Accidental Overpay

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Ryanscot

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#1
You go to an AMP, have a nice time, and plan on tipping the
girl $120. You forget you had a benji in your wallet, and give
her the last 6 bills, a total of $200. What do you do??
I also just got her # on a first visit.

Do I call her and explain it to her, and mention that next time,
we need to take that into account.

Don't call her, but tell her on the next visit what happened, and
to "take it into account".

Ignore it, and give the normal tip the next time?

Or something else?

Note I do plan on seeing her again - she was a good one.
 
M

MegaSquirt

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#2
Ryanscot.....Don't say anything. On the next trip....pretend you only have an extra twenty and a few singles in your wallet, she'll understand. She wants you to continue to see her.
PS-which AMP did you goto? Care to give us a little review? Thanks.
 
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Truth

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#3
i vote ......

Ignore it and give the normal tip the next time.

I would NOT try to cancel it out, as the previous poster recommended, by giving her $20 the next time.

Take the $80 "hit" (shit happens) and don't fuck up a good thing.
 
Slinky Bender

Slinky Bender

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#4
#4
Truth said:
Ignore it and give the normal tip the next time.

I would NOT try to cancel it out, as the previous poster recommended, by giving her $20 the next time.

Take the $80 "hit" (shit happens) and don't fuck up a good thing.
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The only problem with that is that she'll probably be expecting the sam generosity the next time, and be pised off when she doesn't get it.
 
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betty_snj

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slinkybender said:
The only problem with that is that she'll probably be expecting the sam generosity the next time, and be pised off when she doesn't get it.
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she will not be pissed if he says..."sorry if I cannot tip you as much I did last time. I did because I had extra cash (or won in the casino, or got a bonus) and I wanted to share my good fortune".

Happened to me few times...in some cases the guys really won money or got a bonus and had cash to spend, and in some cases they just did a mistake and put too much in the envelope.

When I notice that the guy is overpaying me, I do call and let him know that he gave me too much. Most of the time, they tell me to keep it. But I always offer a discounted session to make up. Some do take the offer, some not.
 
Slinky Bender

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But he said "ignore it".

My point was that if he never says anything, she will at least be thinking "what did I do wrong this time?"

Personally, I think he hould simply say next time "you know I made a mistake last time and gave you a hunde which I thought was a twenty. Keep it, but you should know I intended to give you $120, not $200"
 
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yamaha

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#7
never go to the wallet

just tell her last time was your birthday and you had a nice time but i can't tip that way all the time make it clear and things will run smooth. you have to get your tip ready next time always have it in you pocket ready to go and you wont make that mistake again. really what we are saying your out 80 bucks and we know is sucks.
 
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Ryanscot

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slinkybender said:
But he said "ignore it".

My point was that if he never says anything, she will at least be thinking "what did I do wrong this time?"

Personally, I think he hould simply say next time "you know I made a mistake last time and gave you a hunde which I thought was a twenty. Keep it, but you should know I intended to give you $120, not $200"
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Thanks for everyone's input. I am less concerned about the $80, and more concerned about furthering things along with her. I do not want her thinking that I suddenly went cheaper on her, so I will go with either Slinky or Betty's suggested course of action. I am thinking probably to keep it light, telling her I made an error, laugh about it a little, and leave it at that. Truly, my good fortune that day was meeting this girl!

I will mention here what happens on my follow up visit which should occur
sometime this week.
 
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Truth

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slinkybender said:
The only problem with that is that she'll probably be expecting the sam generosity the next time, and be pised off when she doesn't get it.
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Pissed off about "only" getting a $120 tip?

How many of her other clients you think tip that much? This is an AMP, no?

Anyways, i only suggested he not say anything as to avoid that awkward conversation but if he's fine with it ......
 
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Ryanscot

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slinkybender said:
Remember at a lot of AMPs, a "tip" is not a tip. It's the $ for the actual service.
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True enough Slinky, and now in what is a very fast moving scenario,
I will be meeting her outside the AMP this week (I hope), so
the playing surface changes. This might make it easier as
what I gave her is a popular/accepted rate for 1 hr of a good
F/S session. I've only seen her this one time. Of course she may
very well ask for the house money I paid at the AMP, but more
importantly, this is going along rather nicely! Other comments
welcome.
 
R

Ryanscot

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#14
And the follow up - the outside session didn't happen (moving too quickly we both agreed), and instead we followed up our initial meeting with a two hour session. I tipped based on my one hour "normal" tip x 2. Not a word was said about any of the overpay, etc., or what she might have expected.

P.S. The session was remarkable - way over the top amazing, culminating in something that never happened to me before in an AMP. AAERSB. That's not an acronym, but one letter away from one. Something that many would frown on, including myself, but hey . . . Maybe it paid to tip that well? Or maybe now, I'm really screwed???
 
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Truth

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#15
Ryanscot said:
The session was remarkable - way over the top amazing, culminating in something that never happened to me before in an AMP. AAERSB. That's not an acronym, but one letter away from one. Something that many would frown on, including myself, but hey . . .
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You took a shit on her face while you sang Madonna's 'Like a Prayer'?
 
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Ryanscot

#16
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Truth said:
You took a shit on her face while you sang Madonna's 'Like a Prayer'?
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Wow, you are just so clever - picking up on these clues so well.
Ever apply for a position with the FBI?

Seriously, what is the point of your reply? You a comedian? A clown?
You really think what you wrote was funny? Everyone else on this thread
had something with substance to say, your reply reeks of a rule violation.
Shall I point you to the rule? Oh no, I forgot, you are smart - you can figure it out for yourself. Or if not, you'll have some inane, irrelevant, sophmoric comment.

Slinky - can you please remove his worthless comment?
 
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Truth

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#17
Ryanscot said:
Wow, you are just so clever - picking up on these clues so well.
Ever apply for a position with the FBI?

Seriously, what is the point of your reply?
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To point out how fucking stupid this was ........

AAERSB. That's not an acronym, but one letter away from one.

Just post what the fuck you did or don't post anything.
 
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Ryanscot

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#18
Truth said:
To point out how fucking stupid this was ........

AAERSB. That's not an acronym, but one letter away from one.

Just post what the fuck you did or don't post anything.
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Why, you coudn't figure it out, you fucking asshole? So you wrote the first worthless comment that came into your head? I'll do what the fuck I damn please, not what you fucking say.

Is that how you handle things in life when they're not clear to you? You are pathetic.
 
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justbill_redux

King Missile
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Ryanscot said:
P.S. The session was remarkable - way over the top amazing, culminating in something that never happened to me before in an AMP. AAERSB. That's not an acronym, but one letter away from one. Something that many would frown on, including myself, but hey . . . Maybe it paid to tip that well? Or maybe now, I'm really screwed???
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How come you just couldn't come out and say you fucked her BB and came in her. Is it that hard to say?

BTW if this girl is named Mimi or Mi-Hee, run and hide.
 
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michel

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Gotta go with Yamaha on this one....

yamaha said:
...you have to get your tip ready next time always have it in you pocket ready to go and you wont make that mistake again. really what we are saying your out 80 bucks and we know is sucks.
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I've done the same as Ryanscot (more than once) and, due to lack o'
change or darkness of room, have OVERtipped LAB (like a bastard- I
don't want to get into the flame here).

Ever since I started the 3-pocket system (wallet in back); house fee
& "customary low end tip" in front right; "possible extra tip" in left
front, I have made few such errors.

One more thing, I have discovered the beauty of Hamilton over Jackson
in my years of mongering- looks like more paper to the girl and allows for
more negotiating and finer defining of tips.
 
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