From a client standpoint this is what I see,
- guys try it because they like the idea of getting for "free" what other guys have to pay for.
- there is no issue of secrecy because each comes to the party knowing about the other.
- if a guy wants to date a provider under np4p, then he knows what she does and can accept it, at least for a little while.
- guys know that a woman is sexual and just how sexual.
- guys like the idea that this woman may see dozens if not more guys a month, but its him that she remembers, him that she belongs to, and possibly him that she "loves."
- guys only see the soft, sensual, friendly and sexual side of most providers and they assume that this is how the woman would be for him in real life.
- and going on that last point, many lonely guys simply see these women, know how friendly they are, sexy they are, sexual they are, and since they're already substituting this "relationship" for a real relationship with a civie woman, and the provider makes them feel like a king and the only man in the world, they take all these perceptions from the provider and see if they can transfer them from a business to personal relationship.
And that's my two cents....