Quick Comment......
I have to say I have been impressed with the emails I received in the past few days regarding this little incident. All of which were the furthest thing from hate mail… so a simple thank you is in order.
Fish:
I want to make it clear that in no way am I starting a flame war as you so described in your first response. I was not going to reply again but felt it was necessary after you decided to post a second time "reiterating" your view. What I said in my post was just that. The facts of what occurred in a public arena and the details that occurred prior and also the weeks after. I threw no insults, slander nor disrespect.
However you mentioned something in your initial post that clearly implicates that I wasn't intelligent enough to figure out that the post was intended to discuss the manners of some providers.
Originally posted by fishfry
...I was making a point about manners, as everybody else on this thread figured out.
You also mentioned:
Originally posted by fishfry
My preference would be that anybody with an axe to grind about another member of our community would do it offline and not start more rumors and pissing contests on the UG board.
And definitely not on my thread.
Thaks for listening.
fish
I noticed in your review of Amber and Friends that you not only posted the original review... But you added
four more additional posts.
http://www.utopiaguide.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=1172
I know you had a bad time, but this is quite excessive. It almost looks like you were on a mission.
I know you've always advocated reviews especially about the bad ones...
Originally posted by fishfry
For a number of reasons men simply don't publicly expose mediocre service via reviews.
<snip>
Because of the intimate and personal nature of services rendered, this will always be a ymmv business. I do wish more guys would expose bad service though.
fish
Your preferences are noted, but please bear in mind that there were no rumors and in no way a challenge to a pissing contest. If you reread my post there is no mention of me being offended by the UG member (incidentally he never emailed me nor did I ever email him an invite, I believe B2S brought him) who took her away. I was not with them after I left so I refrain from presuming anything. I simply stated the events as they took place.
I surmised my letter with what was clearly an opinion. These opinions are what keep the "balance" on a board such as this.
Fish, I enjoy your posts. You add a lot to this board and for that I credit you.
As you can see in my original post, I was disappointed that I missed out on Brenda. I said that I knew writing this would definitely ruin any chances of meeting her. The truth of the matter is that I would not see her at all, free session or no free session. I felt the post was very relevant to the topic. I felt I was not only "dicked over" that night but also in the weeks after.
So as I mentioned three strikes... she's gone from my playbook.
I have no ill will toward her and wish her all the best. I know the guys love her so I am sure she is at no loss of appointments.
As for me.... I'll have to go back to the 'ol reliables..
I've never played the role of a white night and I don't think this has any mention of me trying to be that. White night implies a rescue. I know nothing of any Provider other than. Make an appointment...try and have fun.
Julie's (Think I will call now in fact) and some of the better independents.
I will post nothing further regarding this.
John J
[Edited by JohnJ on 08-18-2001 at 05:07 PM]