Magic, this post is the most beautiful, readable thing you have ever posted.
Btw, NYC55, saying that you are open minded after posting that you are either gay or not gay and that you cannot claim being not gay if you enjoyed gettting blow by a man seems contradictory at best. I'm glad you have a gay business partner and if he believes that there is a gay man lurking in every man, you seemingly have found a kindred spirit. I thnk there is a lot of gray area in this topic.
Btw, NYC55, saying that you are open minded after posting that you are either gay or not gay and that you cannot claim being not gay if you enjoyed gettting blow by a man seems contradictory at best. I'm glad you have a gay business partner and if he believes that there is a gay man lurking in every man, you seemingly have found a kindred spirit. I thnk there is a lot of gray area in this topic.
It is interesting that someone with such anti gay views ended up with a gay as a business partner IMHO! There is a term in Psychololy called transference.
JMHO but the way to try to get someone to accept your OPINION is not to curse them out & insult them! I don't think there is any segment of industry that doesn't have a mix of sexual identities that vary from straight to bi to gay to poly and along many points along the line, with few fitting into a tight little box with no variation!