Just goes to show that there is always emotional involvement with sex. If you have sex with someone, an emotional bond will eventually develop. Not necessarily the first time, but the more often you do it, the stronger the feeling will become. For me, that's when it's time to move on. When one of my ATFs started to send me text messages and complaining about this, that and the other thing, she stopped being an ATF. I don't go to the movies to learn about somebodies problems or issues, I go to get entertained and to escape my life for two hours. Same with mongering. A GFE is nice as long as it doesn't turn into a GFE, so to speak....