This might be a whoreboard and, IMO, there's nothing wrong with that. And there's nothing wrong with people making informed choices on the activities in which they want to engage.
But, also IMHO, there's nothing wrong with reminding people of the dangers of BBFS any time the topic comes up. I'm not saying they should not be allowed to make their own choices, and I'm not saying that the information should be presented in a judgmental way, just that their choice should definitely be an informed one.
For those of you who assume that everyone on this board is knowledgeable about the risks of BBFS and STDs, I'd ask you to look at some of the incredibly ignorant (not in the pejorative sense, some people are just uninformed) posts in various UG threads. I don't see why there's a problem with bringing up that danger each and every time BBFS is discussed. If even ONE person gets information they didn't have, that's a victory for UG. Then that one person can make an INFORMED choice about their activities.
By all means, post lists of providers that offer BBFS; if people want to know that information, they should be able to get it here. But also remind them explicitly of the possible ramifications. I know that sounds redundant, but pleasure and STDs are both important topics here. Neither one of them should be censored.
To the people who so strongly feel that the dangers of BBFS should be confined only to threads ABOUT that topic, I'd reply that if that were true, and if someone were to read a thread about BBFS WITHOUT any such information because you had discouraged it so vehemently, and that person engaged in BBFS and then contracted HIV, YOU would be culpable to a degree for discouraging the dissemination of information that could have saved their life. It's still primarily their responsibility, of course, but why would you want to play even a small role in something like that?
Peace out.