And being in the game this long this surprised you?
It's like when they need a favor or a shoulder to cry on, you're their favorite guy, but just try to call them to set something up when you have free time and see how quickly they forget your number and you get ghosted.
Just remember those fake moans aren't the only thing fake about them.
But then again you knew that right?
Look at it this way. Do you call your barber between hair cuts to see how he is doing?
No you don't. You just call him when it's time for your next haircut.
So don't call to see how she's doing, she doesn't give a shit about you. Call her when you want to set something up.
And if she ghosts your call then fuck her and move on and lose her number the next time she needs something.
But, to the contrary, there are rare exceptions, “ R-A-R-E.”
I yesterday I was with a bar girl/hostess who I have had great times with for years. We genuinely like each other.
But, she found God or something, and still does the hostessing, looking cute, serving food and drinks, singing in parties, but won’t fuck anymore.
She calls me to hang out in a back room with a television, drinks, food, just for the comfort of my embrace and she will rub my dick and wants no money except for the price of drinks and food. Of course, I find a way to leave money inside her clothes.
When I try to give her money, she frowns and says that the money exchange ruins the loving feeling.
She is perfectly willing to invite a younger girl in to take care of my needs. But, for that situation, I allow it to be what it is. I can literally walk out of the establishment and have many sexual opportunities with a variety of women.
She is just a sweet person, never married, who values a close friendship for emotional comfort.
The feeling is wholesome and completely different than even being with my ATF.
Being with her really sobers me. There is a beautiful peaceful energy exchange between a lonely man and a lonely woman, that is quite frankly much deeper than sex.
