Which one would you choose if you only had three choices?
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When I was younger I had a "type" that I gravitated towards. I liked them foxy, tight and blond. A California beach girl look. My GFs would always be that look. The older I got the more I realized I require variety. Why stick with the same shit all the time.
At this stage in my life, I want to experience them all. Some days I'm in the mood for a soccer mom milf that you would never suspect is an animal in the bedroom. Then I might be in the mood for Latin 24 yr old with a rock hard body and great tan lines (think Brazilian). Or I may want a slightly overweight big titted mature lady from Estonia. It goes on and on depending on my mood.
But the overwhelming decision of who I would like to be with is governed by the level of sexuality the lady exudes. The "shell" is the first thing that catches your eye, but it's her inner sexuality that emanates and attracts.
I'll give you one example. A number of years ago I posted on CL casual. I connected with a lady who shared the same interests. We emailed back and forth for weeks establishing a very erotic relationship. Never exchanged pics but we both described ourselves. She said she was in her late 40's, petite, short blond hair and worked in admin in a large LI corporation. So we finally set up a lunch meet near her office for a mutual look-see at each other. I get there first and wait at the bar. A few minutes later I see this petite short haired blond in a business suit walk in. At first sight I was slightly disappointed. Looked like your typical middle aged, librarian type, corporate female suit. If she passed you on the street you probably wouldn't even take notice of her. Not what I was hoping to see.
So we meet, and the convo goes very smoothly since we had already created quite a sexual rapport. In the manner of a few minutes this lady began to look like a piece of ass to me. Under her very corporate demeanor she was a sexual dynamo. Very erotic, very sensual, very under the radar.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is maturity brings an appreciation for many types of women. Keep your mind open, don't get stuck in a certain "type". Good things can happen.
At this stage in my life, I want to experience them all. Some days I'm in the mood for a soccer mom milf that you would never suspect is an animal in the bedroom. Then I might be in the mood for Latin 24 yr old with a rock hard body and great tan lines (think Brazilian). Or I may want a slightly overweight big titted mature lady from Estonia. It goes on and on depending on my mood.
But the overwhelming decision of who I would like to be with is governed by the level of sexuality the lady exudes. The "shell" is the first thing that catches your eye, but it's her inner sexuality that emanates and attracts.
I'll give you one example. A number of years ago I posted on CL casual. I connected with a lady who shared the same interests. We emailed back and forth for weeks establishing a very erotic relationship. Never exchanged pics but we both described ourselves. She said she was in her late 40's, petite, short blond hair and worked in admin in a large LI corporation. So we finally set up a lunch meet near her office for a mutual look-see at each other. I get there first and wait at the bar. A few minutes later I see this petite short haired blond in a business suit walk in. At first sight I was slightly disappointed. Looked like your typical middle aged, librarian type, corporate female suit. If she passed you on the street you probably wouldn't even take notice of her. Not what I was hoping to see.
So we meet, and the convo goes very smoothly since we had already created quite a sexual rapport. In the manner of a few minutes this lady began to look like a piece of ass to me. Under her very corporate demeanor she was a sexual dynamo. Very erotic, very sensual, very under the radar.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is maturity brings an appreciation for many types of women. Keep your mind open, don't get stuck in a certain "type". Good things can happen.
I believe I’ve written about this before:
I think “type” has a lot to do with the types of girls men are around when they went through puberty. I happened to be living in the Netherlands at that time, and for many years I was a sucker for blonde and fair skinned Dutch and German women (not so easy to find in the New York hobbying market, BTW).
Why do I believe this is true? Because, puberty is when you first become aware of your sexuality, and the experiences you have during this time form many of your sexual habits going forward. At least, into your 20s.
That said, I was no fool -- one of the reasons I participated the hobby was to play the field. And having done so, I realized, of course, that all sorts of women could turn me on. I’ve gone through a tight, petite phase. A big breast phase. A brunette/Latina phase. An African American and Caribbean phase. And everything in between.
These days, I tend to prefer younger, athletic, yet experienced providers of all types. I’m less concerned with outward appearances, and more with their repertoire and imagination. If reviews describe a girl that knows her way around, has a great attitude, enjoys her work and tries to make the session fun, she’s probably my type.
I think “type” has a lot to do with the types of girls men are around when they went through puberty. I happened to be living in the Netherlands at that time, and for many years I was a sucker for blonde and fair skinned Dutch and German women (not so easy to find in the New York hobbying market, BTW).
Why do I believe this is true? Because, puberty is when you first become aware of your sexuality, and the experiences you have during this time form many of your sexual habits going forward. At least, into your 20s.
That said, I was no fool -- one of the reasons I participated the hobby was to play the field. And having done so, I realized, of course, that all sorts of women could turn me on. I’ve gone through a tight, petite phase. A big breast phase. A brunette/Latina phase. An African American and Caribbean phase. And everything in between.
These days, I tend to prefer younger, athletic, yet experienced providers of all types. I’m less concerned with outward appearances, and more with their repertoire and imagination. If reviews describe a girl that knows her way around, has a great attitude, enjoys her work and tries to make the session fun, she’s probably my type.
Now I know why you overpay whores.
What's next you take them to your office parties and introduce them are "your girlfriend".
I know you buy them flowers and send them email poems. You sucker.
Who gets body rubs anymore? Much less pay 500 dollars for one.
I will be damned if a whore laugh at me for swindling me out of my money. I am not Rug.
Whores will never say "Irv is a sucker he overpays me". They say that to you!
What's next you take them to your office parties and introduce them are "your girlfriend".
I know you buy them flowers and send them email poems. You sucker.
Who gets body rubs anymore? Much less pay 500 dollars for one.
I will be damned if a whore laugh at me for swindling me out of my money. I am not Rug.
Whores will never say "Irv is a sucker he overpays me". They say that to you!
I think it's getting personal between you two. I have concluded that no matter what pseudonym one uses for this "hobby" the sum results are rarely emotionally constructive for providers or clients. The few men who try to maintain a caring attitude about women who rent out their time are simply more likely to be exploited. Say a provider has a broken sink. Offering to fix it for free is way different than giving them $500 which they use to hire a repairman (or buy cocaine). Money is devoid of any personal sacrifice. Sociologists have studied this, and they point out how a four hundred dollar bracelet is totally different than treating someone to a night out to have dinner and see a show even when both gifts cost that same amount. Both gifts demonstrate generosity, but the former suggests that the giver should be exploited for cash.
Finally I'll add that forums like this attract a lot of misogynists.
Back on thread: any fair skinned women with red, black or blond hair.
Finally I'll add that forums like this attract a lot of misogynists.
Back on thread: any fair skinned women with red, black or blond hair.
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It's not personal to me. I just go about my hobbying differently. Some hobbyists knock Pumper for being into the submissive thing. Some hobbyists like the ghetto gaggers "theme" of hobbying.
I think Rug is one of those guys that want to feel good about himself by saying he does not disrespect a whore. But he is soliciting for a whore but he is a good guy. Show me where a whore seeks "you out". Rug is like " I can't resist they just find me". The guy is a joke.
Listen this game is disrespectful all around because you ain't doing nothing to deter them from whoring. You are not trying to help them. Your a scum bag like me.
It always amazes me how a cat can sit there was a straight face and think "he is a nice guy".
Sure their are women that are in the profession because the "like the game". Most are not. Now if you can distinguish the two good for you.
I rather be with non pros, I put my email out and you come to me. You know what the deal is.
This joker is talking about how I don't respect women. Who respects whores?
Are you introducing a whore to your family members. You are in the shadows like me on this board anonymous.
We are all misogynists. Are we seeing whores for their personality and insight on life.
Not me! I want to know how fat her pussy is and ass is and if she can perform well.
Other than that, I wouldn't care less what went on in her life. I just keep it civil to get what I want.
Stay in the hobby long enough and you become an actor and let whores 'guards down".
Most of this game is "mental" , some guys think you just get a whore and she will just be the best "sex whore they ever had". It is 80 percent mental to talk her into doing what you want her to do. 20 percent physical.
Where does it stipulate I have to "respect" a whore. You call the girls skeezers. You are seeing skeezers too. You think, they are just fucking you.
I think you do!
I am still kind of upset he is a snitch. Like telling other whores that I don't respect them or whatever. You think they give a shit.
I can see any whore and ain't shit you can do about.
Good day
It's not personal to me. I just go about my hobbying differently. Some hobbyists knock Pumper for being into the submissive thing. Some hobbyists like the ghetto gaggers "theme" of hobbying.
I think Rug is one of those guys that want to feel good about himself by saying he does not disrespect a whore. But he is soliciting for a whore but he is a good guy. Show me where a whore seeks "you out". Rug is like " I can't resist they just find me". The guy is a joke.
Listen this game is disrespectful all around because you ain't doing nothing to deter them from whoring. You are not trying to help them. Your a scum bag like me.
It always amazes me how a cat can sit there was a straight face and think "he is a nice guy".
Sure their are women that are in the profession because the "like the game". Most are not. Now if you can distinguish the two good for you.
I rather be with non pros, I put my email out and you come to me. You know what the deal is.
This joker is talking about how I don't respect women. Who respects whores?
Are you introducing a whore to your family members. You are in the shadows like me on this board anonymous.
We are all misogynists. Are we seeing whores for their personality and insight on life.
Not me! I want to know how fat her pussy is and ass is and if she can perform well.
Other than that, I wouldn't care less what went on in her life. I just keep it civil to get what I want.
Stay in the hobby long enough and you become an actor and let whores 'guards down".
Most of this game is "mental" , some guys think you just get a whore and she will just be the best "sex whore they ever had". It is 80 percent mental to talk her into doing what you want her to do. 20 percent physical.
Where does it stipulate I have to "respect" a whore. You call the girls skeezers. You are seeing skeezers too. You think, they are just fucking you.
I think you do!
I am still kind of upset he is a snitch. Like telling other whores that I don't respect them or whatever. You think they give a shit.
I can see any whore and ain't shit you can do about.
Good day
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There you go again, putting words in my mouth. I never said they seek me out. That's what YOU think I said--either because your ability to read or comprehend is so poor or because you simply think of things in such black/white that you have to compartmentalize or categorize everything.
How is this game disrespectful? A girl wants money so she does bodyrubs. She sets her limits. Those are the girls I see. I don't see the $100 or $200 FS girls you do. All I can do is talk from my experience, and those girls need money so they do bodyrubs. Okay, great. She sets a price and she is comfortable offering whatever she says she offers for that price. I'm happy to pay that price. How is that disrespectful?
I never said I was a nice guy. Those are your words, again.
I have introduced girls in this business to family members. That's because I respect them as people and I know their real names and their real lives. They know mine, and it works out fine. That doesn't happen with everyone, but if it's a bodyrub girl who ends up doing something more with me on the side, that's how it works with me.
A snitch? Dude, you make it super clear that you disrespect them. I don't have to even say it. You say it yourself.
How is this game disrespectful? A girl wants money so she does bodyrubs. She sets her limits. Those are the girls I see. I don't see the $100 or $200 FS girls you do. All I can do is talk from my experience, and those girls need money so they do bodyrubs. Okay, great. She sets a price and she is comfortable offering whatever she says she offers for that price. I'm happy to pay that price. How is that disrespectful?
I never said I was a nice guy. Those are your words, again.
I have introduced girls in this business to family members. That's because I respect them as people and I know their real names and their real lives. They know mine, and it works out fine. That doesn't happen with everyone, but if it's a bodyrub girl who ends up doing something more with me on the side, that's how it works with me.
A snitch? Dude, you make it super clear that you disrespect them. I don't have to even say it. You say it yourself.
I think there is are working girls who close themselves off and do not see a man, just see dollar signs so of course it can go the other way too. Irv, maybe you are also closed off and you cannot see a woman but just a whore to do the deed.
Deliberate desensitizing is a mental tricks to avoid getting involved, basically removing yourself from the humanity of the situation. It usually occurs when a person is unhappy with what they are doing to make a living or to satisfy a urge they subconscious feel is wrong but cannot control.
The guys are hobbying openly are the ones who get every dollar worth because they are satisfying all of their senses not just sexual. It is the same for the woman who are closed off, they hate their jobs and can't identify the good experiences from the bad and personally I feel they are missing out because the good outweighs the bad tenfold.
Deliberate desensitizing is a mental tricks to avoid getting involved, basically removing yourself from the humanity of the situation. It usually occurs when a person is unhappy with what they are doing to make a living or to satisfy a urge they subconscious feel is wrong but cannot control.
The guys are hobbying openly are the ones who get every dollar worth because they are satisfying all of their senses not just sexual. It is the same for the woman who are closed off, they hate their jobs and can't identify the good experiences from the bad and personally I feel they are missing out because the good outweighs the bad tenfold.
Irv, I just want to make it clear I a not judging you. I have great friends who I would never refer my clients to because I know they are not going to be emotionally invested in the session but I still think they are amazing people. I like the way you are when we discuss other topics on the board, there might just be something in this "game" as you would put it that brings out the dark side of certain people but it is not reflection on the who they are as a whole.
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No he is not an asshole but he does has a unpopular view of the business which can be taken the wrong way. I has a infamous messy courtship with Irv last year and I think we both made a conscious effort not to get ugly when we disagree. A large majority of members disagree with Irv but try not to take it personally, I know I don't anymore. I have actually had very sensitive correspondence with him in non industry related topics.
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