But that's the point I'm trying to make. The CL girl becomes a close friend. The pro is just a business "partner?" Or associate. Even if the same rules theoretically apply they don't feel the same.
They both deal almost exclusively with sex workers who do not perform FS functions but who, in their cases and for what ever reasons, move from the sex work they do into FS relationships. The potential for grey area mishaps is extraordinarily high because, right from the start, they are doing things they don't do with all of their clients.
I refer to "dating" strippers outside of their club environments.
I am sure jl would agree with me that making sure there is money directly implanted as a firewall has helped us both keep the water from becoming too muddy. It defines the relationship as one that is P4p-quid pro quo. No matter how much the other facets of what is going on takes on the demeanor of an actual romantic relationship. [no set time limits, time involved that has to do nothing with actual sex, romantic settings - dinners, talk about personal lives, etc]
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