You are right on both counts. What I have been told is that Chinese guys dont like to do DATY and Chinese gals dont like to do BJ's.
And that's a problem how?
I am afraid that is not true. Over 1000 BJs later (not a boast and the number is on the low end from multiple partners), I can say with certainty that Asian women do like giving BJs if the following is met: 1) They are not jappy 2) they truly dig the guy their with 3) the guy does not have cleanliness issues 4) the guy is not huge (they perceive themselves as petite, no matter what size they are).
The asian culture has a history of many centuries of pleasing their men and taking great pride in being able to do so or being skilled. Within the context of a relationship, they will try their best and accept this as their job. Being a westerner they have an expectation that you will do things differently than in their home countries. They also have a culture to adapting the man's culture/tastes.
Than the next obvious question, is why do not more AMP providers not provide this service?
First of all they have this thing called "loss of face". This is not acceptable, regardlesss of compensation, to be done on a stranger. A hand job is light years removed from a BBJ for most AMP women. There is no "loss of face" on receiving a DATY. It is your face in their crotch. Secondly they do not always have their facts straight on how you get sexual diseases and as you well know, they believe in some wild myths. Now if they do dig you, there is a less of a loss of face issue because of a percieved (even if illusory) bond. When this happens, usually a higher tip is an insult and often times I have been given it back. They say you tip too much.
Now we all know there are some girls out there who are clearly motivated by the money and dont care. In their minds, they have crossed the line too far too often, it no longer matters.But in their minds, they know they are a pariah within their commmunity. There are providers on this board, that are at ease with what they do.
When you get the extras that you do get, Genius, it can be attributed to many things including, that you seduced them, that some do not know how to get out of the situation without your loss of face, some are just incredibably passive, some have low self-esteem, and some simply like you. Notice in most of the cases that you get extras, they really do not care about your tip. So the money will not induce them to give you a BBJs. Your game is what wins them over.
I repeat, there are women who are hungry for the money and will exchange sex for tips withint the AMP environment, but as you well know, they are rarel Most women that are hungry for the money, only want to HEs for high tips. Most give in on pulling up their shirts but use those thick nylong pants for the OTC on the bottom. Those are like a suit of armor.