Things that get me hot

#1
I love foreplay and everyone has to have something that gets them hot before the main event.
Here are a few of mine...
kissing
touching
toy play
candle light atmosphere
nice music
light touch of your hands moving slowly up my legs & thighs
tantra massage
voyeurism
erotic shows in Vegas
foot massages
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
#2
erotic Vegas shows?
Funny you mention that. It seems every big casino has some sort of nude revue now. I saw the one at the MGM and was disappointed. The music was horrible and very little of it was sexy.

Anyway I digress. Kissing, slowly with it building to heavy and passionate does it for me. I love to run my hand lightly up and down the inside of the thigh while kissing, slowly getting higher and higher until I'm brushing the crotch of the undies. Getting her good and wet before I even slide a finger up and down the outside of her pussy lips gets me hot.

voyeurism - another interesting choice. I was getting head in a car one time (NP4P) at a place other cars where parked. I could see the legs of a cute Latina (I had seen them while they were still just sitting) up in the air and in a position and motion where it was obvious she was getting fucked. Made my orgasm stronger.
 
#4
I like a silky blouse open just enough to show some cleavage but not too much. A slit in a skirt revealing sexy legs with a pump hanging off the end of the foot dangling on the toes. Went your in front of a woman standing and can see the bottom little lobe of a womans ass through her legs.
 

wolf5958

lil Fuzzybear
#5
Personally in a NP4P friendship/relationship I find the greeting to be what sets the mood. A warm strong hug and a welcoming kiss that lingers. Neck nuzzling and exploring one anothers bodies with hands and lips. More kissing and touching finding the spots that make you say mmmm. I think I may actually enjoy foreplay more than the act itself. Feeling a woman become aroused under my touch is arousing in itself.
 
#6
erotic Vegas shows?

I've never been to a erotic Vegas show but I've found the movie Show Girls to be great.
Elizabeth Berkley and Gina Gershon are HOT!

How about a nice glass of wine for your warm up?
 
#7
erotic Vegas shows?
Funny you mention that. It seems every big casino has some sort of nude revue now. I saw the one at the MGM and was disappointed. The music was horrible and very little of it was sexy.

voyeurism - another interesting choice. I was getting head in a car one time (NP4P) at a place other cars where parked. I could see the legs of a cute Latina (I had seen them while they were still just sitting) up in the air and in a position and motion where it was obvious she was getting fucked. Made my orgasm stronger.
Ok it does not have to be a Vegas show- any erotic show anywhere. It’s really my voyeurism side. I like to see something that captivates me-something sexy-erotic-a guy, or guy n girl or girl. I like to watch-something that pushes my boundaries a bit –It has to be steamy & seductive. I like to be seduced and I also like to be the one seducing! Wink…wink!
Last summer I attended an erotic show at the South Street Seaport. Spiegelworld produced it and the show was called Absinthe! It was a very erotic burlesque, Cirque type show. By the end of the show my panties were soaking wet. I remember looking around to see if anyone had their hands below their waist! LOL!

As for being with someone-I agree with wolfy-foreplay is better to me than the actual act & being multi-O in that dept does have its benefits. I just keep going and going like the Energizer bunny before the act even starts! I honestly think that hugging and kissing are two of the most sensual and potent parts of foreplay. I like to savor every moment of the kiss and it naturally leads to a deeper sensual and sexual exploration. For a guy to slowly put his arm around me and pull me in and passionately hug me and kiss my neck...We would just get completely lost in each other arms.

As for a glass of wine to warm me up-I am naturally warm…I am Italian baby!
 
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#9
wolf

Personally in a NP4P friendship/relationship I find the greeting to be what sets the mood. A warm strong hug and a welcoming kiss that lingers. Neck nuzzling and exploring one anothers bodies with hands and lips. More kissing and touching finding the spots that make you say mmmm. I think I may actually enjoy foreplay more than the act itself. Feeling a woman become aroused under my touch is arousing in itself.
hmmm... I will be right over!
 
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#10
I enjoy kissing for sure. Everywhere but I like DFK for the first few minutes. I like it when a girl starts stroking my cock before our clothes are off. Turns me on when she undresses me especially undoing my belt, pant buttons and zipper. I like background music ok but for me the kissing and the breathing in a quiet room turns me on much more. My hands between her legs rubbing slowly maybe grabbing the inner thigh. I love kissing breasts and stomachs.

It's very hard for me to have sex without at least doing most of the above.
 
#11
The taste of beer/ wine/ liquor on her lips with one of those drunken kisses and smiles with a promise of lets go grab a quicky..

Absolute raw passion .. well which is why I could never hobby - it would be pointless.

Big firm perky boobs, tight tiny asses, long lean legs dressed not in a slutty manner but in a revealing manner. One of the things that could not be sexier is a woman in a suit, smelling great, bath body works on her skin, a sexy bra with no blouse (just the suit jacket). Amazing foreplay in itself just knowing the minute you get home that jacket is hitting the floor and your in for it...

Attitude, its something you either have or dont..
 
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