Fisting
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I am not saying you have to like it. We all have different bodies and like different things. But if that is all you get out of it then there just isn't enough foreplay. There are a lot of nerve endings down there. Tickling, teasing, licking, and insertion of a finger or small vibrator are all activities that many people enjoy and don't make you feel that way. If you enjoy that stuff, eventually you want may want more.
Just decided I had more to add, and while I could try to edit the previous message, I know that there is no way in hell I'll get it typed quickly enough...
To give an example of the wanting more part...
It is no secret that I love ass play. I love when a girl plays with my ass and I love playing with the ass of whomever I am with, provided that they are into it.
Until this week, I haven't been for a strap-on session in a very long time. Years. The reason is, while I have always enjoyed the feeling of something up my ass, it was always a finger or a vibrator. The few times I got fucked by a girl with a strap-on I didn't enjoy it so much. I liked when it first went in, but not the in and out thrusting. I think it was a little of the "have to go to the bathroom" feeling.
But this week I decided to give it a go again. I went to a strap-on specialist and told her that while I enjoy being penetrated, I don't really care for the in and out thrusting. But as we went along, I got so worked up that I did, indeed, want it. Go figure.
I didn't particularly love her, so now I am looking for someone else who is into that, but that is besides the point.
I am not saying everyone has to like it. But don't rule it out until you've tried it the right way.
Hell, I used to hate Guacamole, until I had someone's home made version that was amazing. Now I like regular plain old guacamole. It just took that one good experience to change my perspective.
To give an example of the wanting more part...
It is no secret that I love ass play. I love when a girl plays with my ass and I love playing with the ass of whomever I am with, provided that they are into it.
Until this week, I haven't been for a strap-on session in a very long time. Years. The reason is, while I have always enjoyed the feeling of something up my ass, it was always a finger or a vibrator. The few times I got fucked by a girl with a strap-on I didn't enjoy it so much. I liked when it first went in, but not the in and out thrusting. I think it was a little of the "have to go to the bathroom" feeling.
But this week I decided to give it a go again. I went to a strap-on specialist and told her that while I enjoy being penetrated, I don't really care for the in and out thrusting. But as we went along, I got so worked up that I did, indeed, want it. Go figure.
I didn't particularly love her, so now I am looking for someone else who is into that, but that is besides the point.
I am not saying everyone has to like it. But don't rule it out until you've tried it the right way.
Hell, I used to hate Guacamole, until I had someone's home made version that was amazing. Now I like regular plain old guacamole. It just took that one good experience to change my perspective.
Most women have never had strap-on sex with a guy at all. Many who even offer it have had it with women, but guess what? They way a woman likes to get fucked in her pussy isn't necessarily the same way a guy likes to get fucked in his ass.
Here's a big present for any of you girls who want to ad this to your repetoir:
First, find out how often the gets it. If it's "all the time" he's probably looking to get pounded. But if it's once in a while to never/first time, here's the trick:
a) Find out if he wants to do missionary or doggie.
b) If doggie, slowly enter him but make sure that you press your tits up against his back. Once in, don't do long strokes, do more grinding, but full body grinding (take a look at some of the "body slide" videos of the Japanese "soapies" that have been posted here) while reaching around and giving him a hand job with long. slow strokes (not the quick jerky type that some girls use to "finish up". Make sure to stroke ALL the way down to the base, and then ALL the way up to the point where the bottom of your hand almost loses contast with the tip (i.e. the longest possible stroke).
c) If missionary (face to face), use plenty of lube, place a hand on each side of his torso at about nipple high, throw his legs over your arms at about elbow level, and insert just enough of the tip so that you are sure if you thrust forward you have the correct angle to go all the way in. Then lean forward and shove your tongue as far down his throat as you can and slowly lean forward pushing "your cock" inside him. He is probably going to squirm a bit, and you have to pay very close attention to his level of pain. When you sense him getting too uncomfortable, before he has to tell you to stop; stop, DON'T MOVE (don't pull out either), take your tongue out of his mouth and whisper in his ear "ok. everything is ok, just relax". then wait a few seconds for him to relax, and when you feel his tension has subsided, stick your tongue back in his mouth and repeat.
Here's a big present for any of you girls who want to ad this to your repetoir:
First, find out how often the gets it. If it's "all the time" he's probably looking to get pounded. But if it's once in a while to never/first time, here's the trick:
a) Find out if he wants to do missionary or doggie.
b) If doggie, slowly enter him but make sure that you press your tits up against his back. Once in, don't do long strokes, do more grinding, but full body grinding (take a look at some of the "body slide" videos of the Japanese "soapies" that have been posted here) while reaching around and giving him a hand job with long. slow strokes (not the quick jerky type that some girls use to "finish up". Make sure to stroke ALL the way down to the base, and then ALL the way up to the point where the bottom of your hand almost loses contast with the tip (i.e. the longest possible stroke).
c) If missionary (face to face), use plenty of lube, place a hand on each side of his torso at about nipple high, throw his legs over your arms at about elbow level, and insert just enough of the tip so that you are sure if you thrust forward you have the correct angle to go all the way in. Then lean forward and shove your tongue as far down his throat as you can and slowly lean forward pushing "your cock" inside him. He is probably going to squirm a bit, and you have to pay very close attention to his level of pain. When you sense him getting too uncomfortable, before he has to tell you to stop; stop, DON'T MOVE (don't pull out either), take your tongue out of his mouth and whisper in his ear "ok. everything is ok, just relax". then wait a few seconds for him to relax, and when you feel his tension has subsided, stick your tongue back in his mouth and repeat.
Sounds unusual. Did he also grow in height? I had freinds who shot up after high school, but I have no idea if there cocks got bigger.
If you had pain in your pelvis it might have been he was hitting your cervix. If you weren't properly aroused then your vaginal cavity didn't have a chance to drop down and allow the penis to penatrate at an angle where the cavity actually goes under the cervix. Some one once posted a link here that shows what happens. I think it is in a thread I started about short vaginal cavities.
If you had pain in your pelvis it might have been he was hitting your cervix. If you weren't properly aroused then your vaginal cavity didn't have a chance to drop down and allow the penis to penatrate at an angle where the cavity actually goes under the cervix. Some one once posted a link here that shows what happens. I think it is in a thread I started about short vaginal cavities.
ummmmmmm....... assuming it's in the P4P context, I was going under the assumption the guys was paying for it.
But it does bring up a tangential issue: there are lots of girls who would consider, or actively engage in strap-on play. Now, for "hard-core' guys, they will ask women walking down the street to do it, but for mosts guys, it's not something they will bring up with a woman unless they already know she's up for it. So, there's a lot of potential for this type of play which doesn't occur because neither party talks about it (het, it's gay, y'know.......).
There is a girl who used to bartend at an underground spot where I've thrown parties. She's pretty much a hardcore lesbian, and her only "hetero" sex is for pay. But she does like using a strap on (sidenote: I know for girls; she claims for guys too, but I'm not 100% on that). So, even though she isn't the type of girl I would usually have at one of my events, I invited her and her girlfriend to my last event. I explained to her that it was under the strict condition that she was there to do strap-on shows, not to spend a lot of time in the VIP (The second condition of them coming was that they not smoke before they showed up), and that the whole reason - from her end - was for guys to see her as a strap-on queen, and she would get plenty of curious guys after the party. I told her she'd get calls from guys "Hi. I saw you at the party the other week". And she'd answer "OK, what can I do for you?", and she'd get "Um....... welll.... I saw you with your girlfriend". She'd go "Oh, you want a lesbian show?" and they's be all "Ummm... no..... ummm.........". Point being that guys won't ask for it even if they really want it, so you have to rub their nose in it.
Of course, they both showed up stoned out of their skulls and ended up not doing a single show. And she wonders why I got mad and won't talk to her anymore. (To M: this is exactly the type of shit I was talking about why I don't blame SC management for various things).
But it does bring up a tangential issue: there are lots of girls who would consider, or actively engage in strap-on play. Now, for "hard-core' guys, they will ask women walking down the street to do it, but for mosts guys, it's not something they will bring up with a woman unless they already know she's up for it. So, there's a lot of potential for this type of play which doesn't occur because neither party talks about it (het, it's gay, y'know.......).
There is a girl who used to bartend at an underground spot where I've thrown parties. She's pretty much a hardcore lesbian, and her only "hetero" sex is for pay. But she does like using a strap on (sidenote: I know for girls; she claims for guys too, but I'm not 100% on that). So, even though she isn't the type of girl I would usually have at one of my events, I invited her and her girlfriend to my last event. I explained to her that it was under the strict condition that she was there to do strap-on shows, not to spend a lot of time in the VIP (The second condition of them coming was that they not smoke before they showed up), and that the whole reason - from her end - was for guys to see her as a strap-on queen, and she would get plenty of curious guys after the party. I told her she'd get calls from guys "Hi. I saw you at the party the other week". And she'd answer "OK, what can I do for you?", and she'd get "Um....... welll.... I saw you with your girlfriend". She'd go "Oh, you want a lesbian show?" and they's be all "Ummm... no..... ummm.........". Point being that guys won't ask for it even if they really want it, so you have to rub their nose in it.
Of course, they both showed up stoned out of their skulls and ended up not doing a single show. And she wonders why I got mad and won't talk to her anymore. (To M: this is exactly the type of shit I was talking about why I don't blame SC management for various things).
I dated this girl awhile back. When we first started fooling around, I realize she had a nice little tight pussy. She loved to be eaten. It gripped my cock just right and we had a great time. Once time I had her on her back and was eating her. She loved that and would get slimy wet. I inserted a finger and it was tight and warm. But she was soaked. So I pushed 2 fingers into her. She grasped. Then I ate her and finger fucked her. Then I started the twist action and she was going nuts. My fingers and my hand were all wet, from her natural lubricant and my spit. I pushed three fingers into her and she was going nuts. I started to twist. It took a little effort, but she just opened right up. I was thrusting with three and then started took my pinky and pushed it in. Now I was thrusting and started the twist. She had her head on the bed and her back was arched!!! She was gripping the sheets like she was about to tear them apart. My hand was soaked and I just folded my thumb into my palm and pushed it in further. AI was literally shocked. Her tight little pussy now had the widest part of my had in her!!!She took the widest part and she was loving it. I looked at my watch and decided I would stop when her lips were at the band. I mean she already had the widest part in her, She should be able to take the rest of my had easily. Since it was tapering down in size. But I screwed up. As I was making my little thrust, I curled my finger tips and felt my middle finger run against her wall. She lept of my like she sat on a a hot stove!!!! She yelled, "take it easy!!! You are being too rough. I am very tight down there"
I was thinking, Yeah right!!! Needless to say I stayed with her for another few weeks and I stopped seeing her. if a girl is turned on enough, she can fit alot in her pussy!!!
I was thinking, Yeah right!!! Needless to say I stayed with her for another few weeks and I stopped seeing her. if a girl is turned on enough, she can fit alot in her pussy!!!
someone asked me to post about fisting...
...but it seems you are all off on another topic now!
At any rate, i am presenting for http://domsubfriends.com at http://paddlesnyc.com Friday night on the topic of fisting. If you come out and you get a chance to talk to me, let me know you saw it on this board.
i have to go now, but i will come back later and fix up my profile and look around your board to see what it is all about.
Thanks to the one that invited me!
Danielle
...but it seems you are all off on another topic now!
At any rate, i am presenting for http://domsubfriends.com at http://paddlesnyc.com Friday night on the topic of fisting. If you come out and you get a chance to talk to me, let me know you saw it on this board.
i have to go now, but i will come back later and fix up my profile and look around your board to see what it is all about.
Thanks to the one that invited me!
Danielle