Sugar Babies are not good Girlfriends

Mr. Wiggley

Mr. Wiggley

But what do I know I'm a bad guy
#21
#21
alz55 said:
Absolutely.

SBs on site are opportunist for the most part with one goal in mind - $$$. Reality is you can lose them in a heartbeat the moment next guy she meets offers more or easier sugar.

I've met some great girls on SA with unbelievable chemistry. Time after time they proved with their actions they are not gf material

Treating SBs like gf is a big mistake. I've learned this the hard way this summer by crossing the line and inviting my SB to a pool party.
She's easygoing and got along with everyone but after few drinks, she pitched the idea... it would be cool if me & my buddies wanted to do gangbang with her after all girls leave Quite a shocker for me. That's a hoe level 100 :)
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Where on p*****b is the video...ha
 
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SAMEdamntime

#22
#22
This brings up an interesting question, is a sugar baby one that only fucks for cash, or can a woman technically be a sugar baby in an unsaid manner because of the dynamics of the situation-
For example, I'm currently banging a 39 year old hot Dominican MILF and although we seem to connect intellectually I know she would've never gave me the time of day normally.
She and I have become sort of business partners but I am significantly younger than her, but she has admitted that in her relationships if she's not making money or getting what she needs it's pretty much over.
We haven't really had.... "the talk... as far as what we are but it's pretty clear that if we weren't partners in crime and I wasn't helping her make money,
she wouldn't be fucking me,
Although throughout one conversation she did mention how we are "a little more than just friends"
now I'm also almost 100% sure that I'm not the only business "partner" she has,
So now begs the question, am I technically in a SB relationship?
She's actually joked about taking me on vacation which perked my ears,
I'm just riding this wave, she definitely hits my lust button like no other woman has in a while and if I wasn't a mongerer I would definitely be pussy whipped, I know this is gonna have to end sooner or later lol,
It's just entertaining how the dynamics of our relationship occur,
we pretend to be nothing more than business friends in public, but she's my cum bucket in the dark.
Any comments, advice?
 
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alz55

#23
#23
billyS said:
Two questions;
Did she charge each guy or did you just pool some money?
Do you all do her raw? Come inside her?
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We pooled and took care of her well at the end

She did bbbj and swallowed everyone's load but cover for everything else

She's shocked as why am I not replying to her txts no more lmao
 
h50

h50

#24
#24
SAMEdamntime said:
This brings up an interesting question, is a sugar baby one that only fucks for cash, or can a woman technically be a sugar baby in an unsaid manner because of the dynamics of the situation-
For example, I'm currently banging a 39 year old hot Dominican MILF and although we seem to connect intellectually I know she would've never gave me the time of day normally.
She and I have become sort of business partners but I am significantly younger than her, but she has admitted that in her relationships if she's not making money or getting what she needs it's pretty much over.
We haven't really had.... "the talk... as far as what we are but it's pretty clear that if we weren't partners in crime and I wasn't helping her make money,
she wouldn't be fucking me,
Although throughout one conversation she did mention how we are "a little more than just friends"
now I'm also almost 100% sure that I'm not the only business "partner" she has,
So now begs the question, am I technically in a SB relationship?
She's actually joked about taking me on vacation which perked my ears,
I'm just riding this wave, she definitely hits my lust button like no other woman has in a while and if I wasn't a mongerer I would definitely be pussy whipped, I know this is gonna have to end sooner or later lol,
It's just entertaining how the dynamics of our relationship occur,
we pretend to be nothing more than business friends in public, but she's my cum bucket in the dark.
Any comments, advice?
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Things with my ATF are complicated, enough so that I'm not even commenting much in this thread because of it. Not your situation but definitely its own which I'm not going to get into right now. As to what you said for you we also connect intellectually, are definitely "a little more than just friends" but not even sure what our relationship is any longer it's that off the charts in terms of labeling it. I'd say what we have going on is not only atypical but very atypical. Sounds maybe so in your case too for your own reasons.

And as much as I'd rather not think about it as I'm enjoying it immensely three things stand out for me. First is as you say normally she probably would have not given me the time of day in the first place. I can do wishful thinking especially given where we are today or I've convinced myself that's where we are today that that wouldn't be the case but I know deep down it otherwise wouldn't be so. Second as has been mentioned if the sugar was removed where would thing end up? Most likely nowhere despite whatever I might have as a fantasy. Back to not giving me the time of day. Third, I'm not sure I'm her only SD for the past 2+ years but I doubt I am/have been.

We keep evolving and I'm glad for that but in conclusion unless something concretely revealing surfaces in terms of a new level it's all sugar and it's all fantasy whether I want to think or hope otherwise. I'm just enjoying the ride for as long as it's going and as long as we can take it to. Destination unknown. My point in lots of this is that yours sound the same whether it's typical sugar or atypical. Enjoy it for what it is for the now.

alz55 said:
We pooled and took care of her well at the end

She did bbbj and swallowed everyone's load but cover for everything else

She's shocked as why am I not replying to her txts no more lmao
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I am too.
 
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judge_holden

#25
#25
alz55 said:
We pooled and took care of her well at the end

She did bbbj and swallowed everyone's load but cover for everything else

She's shocked as why am I not replying to her txts no more lmao
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Hahah I thought she only suggested. Didn't realize you went through with it.

Did you DP her?

What a pig.
 
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Uniquelyme

#26
#26
h50 said:
Things with my ATF are complicated, enough so that I'm not even commenting much in this thread because of it. Not your situation but definitely its own which I'm not going to get into right now. As to what you said for you we also connect intellectually, are definitely "a little more than just friends" but not even sure what our relationship is any longer it's that off the charts in terms of labeling it. I'd say what we have going on is not only atypical but very atypical. Sounds maybe so in your case too for your own reasons.

And as much as I'd rather not think about it as I'm enjoying it immensely three things stand out for me. First is as you say normally she probably would have not given me the time of day in the first place. I can do wishful thinking especially given where we are today or I've convinced myself that's where we are today that that wouldn't be the case but I know deep down it otherwise wouldn't be so. Second as has been mentioned if the sugar was removed where would thing end up? Most likely nowhere despite whatever I might have as a fantasy. Back to not giving me the time of day. Third, I'm not sure I'm her only SD for the past 2+ years but I doubt I am/have been.

We keep evolving and I'm glad for that but in conclusion unless something concretely revealing surfaces in terms of a new level it's all sugar and it's all fantasy whether I want to think or hope otherwise. I'm just enjoying the ride for as long as it's going and as long as we can take it to. Destination unknown. My point in lots of this is that yours sound the same whether it's typical sugar or atypical. Enjoy it for what it is for the now.



I am too.
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All relationships are different. My Sb asked me to go to Argentina with her. She already bought the ticket and she has family we would stay with. So costs are minimal. I also have a sister that works at the airline so not much to spend. She has said we would make beautiful babies. She told me she loves me. Texted me when i dropped her off 20mins she missed me.

It started just sex then she would say miss me when she left. I decided i wanted more. Started wearing cologne more. Taking her for dinner after the hotel or before. Maybe drinks at a lounge.

If you are trying to evolve it then you have to put in work. She has said she doesnt like jealous guys so i give her space never question her. Act masculine and let her act feminine. Dominate in the bedroom and listen to her. I'm making this chick fall in love cause im really attracted to her. Not just physically. No one can tell you what kind of relationship you have with someone but YOU . Just dont lie to yourself.
 
steveoo1970

steveoo1970

#28
#28
Mr. Wiggley said:
I’m sure I’m not alone here in thinking you should tell her you have a place to share her number and she will make a ton of money
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That was like great timing.... While alz55 is displaying his disgust and the other guys are looking for dirty details, you see the opening for opportunity.

There’s a reason you’re one of the legends on here wigs.... LMFAO
 
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nyguy2

#31
#31
Glad to see someone's having some success. Mine seem to only ask for my private photos and then ghost. That stuff hasn't changed since January. Didn't realize they got rid of the search by name feature too.

I dont know how you guys get some mouth action for 50-60....I got ridiculous offers like 250 for them to sit in my car and take their top off and maybe they would touch me back. I was like GTFO....for that price I'm putting a load in your back door and sending you on your way.
 
billyS

billyS

Reign of Terror
#32
#32
SAMEdamntime said:
This brings up an interesting question, is a sugar baby one that only fucks for cash, or can a woman technically be a sugar baby in an unsaid manner because of the dynamics of the situation-
For example, I'm currently banging a 39 year old hot Dominican MILF and although we seem to connect intellectually I know she would've never gave me the time of day normally.
She and I have become sort of business partners but I am significantly younger than her, but she has admitted that in her relationships if she's not making money or getting what she needs it's pretty much over.
We haven't really had.... "the talk... as far as what we are but it's pretty clear that if we weren't partners in crime and I wasn't helping her make money,
she wouldn't be fucking me,
Although throughout one conversation she did mention how we are "a little more than just friends"
now I'm also almost 100% sure that I'm not the only business "partner" she has,
So now begs the question, am I technically in a SB relationship?
She's actually joked about taking me on vacation which perked my ears,
I'm just riding this wave, she definitely hits my lust button like no other woman has in a while and if I wasn't a mongerer I would definitely be pussy whipped, I know this is gonna have to end sooner or later lol,
It's just entertaining how the dynamics of our relationship occur,
we pretend to be nothing more than business friends in public, but she's my cum bucket in the dark.
Any comments, advice?
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My advice? Go with the flow. Fuck her as long as it's exciting then move on.
Along the way be prepared for her to end it suddenly at any time. This way you're not surprised when it happens.
Don't get attached so you won't get hurt.

Ironically, last summer I met a 38 year old Dominican hottie in AC and we continued the relationship for a month or so after we got back, until her boyfriend saw our texts and one of his friends saw her in my car
I bring this up because she was living with a much younger guy. She wanted to dump him and was trying to find the right way to do it.
So he also had a hot older Dominican woman who when she tired of him moved on.
 
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alz55

#35
#35
judge_holden said:
What does she look like?

I dont think I could ever take part in a gangbang. Or even MMF threesome. I cant stand to hear the man in a porno.
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She's really cute 19yo.. nice body, natural Ds super cute face.. like 5'2" 110.. little on shyer and reserved side.. very clean

Initially I was sort of surprised she even knew what the word gb means LMAO

Once she suggested, it's no brainer this would not be her first time and I got her figured out all wrong as semi-innocent college student in need of some help
 
h50

h50

#37
#37
nyguy2 said:
Glad to see someone's having some success. Mine seem to only ask for my private photos and then ghost. That stuff hasn't changed since January.
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Something's upside down it sounds like. Suggestion: completely change your profile, redo it from scratch.

nyguy2 said:
I dont know how you guys get some mouth action for 50-60....I got ridiculous offers like 250 for them to sit in my car and take their top off and maybe they would touch me back. I was like GTFO....for that price I'm putting a load in your back door and sending you on your way.
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I tried a few variations of this aspect regarding car dates myself with little success. Although I didn't get 250 quotes I got 100+ and at that point might as well go the full mile IMO. This was mainly when I first joined though and if I tried again might have different luck although 50-60 don't know if I can get to there. Perhaps my next go through because my last go through was mainly to try and get total freebies since I'm already with pre-existing SBs.
 
h50

h50

#38
#38
vad1 said:
While enjoying some success, I share your experience - ghosting after getting my pics.

Maybe I AM that ugly! (Speaking of myself only, nyguy2 ...)

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It's rare that I do pics. For one thing I don't know where it is going. And I'll avoid it until some other stuff seems to make sense. I prefer text but if I do them on SA I take them back down (bc once they you get asked but when they're not you don't as much). Actually it's only one.
 
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