, how about some feedback on this situation?
thanks
MC