How do you guys stop?

Every time you get the urge to visit an AMP or whoever your thinking about getting your rocks off with, just jerk off and after that see if you really still need to go.
This has worked for me a few times. However, the older I get the less satisfying jerking off becomes. It also takes longer and I'm more distractable. It used to be that I'd just budget an extra ten mins in the shower every morning but no longer.
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
This has worked for me a few times. However, the older I get the less satisfying jerking off becomes. It also takes longer and I'm more distractable. It used to be that I'd just budget an extra ten mins in the shower every morning but no longer.
I honestly hate jerking off now.
It actually hurts when I cum and then my dick is dead for days.
Same thing with hand jobs which is one of the reasons I don't go to AMPs unless I know for sure I'll get at least a bj.

It's definitely an age thing, because like some of you I used to jerk off before going to a fast house so I would last a little longer.
 
I honestly hate jerking off now.
It actually hurts when I cum and then my dick is dead for days.
Same thing with hand jobs which is one of the reasons I don't go to AMPs unless I know for sure I'll get at least a bj.

It's definitely an age thing, because like some of you I used to jerk off before going to a fast house so I would last a little longer.
I liked your post because sadly, I feel the same.. While jerking off is not painful, it can be uncomfortable ( without that saliva touch) and I’ll lose interest for a while.. Yea, it sucks getting older and the one thing that scares me, is I’ll lose all interest in mongering which will leave me with little hobbies and not much to excite me
 
I honestly hate jerking off now.
It actually hurts when I cum and then my dick is dead for days.
Same thing with hand jobs which is one of the reasons I don't go to AMPs unless I know for sure I'll get at least a bj.

It's definitely an age thing, because like some of you I used to jerk off before going to a fast house so I would last a little longer.
Many times I've got the proper porn lined up, get started and then just don't go through with it out of stress, apathy, diminished sensitivity or whatever.

With respect to the pain, maybe this is of interest.

https://nyulangone.org/conditions/urethral-stricture-in-adults/diagnosis
 
I posted earlier in the thread but back again. For now it seems to be easier to stop Bc of lack of good,sane, reliable choices. Not worth the chase.

I was down to seeing just Belle and had a little misunderstanding that has since been rectified but I have stopped for a while, I believe 2 months

Now what is stopping me is health and weight. I don’t like myself, i feel gross and not very nice to look at. Belle is very nice to me and verbally as well but she deserves better than me. Also lower back pain makes certain movements painful.

trying to devote time to my health and maybe as I see bank account grow it will pull me away even more. However, the draw of Sophia Belle would be more than enough to make me fall of the wagon.
 
I honestly hate jerking off now.
It actually hurts when I cum and then my dick is dead for days.
Same thing with hand jobs which is one of the reasons I don't go to AMPs unless I know for sure I'll get at least a bj.

It's definitely an age thing, because like some of you I used to jerk off before going to a fast house so I would last a little longer.
Jerking off sometimes makes me feel like a loser or perv but then after i don't feel the need to waste my time with any hunting lol.
 
Jerking off sometimes makes me feel like a loser or perv but then after i don't feel the need to waste my time with any hunting lol.
agreed. On the off weekend morning or day off when you have idle time I find it’s easier to just jerk off to porn on the phone in bed than chase girls that won’t answer.

note to others. Make sure your iPhone isn’t linked to your iMac your wife is using and she comes storming in when it throws the website from your phone to safari.

Mid stroke she comes flying in asking why I am googling escorts. Caught off guard I was like WHAT!?!! She repeated and I quickly said “oh, it was one of those potential spam numbers that came up on my phone. I always google them before I block them. Good thing I blocked them.”

she never said another word but saw I was jerking off so she said let me finish you off. Turned out pretty well all things considered. Lol
 
note to others. Make sure your iPhone isn’t linked to your iMac your wife is using and she comes storming in when it throws the website from your phone to safari.
Yikes. Use Chrome and don't sync bookmarks and history. Better yet, use a separate browser like Firefox on your iPhone for all hobby research.
 
Yikes. Use Chrome and don't sync bookmarks and history. Better yet, use a separate browser like Firefox on your iPhone for all hobby research.
I usually don’t have them linked but I had just reinstalled a new OS on my Mac Bc Catalina OS screwed everything up. Finished at 2 am night before and forgot to uncheck the box in my Apple ID.

Events like that scare me and make
Me think I’m running out of luck after 11-12 years of doing this.
 
I usually don’t have them linked but I had just reinstalled a new OS on my Mac Bc Catalina OS screwed everything up. Finished at 2 am night before and forgot to uncheck the box in my Apple ID.

Events like that scare me and make
Me think I’m running out of luck after 11-12 years of doing this.
As my name implies I have many multiple accounts and log ins. When I use my own private laptop to surf I log on as a guest and not under my log in. Browsers are set not to save history. I do have "real" log ins / email accts / browser sync / google drives / MS cloud accts / etc for me and family members. But I also have my "dark" log ins / email accts / etc.

I first got this idea when windows began allowing multiple users and multiple user profiles for log ins. Why not create a "dark" user profile. It is easy enough to delete if need be and can be kept separate from all the others.

The upside to all this. I have had my kids and many SO use my laptop, even signing in as me without risk of discovery.
 
As my name implies I have many multiple accounts and log ins. When I use my own private laptop to surf I log on as a guest and not under my log in. Browsers are set not to save history. I do have "real" log ins / email accts / browser sync / google drives / MS cloud accts / etc for me and family members. But I also have my "dark" log ins / email accts / etc.

I first got this idea when windows began allowing multiple users and multiple user profiles for log ins. Why not create a "dark" user profile. It is easy enough to delete if need be and can be kept separate from all the others.

The upside to all this. I have had my kids and many SO use my laptop, even signing in as me without risk of discovery.
This is the ideal solution but it takes discipline. My problem with it is that while I can compartmentalize my data, I don't do that with my time. I may be doing something for work, or at least non-hobby-related, when I decide to take a break to check out UG or whatever.
 
Don’t do iron the morning you’ll be late for work
I jerked so much in the shower when I was younger im surprised a baby didnt climb up from the drain! Lol

Stayed away for a few years and usually only stay with one provider until they stop or I do. After that huge bust years ago and seeing guys faces in the paper scared the crap out of me. Also had a friend go away for some time because things got crazy out of control with a provider and she accused him of something i dont even want to repeat.

As to the the J/O thing , as im getting older , my SO does it better than me and ive never nutted better in my life than with her, problem is shes rarely in the mood and have different work schedules.

Its like any other addiction , you will stop when you want, just be safe out there with LE lerking around. Research the providers!
 
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