I saw your post in another section and was going to suggest moving it here.There are several threads on Trannies,ts.TG T4M in this section and there used to be some TV parties advertised as well( I think it was Sunny Delite). I don't know if they are still actively going on.. If not you can google for parties or meet & greets in the area. This way you get to see a wider variety of what is available without commiting to do anything. I have met some who are very Feminine & Sexy & Some who were kind of caricatures,and others who looked like me in wigs (just like there are women of varying appearances) although it is as much the personality as the appearance. Fromwhat I understand many pre-ops who are on hormones lose some or all functional ability, so that may be a major consideration in your consideration for a provider. I imagine the best way to find out is to ask to be shown before any transaction (it also eliminates any LE factor). I do remember a major negative review on a provider named Jhaniah here, who when she was pre-op was not informing hobbiests & said once she was post-op she would not inform them either. The main thin I remember about most of her postings was a major bad attitude and pride in getting over.
If I remember from your past posts you do your research fairly well. I am answering this on the run but wanted to address it to give you a starting point!There are alsot4m sections on various advertising boards & sites. Try and be sure you are both physically & emotionally ready to handle the experience, as some are fine while it is happening and may have a delayed reaction after. Others just take it as exploring anotherfacet of their sexuality
Normal safety precautions apply. If you will keep us updated on how you progress with this. thanks
this is an interesting old link I fouund as wellas far as showing how well some can pass
http://utopiaguide.com/forums/showthread.php?t=20767&highlight=transvestites