Honestly I'm a little annoyed. This is the first provider I've had an issue with that has taken a paid ad through UG and I've seen almost all of them.
I contacted Sophia back in January for when she would be available in February the week of Valentine's knowing I was a new client she hasn't seen. I've mentioned the other providers I've seen on here and sent over my verification as well.
Everything seemed to be in order and was scheduled to see her when she was in town in Garden City. We even was able to accommodate to move the date of meeting her to a Thursday the same week instead of the earlier Tuesday that we agreed on. Once again, all good so far and I was excited to meet her.
Now here's where it goes downhill, I double check with her the night before to confirm my appointment which she does, and then the day off I confirm again our time so I can make it on time. She confirms and continues to give me the address to the location to meet her. I am on my way at this point and by the time I get to the location, I kid you not... She messages me the following and I quote:
"Hey. I'm going to have to cancel today. I've really decided to leave this business after this week and I just don't want to meet anyone new. I'm sorry but I wish you all the best
It's really nothing personal. I just don't want to meet anyone new"
Like are you joking right now? What changed in the matter off meeting you within 30 minutes of the scheduled appt that made you change your mind so abruptly? This was just super unprofessional and a waste of my time. I even mentioned that in the nicest way possible and that it was messed up that she did that. Maybe she was great at one point but as of right now she seems to be on a flip about what she's doing. I've seen her posts here before a few months ago where she posted in her ad she didn't want to see anyone new the last time she was around. But this time we had verified a month in advance and had kept in touch confirming up until the final minute prior to me arriving. It's honestly ridiculous. Considering she was whining about her thread being removed before and wanting it back but then she just ghosts her scheduled appointment.
Dont get me wrong, I understand things happen and life gets in the way and it's out of your control but this wasn't that. It was just a lame ass excuse and rude considering I spent a considerable amount of time driving. She didn't even respond back after what I said so I let it go.I know this isn't a review of me actually getting to see her but this is my review of what went down while scheduling. I think it's fair people know this happened.
This is very unlike her.
However, maybe she just had enough after coming back and just wanted it over with. She has every right to do that, even though it negatively affects you in the end.
I’ve seen her since she first came on the scene in LI back in 16 or 17 I believe. Had a lot of good times with her and friends over the years. Over the years so did many others and she became a favorite. Her scheduling got tighter and was no longer a same day visit. I was able to book ahead until the last year or so.
at that point work and life got to crazy and I either missed visits or would make
An appt and then have to cancel. I became a shitty client basically. I admitted it to her when she called me
Out, rightfully so.
only thing I could think is…
1- whatever person drove her to original retirement has drawn her back into it. Life changes quickly and you have to do what makes you happy.
2- since her emergence from retirement the client flow hasn’t been the same or not as steady as she wants to make it make Financial sense to keep doing it. Everybody’s lives change. Priorities, illnesses, work,etc. Again, if it didn’t make financial sense for her and maybe put a strain on real life, she had to walk bc that’s what would make her happy.
None of this is with any insight to what actually happened to/with her. Just guessing here and trying to defend actions that are very unlike her.
sorry you had to have this experience with her. Polar opposite of who she is/was. I Wish her the best regardless.
Don’t know where you are but try Zoey out. Not Sophia but worth the money and nice woman.