When you disconnect the exchange of cash and sex

[TheRealStory]

Back here after 10 years - rereading these threads - brings me back.

Update - I did find the escort that I screwed out of the $120 several years later - saw her a couple of times - and gave her an extra $200 the first time and apologized profusely. She was totally cool - and was happy that I was honest about it. But after one additional meeting - I checked out. She didn't do it for me anymore. But at least I closed the books on that.

 

[iwantagoodhj247]

Back here after 10 years - rereading these threads - brings me back.

Update - I did find the escort that I screwed out of the $120 several years later - saw her a couple of times - and gave her an extra $200 the first time and apologized profusely. She was totally cool - and was happy that I was honest about it. But after one additional meeting - I checked out. She didn't do it for me anymore. But at least I closed the books on that.

Good for you. I hope it hadn't been bothering you the whole time. I've cut ties over 10 bucks, so don't feel so bad. If it doesn't go exactly the way i want it to for the exact rate I'm willing to pay, I'm out...

 

[TheRealStory]

Good for you. I hope it hadn't been bothering you the whole time. I've cut ties over 10 bucks, so don't feel so bad. If it doesn't go exactly the way i want it to for the exact rate I'm willing to pay, I'm out...

No - I wasn't spun up on it - but at some point I just said - I wonder if I can find X - if she is still working. I did, and I set it straight. I don't think I ever lost a moment of sleep on it - but still felt good to square it up. And figured I'd close the loop here...because why not

 

[Haspel7]

Why I ended a multi-year relationship over $120

I don't typically see professional escorts anymore, but that wasn't always the case. Back in the late 90s, I found an independent incall escort that I really enjoyed seeing. She was inexpensive (120 for the half and 200 for the hour), provided good service and reliable. She also had a very clean apartment in a safe building so it was a home run in many ways.

She wasn't quite the GFE that I prefer which is why she wasn't an ATF per se but she did give a good BBBJ with multiples and I couldn't argue with the price factor.

I saw her sporadically, and then in 2000 I switched jobs and literally ended up working less than one block away from her apt. Once I got over the fear of getting caught entering her building by coworkers, I got into a routine where I saw her at least 2-3x a month. She was available during the days when she wasn't in school so I spent many a "lunch hour" at her place.

Somewhere around 2002 or 3, I went over for an appointment as usual, and afterwards, we were chatting it up and I forgot to pay her and she didn't notice. I realized when I got back to my office and I called her to apologize and asked her if she wanted to run the money over right away. She told me to wait until next time and square it up then. I agreed.

So I went on vacation the next week, and when I got back I was thinking of going to see her and all of the sudden it occurred to me that I didn't want to pay double for the session. Needless to say I wasn't paying double, but I found it is very hard to pay for past orgasms.

So I delayed seeing her, instead spending more money elsewhere with some good and bad times, and then got to the point where I was so embarrassed that I couldn't go back.

Keep in mind it wasn't "about" the money as $120 is fairly meaningless to me, but it was about the perceived value of giving up that money for something intangible that had occurred in the past.

To this day I'm still embarrassed but the girl is out of the business and I have no way to make it up to her.

The reason you were crazy is what if she saw you in the street with a co-worker and made a scene.You deep down wanted to move on from her.

 

[Haspel7]

Multiply what she did to you by two or three other guys (more?) and there's your catalyst.

Bingo!

 

[hunter818]

This was a fantastic thread. Any updates about the Girls 1-3?

 

[Nehoma]

The reason you were crazy is what if she saw you in the street with a co-worker and made a scene.You deep down wanted to move on from her.

You fucked her real good..more ways than one!

 

[TheRealStory]

Girl 1: moved back home to Kansas City to live with her parents - got a nursing degree and although we haven't spoken recently - I imagine she is still doing well. May follow up.

Girl 2: still lives in LA - happily married since 2016 - was a great girl - glad everything worked out for her

Girl 3: we ended up connecting again - the money never came up - but found her on SA 3 or 4 years ago - we texted a bunch. Never got together. She was in a committed relationship but also an open one - so was open to play, but I knew it would never be the same so I just let it be. She is doing well - writing music for TV/commercials and is also a sex blogger.

 

[vad1]

@TheRealStory, wow!

Welcome back, good sir. Please stay awhile and regale us!

V

 

[Haspel7]

Girl 1: moved back home to Kansas City to live with her parents - got a nursing degree and although we haven't spoken recently - I imagine she is still doing well. May follow up.

Girl 2: still lives in LA - happily married since 2016 - was a great girl - glad everything worked out for her

Girl 3: we ended up connecting again - the money never came up - but found her on SA 3 or 4 years ago - we texted a bunch. Never got together. She was in a committed relationship but also an open one - so was open to play, but I knew it would never be the same so I just let it be. She is doing well - writing music for TV/commercials and is also a sex blogger.

Excellent reading!