swiggy said:
Almost everyone here has liked a provider more than they should. Take yourself out of the picture and make it your best friend. He tells you all you have told us, and you have never met the girl.Are you gonna say "Hey Joe thats great!!! keep barebacking her and try to make her your girl"? Everyone here is not your best friend so you arent gonna get subtle advice. But it is good advice, but you dont wanna take it because you like her to much already.Ever think she might be looking for the overpay again? i know you are gonna get mad at what im saying but i just dont believe you are thinking this through.
No. I',m not mad at what you're saying.
First, she never suggested this - it just happened. Truly.
(BTW, have you read the thread entitled "BBBFS" and
how to get it) Interesting reading, and I thought the
author was a bit nuts to really pursue this activity.
Second, this happened only once to me before - first girl
I ever had sex with at an AMP. She quit, we became
"boyfriend & girlfriend". The normal arrangement where
everyone gets what they want, and along the way, you
go out and have some fun, have dinner, etc. I am evaluating
what may or may not be happening here. Maybe the same,
maybe not. But I never liked her "more than I should", which of
course is incredibly subjective.
If it was my friend, I would want to know a lot more
about the conversations, and where he thought it might be leading.
I would ask him what he wants out of this, and find out from
the girl what she wants with this. I have had these conversations
with some friends already in their own situations, and I am taking stock similarly of my own situation before I proceed. If she and I have
a match, great, if not, that's OK too! Plenty out there.
Only then could I give him a well thought out opinion.
Sure I like her. I've liked others too, and still do. As for the
the overpay - she never asked, never said a word, and
neither did I. Smart on both our parts.
This is from two subsequent visits. Ironically,
perhaps that overpay suggested to her that I
had a fat bank account, and gave her one of her
reasons to pursue this further.
To Kunny - what's with the "you gotta let it go" pyschobabble?
This is just conversation in a thread on a PMB. I am well grounded,
successful, and enjoy this hobby. You a shrink wannabe?
And I guess you never heard of YMMV. Everyone gets the same service from
the same girl, right? Never occurs that one guy, through whatever
his means/experience/character/cleanliness/appearance gets it all, and another gets nothing, and another guy gets something in the middle?
(I am not talking about the F/S places where everyone gets it)
And where I went is NOT of those. Not to mention getting certain
extra extras at a F/S joint.