So I bring to your attention an interesting situation ...I think.
I run a business that has more than 1 location. Decided I need to put out an ad for help both for management & workers. Get a response from a woman with a hispanic name. I call the contact # and nowadays NOONE answers there phone so I send a text introducing myself & why I called. Think nothing of it, until.....
I get a call back an hour later with "Hello is this _ _ _ _ _ _? in an almost giggly, excited tone from an older (as in older than 21) sounding hispanic female voice.Turns out it is a woman who worked directly for me almost 24 years ago.
She was a subordinate and I did not want to shit were I ate but We Absolutely Flirted like fuckin crazy. Right up until the day. That I was being transfered and taking on a new position. In line with that was the fact that she had put her notice in to pursue going back to school for the career she had in El Salvador. So I determined that my last week I would go further and see what happens. She really was not the most beautiful nor curvy figured lass but had the sexiest "fuck me" demanor about her, always with a smile or laughing and a naturally plump set of DSLs that had me wondering what could be & rock hard any time we brushed against each other or flirted. Found out from a coworker that she had definitely told people she was into me. She had a crappy arranged marraige(soon to be Ex) and a son. One day I found the opportunity to take her home from work by staying needlessly later myself, thinking Game On!
Within the 20 min ride to her apartment, we brushed and touched hands flirted and talked, and she told me to stop just after we entered the complex, where the flirting turned to a short make out session with roaming hands. Told me she would have me in but her son was home with a sitter. So proceeded to drive to her section and dropped her off. More flirting and brushing against each other at work the next few days, making plans to see each other outside work that never came to fruition.
So the conundrum is what to do now.
Based on 3 phone calls yesterday to try and arrange meeting for "an interview", she is flirtatious as ever. Then tells me that she tested + for COVID so can't meet in person for a week. But says "you have my # call me any time".
The parameters:
- I'm separated Not Divorced, by mutual agreement but part of that is not to embarrass anyone by having any relationships visible to either family or kids(even though they're grown). I still take care of her financially in a large way. That's our gig, It works, please don't criticize.
- I have a GF for 10 years now, that I am actually Very comitted to, and who is incredibly satisfying to me. But to be honest, we have split up 2-3 times for about a month at a clip.(hence my Sophia B dalliances in the past) and right now we seem to be heading for another.
- My GF & I have been working together for 5 of the past 10 years and thus far been able to manage that relationship.But the bottom line is should I even indulge the fantasy...Worlds could Collide
So many unanswered questions: But the first is how / where to initiate first meet. And Not fuck it up for either the NPFP opportunity nor to lose a possibly still very skilled worker.
Your UG thoughts??