Fisting
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I'm not a fan of that either. Again, most of my experiences with it have been painful. The only times I've actually sort of enjoyed it were when I was so drunk that I couldn't really feel much of anything, which sort of defeats the whole purpose. The idea being fucked in the ass was psychologically appealing because it's sort of naughty and taboo, but physically speaking it's only been tolerable at best.
I guarantee you, if I were to put my hand inside you, or penetrate your asshole, I would not hurt you. A partner who really cares will not push you to the point of pain*, unless that's what you want.
* "pain" is somewhat relative. I'm talking about pain that will immediately make you want to stop whatever is causing it. Often, if you tell yourself very mild pain is really discomfort, you won't feel it as pain. And often, mild pain is almostly completely ignored when accompanied by intense pleasure.
* "pain" is somewhat relative. I'm talking about pain that will immediately make you want to stop whatever is causing it. Often, if you tell yourself very mild pain is really discomfort, you won't feel it as pain. And often, mild pain is almostly completely ignored when accompanied by intense pleasure.
Actually the way Franca explains it I can see why a woman, if done right, would enjoy fisting. A provider I used to see weekly told me she liked the fuck me because my cock 'filled her up'. She liked that it pushed her open. I have also read that women like thick cocks because it applies pressure to the walls of the vagina and this is where the pleasure comes in. So getting fisted would be like having a really thick cock fuck you, I imagine a fist would really 'fill you up'.
The term "fist-fucking" can be misleading. Most people don't really "fuck" with their entire hand. Fisting (usually) means slowly inserting the fingers, followed by the thumb (making a "swan head" with the hand), then pushing the rest of the way in. Once the whole hand is inside, it naturally curls up into a fist. When you're that full, you can really feel the slightest movement. In-and-out action, like with regular intercourse, is only for advanced players. Punch-fucking (making a fist first, then inserting) can really rip you up if you're not very loose already.
It's actually a funny story. The guy I lost my virginity to in high school didn't go away to college, so many times when I went home to visit my family during breaks from school we'd run into eachother. One night I was sleeping in my old bedroom and heard rocks hitting my window. I knew it was him right away because he used to wake me up like that all the time when we were younger so that I could sneak out and fuck him on the front lawn. Anyway, I woke up and met him outside and we ended up doing it just like old times, except for one major difference.... his cock had gotten HUGE since the last time I'd seen it (which was probably 3 or 4 years prior).
No, he didn't fuck me particularly hard or anything. It was just too big to feel comfortable inside me. I kept getting shooting pains through my pelvis and eventually had to ask him to stop.
No, he didn't fuck me particularly hard or anything. It was just too big to feel comfortable inside me. I kept getting shooting pains through my pelvis and eventually had to ask him to stop.