Long time lurker. Going to post some of my experiences on SA without pics and SNs, but, hopefully, this helps some...
To start, I am black, 29, live in Manhattan, went to grad school, average build, 5'9, 170, and dress decently well. First started using SA about 2 years ago when I broke up with my ex and didn't want to get into a relationship immediately. But, I love sex with no strings and chemistry, so, I preferred the SA route to escorts (found a few gems in this area too). I have no preference for women in terms of skin color but a big booty and nice body never hurts
. Never spent, on the girl alone, more than 200-250; I keep my limit to that.
Girl 1: My first time using SA...I met up with this 24 year old marketing professional with a tight bod. Light-skinned black, 5'5 135ish, cute (6.5-7/10), fairly flexible, loved sex, etc. She asked for 400 and I declined...kind of regret it considering she could host and I would have to get a hotel (~100 in Midtown) + drinks/dinner, etc.
Girl 2: White girl in NJ 19, went to Rutgers, 5'7 slim, but fit as hell (think soccer body). We agreed to 200 only if we fucked. I was determined not to mess this one up but she flaked.
Girl 3: I met her in Stamford, CT...she loves sex and was in an open relationship. We agreed to 200 only if we fucked. Mixed white/Puerto Rican, 5'7, great "slim-thick" body, met her at a wine bar, had some decent conversation but I could tell she wasn't feeling it and we went our separate ways (ended up seeing my regular big booty Dominican escort to relieve the blue balls that night haha). $0 spent.
Girl 4: This one was weird. Submissive, 5'8 160ish, THICK but flat stomach, light-skinned Jamaican girl with one of the biggest asses coupled with a slim waist that I have ever seen. We met at a bar for a few drinks. She was an asshole, initially, but, I wasn't going 0-4. So, I just started to emulate her persona a bit and asked if she wanted to fuck, straight-up. She told me how she loved sucking dick and being dominated...so that's what I did in the bed room. I love sloppy BJs and she lived up to that. But, beating up that big ass she had on her was heaven. I've never seen so much cream on my dick; 2 pops ending with her swallowing me. $250+150 for hotel/drinks.
Girl 5: This one went pretty straight forward...21 year old Dominican from NJ. Slim girl but nice body (5'4 roughly 120 or so). Met me a bar during a torrential downpour which was impressive (with no underwear haha). Had 1 drink and we went to the hotel. She was ok, overall, I guess. Decent BJ but a little stiff when I was pounding her out. She was for sure enjoying it though creaming all over me (fucked her raw). $200+125 for hotel/drinks. She wanted to meet again but I have terrible bedside manners and yearn for women who are more freaky I guess. Great woman, though.
Girl 6: Extremely freaky, 21 year old black woman from Brooklyn. 5'4 a little on the chubbier side (150ish lbs), but big ass, submissive, loves getting choked with dick, being slapped, and dominated like no other. Had a few drinks at that bar and dominated her the whole night (she slept over and we had breakfast the next day). Fuck her raw, came in her mouth, and she enthusiastically swallowed. $200+125 for hotel and drinks.
Girl 7: This is from a New Orleans trip a few days ago. Spent half a day trying line someone up for a night and got this tight bod, Puerto-Rican, who is 26 but had an 10 year kid. Didn't talk money or anything...we just met at bar, had a few drinks, and then went back to my hotel. She was the best of the bunch even though she wouldn't fuck raw. The sloppy BJs were crazy and the overall submissiveness. She slept over and offered to buy me breakfast. I gave her $100 even though she didn't ask.
Overall, I think I was being too reserved with the first few women since I was new to the whole ordeal. But, once I started being more agro (I'm generally shy) in certain areas and better with SA searches, I've had more success in terms of sexual chemistry. Hope this helps someone.