Why do I avoid Missionary postion?
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Melody at Night is a bunch of 4 minute or so standards. It's extremely accesible.
Koln Concert is one of my favorite pieces of recorded music.
I bought the Sun Bear Concerts at a used record store a few months back. $35, 10 albums, good deal. A friend of mine who wanted the box set too (I saw it first) would be mighty pissed to know I haven't listened to any of them yet.
I think a friend might have played Ruta and Daitya for me. Is it kind of avant tribal or am I thinking of a different recording?
Koln Concert is one of my favorite pieces of recorded music.
I bought the Sun Bear Concerts at a used record store a few months back. $35, 10 albums, good deal. A friend of mine who wanted the box set too (I saw it first) would be mighty pissed to know I haven't listened to any of them yet.
I think a friend might have played Ruta and Daitya for me. Is it kind of avant tribal or am I thinking of a different recording?
jm, I have been well, if not a bit jaded these days. Not that much happening on the pro front, since the other kind has taken up too much of my time. It's not necessarily any better - just different.
How about you? same ole?
don't meant to hijack a legitimate thread for personal reasons, so for Capy, there are various flavors to missionary - and they even flow into other positions fairly well. But to each his own!
How about you? same ole?
don't meant to hijack a legitimate thread for personal reasons, so for Capy, there are various flavors to missionary - and they even flow into other positions fairly well. But to each his own!
Different, but not better? I find that interersting. I've mostly given up pro activity and have found that I don't really miss it. Of course, I don't have sex as often...
Been a few changes for me the last year. It's on the boards, but sumary --> lost job, moved, went to school.
Other than that, yeah, same ole.
It's good to see you posting again (Outside of the Spa section)
Been a few changes for me the last year. It's on the boards, but sumary --> lost job, moved, went to school.
Other than that, yeah, same ole.
It's good to see you posting again (Outside of the Spa section)
its the thought, what I know is true.
Its not the act itself that brings such enjoyment, its the payment for doing such act, thats what brings the joy.
(sometimes, while I look into the eyes of a 21 y/o college girl, who I find somewhat intelligent, Im wondering if she is counting the number of thrusts I make into her and then divides her total pay by the thrusts, so she can say, hey, $2.68 more I just made, come on baby, your average is 31 thrusts before you come, just hit me 14 more times and roll over you fucking old man. Damn, Ill have to break out my calculator one more time, the old fucker got in 48 thrusts before he stopped from exhaustion.)
I am a jaded old john.
When Im having sex for fun with a woman, no money involved, Ive never had one jump up for a washcloth to wash me off.
She usually lays down next to me, makes a few jokes, we bullshit, talk about where were going to eat soon, but never, ever, do they jump up and run for a washcloth.
Just an observation. Man, Im jaded.
Its not the act itself that brings such enjoyment, its the payment for doing such act, thats what brings the joy.
(sometimes, while I look into the eyes of a 21 y/o college girl, who I find somewhat intelligent, Im wondering if she is counting the number of thrusts I make into her and then divides her total pay by the thrusts, so she can say, hey, $2.68 more I just made, come on baby, your average is 31 thrusts before you come, just hit me 14 more times and roll over you fucking old man. Damn, Ill have to break out my calculator one more time, the old fucker got in 48 thrusts before he stopped from exhaustion.)
I am a jaded old john.
When Im having sex for fun with a woman, no money involved, Ive never had one jump up for a washcloth to wash me off.
She usually lays down next to me, makes a few jokes, we bullshit, talk about where were going to eat soon, but never, ever, do they jump up and run for a washcloth.
Just an observation. Man, Im jaded.
well, you certainly sound jaded! but you still didn't answer my question, about why you think an escort who enjoys her work so much is in deep trouble. i'm curious about why you'd say that. where's the trouble in that? what trouble? trouble for who?
and are you saying that the act itself is not what brings enjoyment but the payment does? you can't be serious! you can't be saying that? have you not met any escorts who enjoy their work? how do you get your dates?
yes, you certainly sound like quite the jaded one! or maybe i'm not experienced enough. are you what becomes of hobbyist who have been around for far too long, you grow to believe that only dollar signs can bring a look of enjoyment. and enjoyment doesn't mean freebies, BigMadM. it is entirely possible to thoroughly enjoy something and make money while you do it too. no? i mean, would derek jeter play for free? he loves the game, right? but would you say the only reason he loves it is because of the money he makes? or would you concede that enjoying the game immensely and getting paid to do it never hurt anyone. if he can get paid, and enjoy it very much at the same time, why shouldn't he? why not anyone else, an escort for example?
still, you haven't told me why you think a look of enjoyment in a provider's eyes disrupts you a bit. please do. you seem more experienced than me and i'm looking to you for an answer/guidance. please.
and are you saying that the act itself is not what brings enjoyment but the payment does? you can't be serious! you can't be saying that? have you not met any escorts who enjoy their work? how do you get your dates?
yes, you certainly sound like quite the jaded one! or maybe i'm not experienced enough. are you what becomes of hobbyist who have been around for far too long, you grow to believe that only dollar signs can bring a look of enjoyment. and enjoyment doesn't mean freebies, BigMadM. it is entirely possible to thoroughly enjoy something and make money while you do it too. no? i mean, would derek jeter play for free? he loves the game, right? but would you say the only reason he loves it is because of the money he makes? or would you concede that enjoying the game immensely and getting paid to do it never hurt anyone. if he can get paid, and enjoy it very much at the same time, why shouldn't he? why not anyone else, an escort for example?
still, you haven't told me why you think a look of enjoyment in a provider's eyes disrupts you a bit. please do. you seem more experienced than me and i'm looking to you for an answer/guidance. please.
yes, it appears that way. but this thinking is hard for me to accept. i'm sure there are girls who are in it for "just" the money. but, damn, i KNOW there are girls who enjoy what they do!
i went on a date last night. did i like the financial compensation? absolutely! did i enjoy myself? goddamn fuckin' right i did. i loved every fucking minute, have actually replayed some of it in my mind today! would i see him for free as opposed to someone who will help me with my bills AND i also happen to like doin'? no! still, it is often possible to enjoy your time with your chosen man of the night. it's not just about the $. not for me. not yet anyway!
i went on a date last night. did i like the financial compensation? absolutely! did i enjoy myself? goddamn fuckin' right i did. i loved every fucking minute, have actually replayed some of it in my mind today! would i see him for free as opposed to someone who will help me with my bills AND i also happen to like doin'? no! still, it is often possible to enjoy your time with your chosen man of the night. it's not just about the $. not for me. not yet anyway!
Agreed. The more and more I talk to my providers, the more and more I see it's really not just about the money, and I think that's key... talking to them like they're normal female human beings, and not just sex objects to fuck and forget about. I can use my hand for that, and save a few hundred in the process.
umm, actually, i did not prove BMM's point. i was making a point about how it is possible to enjoy yourself. but that does NOT mean freebies, as BMM tends to think.
let me give you an example. you know 2 women, both of who you like very much. both have bodies you love to devour, both are everything you love and enjoy in women. one is NOT better than the other. they both want to see you on the same night. but one of them is, well, let's just say she has extra money to share and everytime she sees you, she gives you a little gift, perhaps a great new watch, maybe an expensive new suit, maybe even some money to pay your car insurance. now, remember, you really enjoy BOTH these women equally. and, frankly, you're a little low on funds yourself so you're not so sure why they like you so much. lucky you! now, which one of these 2 women would you see? remember, they BOTH want to see you on the same night but you only have time to see one. you like them equally. will you go see the babe who gives you nothing but some sweet ass? or will you go see the hottie who gives you sweet ass and always gives you a little gift? please tell. i'm dying to know. and, please, for the sake of discussion, be honest.
let me give you an example. you know 2 women, both of who you like very much. both have bodies you love to devour, both are everything you love and enjoy in women. one is NOT better than the other. they both want to see you on the same night. but one of them is, well, let's just say she has extra money to share and everytime she sees you, she gives you a little gift, perhaps a great new watch, maybe an expensive new suit, maybe even some money to pay your car insurance. now, remember, you really enjoy BOTH these women equally. and, frankly, you're a little low on funds yourself so you're not so sure why they like you so much. lucky you! now, which one of these 2 women would you see? remember, they BOTH want to see you on the same night but you only have time to see one. you like them equally. will you go see the babe who gives you nothing but some sweet ass? or will you go see the hottie who gives you sweet ass and always gives you a little gift? please tell. i'm dying to know. and, please, for the sake of discussion, be honest.
derek Jeter, Im not up on this stuff, but yes, Mr jeter only plays ball for the money. Period.
lemme esplain-if dereks favorite shirt in the world is a nike old tee, he aint never going to where it again because if reebok endorses him, money talks.
when he was 15 , heloved it, now he, like every pro athlete, loves the payoff of being a pro athlete.
please stop, this is a silly argument to me.
Prostitutes are needy. I fulfill their need, and its not for dick, they get all they need.
lemme esplain-if dereks favorite shirt in the world is a nike old tee, he aint never going to where it again because if reebok endorses him, money talks.
when he was 15 , heloved it, now he, like every pro athlete, loves the payoff of being a pro athlete.
please stop, this is a silly argument to me.
Prostitutes are needy. I fulfill their need, and its not for dick, they get all they need.
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