Why do I avoid Missionary postion?

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I almost never do mish position with any escort.
And when I do, its only a minute, I usually dont go on with it.

My reason: Its not easy looking into the eyes, they tell so much, and most of the time, the readings are not what I want.

Explanation:
When Im on top of a girl, I can look right into her eyes, close up, only a few inches, and I see so many things, not imagined, but all these years, I can read the eyes.
Sometimes,(all in the past, I dont do mish anymore), with real young escorts, I see fear.(like a deer in a cars headlights) Sometimes I see the eyes wondering off in the distance, and I find that disturbing. Maybe shes seperating herself from the entire experience, or maybe shes on drugs, and the eyes drift.(glazed over eyes, I know shes on something, equally disturbing)
Sometimes, she looks right at you, and the look of disgust is just too hard for her to hide.
Sometimes, tears look like they are about to come, that always make me feel like a real man.
Sometimes, the look of real enjoyment is actually visible, and to me, an escort that enjoys her job that much is in deep trouble.
Sometimes, the look of boredom, like man, hurry up so I can watch my soaps, is not an inviting look either.
And the worst, the absolute worst experience on earth,is the one that has that cold as ice stare, little daggers stabbing you, that one makes me very uncomfortable.

So, I just rather bend them over, stick it in their ass, and if she is disgusted, icecold, or terrified, she can keep it all to herself and just act like shes enjoying it.

Some things in life, Ive decided, are not worth knowing all that well.
 
#2
I guess a man that lights candles, opens a bottle of wine, and invites the escort to sit on the couch, and have a drink or two, will never understand my position on this.
I begin the session, but grabbing a girls ass, and seeing just how much meat she has on her. No romancing with me, never have, never will.
 
#3
Even better the second time around

"Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction."
-- Antoine de Saint-Exupery

I guess he liked doggy, too.
 

justme

homo economicus
#4
That's funny. I used to end up mostly in mish w/ pros so I could look them in the eyes.

And at times I saw the boredom, disgust, and sadness.

At other times I think I saw something else.

At least I always saw what was there.

Sometimes pained eyes are beautiful.

I remember one time, I was looking deeply into a prostitutes eyes. And I was really close. And there was something weird about her iris. And then I finally realized that I seeing my own eyes reflected in hers. And the strangeness was caused by a coincidental overlap between where the image of my eye was and her iris. And I'm looking in this girl's eyes and I'm seeing my own. Could there be a more perfect metaphor for the john's experience?
 
#7
These are some profound thoughts,guys.

BMM-Since"fucking is fucking" anyway,do you like eye contact during a BJ?This seems to be a recurrent theme in reviews(not yours in particular) i.e."great eye contact during BBBJ".Is it different than when fucking?Do you see the same gamut of emotions or just not look?

In defense of candles-Although there is a sordid kind of charm to underwear draped over a lamp in a cheap motel,often the dimmer the light the better for john and whore.A scented candle can also neutralize,or at least disguise, a musty motel odor.So,light a candle,then grab some ass.

jm-Once you hit 40 everything is a blur at that close range.

I prefer CG because I'm most comfortable,and enjoy watching the girl "work it".Doggie requires the most effort for me.Mish is more intimate and allows simultaneous kissing.

Of course there are girls who just keep their eyes shut.
 
#8
Intimacy....

Missionary is a very intimate position...as I'm looking at the guys eyes and I can read every inch of his facial expression.
Is a position where you want to kiss deeply and fuck slow & deep when doing it, when I surrender to my lover and he is in charge of me.

There is a handful of my favorite clients that I do mish, but is more for the lust kind of thing. We don't kiss, just talk real dirty when looking at each other. Is different mish I think.

With clients I prefer CG and doggie...with someone I really dig, mish is all I want.
 
#9
I actually prefer mish. I want some connection with the chick and if dfk is on the menu, that's better. Also, you get to see the boobs bouncing and can hold on to them for dear life while you pound. I understand if you have a different vibe early on and the look is going to turn you off, then you gotta flip her over to finish. On many doggies, its just too disconnected. Many years ago I saw a girl who brought her vibrator along and we did it doggie and she was just in her own world as I'm pumping and she got her vibrator going. Not as good. Jeeesssus, BMM you got a lot of issues going on, but I love to read about them.
 
#10
Well, I'm going to use the thread to give up my UG virginity. This is why I enjoy UG so much, folks like BMM and threads like this, sometimes I can't pick myself up off the floor from laughing so hard, other times I don't know whether to sit and cry. One of the most insightful threads I have come across--wraps up everything in mongering in one nice little bundle!

Thanks, BMM
 
#11
Interesting observations. I'm like Justme. I want the whole experience, good or bad. (I envy him the iris.) Anyway, I don't want to avoid anything. For me, the experience is second-rate if I can't watch the girl's face, except...Well, there are some girls who want to hide, or who remain shy in the middle of the act itself (a beautiful irony) and that situation can itself be interesting.

Even with a simple HJ, I want to be looking at her, watching the play of expression....Both cowgirl and mish are good for the watchers among us.

I suppose I'm a sort of voyeur, even as I act upon my desires.
 

April

Member<br><color=red> First in war, first in peace
#12
My fav position

Missionary with my knees behind my head

second.........doggie cause you get the best penetration, but with missionary for us ladies you get better stimulation is other areas if your doing it right.

IMO the best missionary is when the girls got her legs on the inside and the guy's legs are either on the outside or on top of her legs, for me this provides the BEST stimulation without needing battery operated devices to acheive the same effect.

memories.........
 

justme

homo economicus
#14
Originally posted by Stitch
Interesting observations. I'm like Justme. I want the whole experience, good or bad. (I envy him the iris.) Anyway, I don't want to avoid anything. For me, the experience is second-rate if I can't watch the girl's face, except...Well, there are some girls who want to hide, or who remain shy in the middle of the act itself (a beautiful irony) and that situation can itself be interesting.
I think that not avoiding anything is one way to try and rehumanize the entire experience a bit.

Hiding girls were great for me... but I've always been at my best with shy women.
 

Slinky Bender

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#19
Missionary can be particularly unforgiving of a loose pussy (although you can try missionary with her legs closed... and no, that's not a joke).
 
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