Bi-Sexual Men

[magicfingersny]

Magic, this post is the most beautiful, readable thing you have ever posted.


Btw, NYC55, saying that you are open minded after posting that you are either gay or not gay and that you cannot claim being not gay if you enjoyed gettting blow by a man seems contradictory at best. I'm glad you have a gay business partner and if he believes that there is a gay man lurking in every man, you seemingly have found a kindred spirit. I thnk there is a lot of gray area in this topic.

Thanks Retox!
It is interesting that someone with such anti gay views ended up with a gay as a business partner IMHO! There is a term in Psychololy called transference.
JMHO but the way to try to get someone to accept your OPINION is not to curse them out & insult them! I don't think there is any segment of industry that doesn't have a mix of sexual identities that vary from straight to bi to gay to poly and along many points along the line, with few fitting into a tight little box with no variation!

 

[Retoxicate]

I have no idea what you just said nor do I care.

Story of my life.

 

[magicfingersny]

nyc your hostility is so overflowingit and is palpable.
My first review was probably about a year ago shortly after I joined, followed by quite a few others. Again read the header on the thread and go chill!
Stop pointing fingers at everyone else instead of responding what was addressed to you & again.
PLEASE TAKE IT OUT OF THIS THREAD!
No further response necessary!
Have a good day!

 

[NYC55]

Actually I didn't mean you are either gay or straight. Yes you can be bi. I just feel that if you are interested/curious in getting a blow job from another man, maybe that person has repressed feeling that they need to examine. there is nothing wrong with this. to each his own.

 

[NYC55]

nyc your hostility is so overflowingit and is palpable.
My first review was probably about a year ago shortly after I joined, followed by quite a few others. Again read the header on the thread and go chill!
Stop pointing fingers at everyone else instead of responding what was addressed to you & again.
PLEASE TAKE IT OUT OF THIS THREAD!
No further response necessary!
Have a good day!

there are several people here with hostility. I am just reacting. People here don't like it if somone has an ppposite view of their own. I am done.

 

[Retoxicate]

Actually I didn't mean you are either gay or straight. Yes you can be bi. I just feel that if you are interested/curious in getting a blow job from another man, maybe that person has repressed feeling that they need to examine. there is nothing wrong with this. to each his own.

I think that is very different than what you said before. I would basically agree with this.

 

[magicfingersny]

Ditto!
Just my own life experience, if I am hostile towards someone,I have learned to probably expect a hostile response back and I know I can be hostile. Trying to change after almost 60 years from initialy being pretty passive and not standing u for myself to the othere extreme and now chilling takes some real practice. I am only talking about myself here for illustrative purposes!

 

[Retoxicate]

Ditto!
Just my own life experience, if I am hostile towards someone,I have learned to probably expect a hostile response back and I know I can be hostile. Trying to change after almost 60 years from initialy being pretty passive and not standing u for myself to the othere extreme and now chilling takes some real practice. I am only talking about myself here for illustrative purposes!

Do you work for the post office?

 

[justlooking]

Actually I didn't mean you are either gay or straight. Yes you can be bi. I just feel that if you are interested/curious in getting a blow job from another man, maybe that person has repressed feeling that they need to examine. there is nothing wrong with this. to each his own.

Oh. OK. Why didn't you say that in the first place?

 

[marcinny]

Story of my life.

(Chuckle)

 

[mattramsey]

I'm a pretty open minded guy and I'm certain that this thread states "No Trolls" so anyone with negative comments should be banned... with that said, I have been with over 100 women and never considered myself gay, I don't like ass play, even a tongue or a finger in there...lol...I have a few gay friends and find men repulsive, but a couple of years ago, I had an experience in a strip club with a gorgeous asian dancer , she was all over me, I was really drunk and just went with the flow, into a private room, we were making out and I was playing with her, fingering her pussy and she started stroking my cock and the next thing I know, she takes out a condom, and does a reverse cowgirl on my cock in her ass! I finish up and she gives me her number, mind u I was trashed...about 15 minutes later another dancer I was talking to earlier comes over and starts telling me that I was with a post op ts, and she is freaking out on me, I get pissed and throw the number out and get a ride home. The next few weeks, I really started questioning my sexuality, how could this be, I was always the classic womanizer, now I'm gay and I fucked a dude! But, it was awesome So, I started looking for hot ts girls, I'm not attracted to regular guys but there's something so hot and erotic about a feminine ts, I have had alot of encounters, but I don't consider myself gay, I still love women, but have a secret fetish. I could never tell my friends or my wife...lol...I was wondering what anyone thinks about this or if they have had similar experiences, I am not confused, I only wish I could find that number...lol!

 

[Slinky Bender]

You've got thousands of other guys jut like you.

 

[its_mousey]

"...I was wondering what anyone thinks about this or if they have had similar experiences, I am not confused, I only wish I could find that number...lol!"

Hmmm, I know exactly what you mean. However, I do admit that you picked one very interesting screename/handle.

*Squeak!*

 

[NYC55]

I'm a pretty open minded guy and I'm certain that this thread states "No Trolls" so anyone with negative comments should be banned... with that said, I have been with over 100 women and never considered myself gay, I don't like ass play, even a tongue or a finger in there...lol...I have a few gay friends and find men repulsive, but a couple of years ago, I had an experience in a strip club with a gorgeous asian dancer , she was all over me, I was really drunk and just went with the flow, into a private room, we were making out and I was playing with her, fingering her pussy and she started stroking my cock and the next thing I know, she takes out a condom, and does a reverse cowgirl on my cock in her ass! I finish up and she gives me her number, mind u I was trashed...about 15 minutes later another dancer I was talking to earlier comes over and starts telling me that I was with a post op ts, and she is freaking out on me, I get pissed and throw the number out and get a ride home. The next few weeks, I really started questioning my sexuality, how could this be, I was always the classic womanizer, now I'm gay and I fucked a dude! But, it was awesome So, I started looking for hot ts girls, I'm not attracted to regular guys but there's something so hot and erotic about a feminine ts, I have had alot of encounters, but I don't consider myself gay, I still love women, but have a secret fetish. I could never tell my friends or my wife...lol...I was wondering what anyone thinks about this or if they have had similar experiences, I am not confused, I only wish I could find that number...lol!

I'm glad that this turned out ok for you. what sc was this? I just don't think it's right for an sc to employ a ts.

 

[Herr_Doktor]

If you have a choice of a good looking guy to have sex with and a good looking woman to have sex with, you pick the guy your gay, you pick the women your straight.

This is the wrong question. Here are some better ones:

--If you have a choice of sex with a good looking guy or NO sex, which would you pick? Is sex with a guy better than no sex at all? It is for a lot of guys.

-- If you had the choice of an absolute hag of a woman to give you a BJ, or a gorgeous, effeminate crossdresser, which would you choose? The woman, after all, is hideous, but the man is the very embodiment of feminine beauty.

-- If you could have sex with a gorgeous post-op M2F transexual, or a butch pre-op F2M transexual, which would you choose? The "woman" actually was born a man, and the manly looking one is, biologically, entirely female.


None quite as simple as the choice quoted, but all really just as irrelevant to "defining" someone's sexuality.

The truth is that sexuality is a spectrum, with people falling on all parts of it, and labels are senseless. I had a friend (still do) who was a real ladies man, very into very thin, very YOUNG women, and once he was married cheated with the type behind his wife's back whenever he could, for years. Turned out, so I learned, he also liked to go down on athletic black guys. Is he gay? I dunno. I don't care, it's his business. If he had sexual interest in white guys, I never saw it, he certainly never hit on me, and for all I know he had other arcane sexual interests that I never heard of at all. At any rate, his sexual activity, in the aggregate, did not seem to fit into any easy categorization of "gay" or "straight", or even the commonly held view of "bi", so why try?

 

[Kingaddictx]

I'm not attracted to regular guys but there's something so hot and erotic about a feminine ts, I have had alot of encounters, but I don't consider myself gay, I still love women, but have a secret fetish. I could never tell my friends or my wife...lol...I was wondering what anyone thinks about this or if they have had similar experiences, I am not confused, I only wish I could find that number...lol!

Your not alone trust me.

I remember reading a study about a year ago on internet porn. It said somthing to the effect of 70% of all online shemale porn customers i.d. as straight and don't see it as gay porn. So your def not alone. I'd go so far as to say most dudes into trannys are like you.

I think a large part of it is the fact that (in the industry at least) the trannys REALLY DO LOOK LIKE WOMEN.

I think this conversation/topic has been talked to death (especailly in regards to trannys), thou not on this board. It basically always boils down to an "your either gay or not" vs "some people are just open" debate. Nice to see some more open minded people expressing some broarder views and arguments.

I personally think sexuality is BS. We're all born blank slates and make it up as we grow older, based on social and personal perference factors. Acts that we consider "gay" now, were seen as manly or even honorable, in other past socities (greece and japan spring to mind).

We should all just do what we enjoy and stop all the second guessing and judging.