In any forum there will always be people who agree with certain viewpoints and obviously they can speak up and say so. In this community there is definitely a presence of agreement and disagreement, which makes for stronger discussions-so now to my point….
We have many threads pertaining to the subject regarding providers methods of verifying and also on hobbyist’s feeling’s regarding giving up personal information and several informational threads with suggestions on how to protect ones information. Both the provider and the hobbyist have very valid points in these discussions. The one item in common between both sides is that they each require some type of anonymity. Although the industry standard practices to protect one’s privacy, it does not promise anyone and they should not expect that our personally identifiable information or private communications would always remain private and this includes the provider or anyone in general!
Ok both sides indulge each other and give the so-called required information to satisfy each other and it still is not enough! This pisses me off. I am not being a feminist, especially not on this board…but… because a woman is a provider, she is automatically labeled as a woman of the night-Does this mean that she has to give up all her privacy for you to feel secure enough to see her & to continue spending time together? There has to be some type of boundary!
Many may want to avoid the "limelight" of popularity or simply want to live private lives.
All parties involved have families and a life and their own reasons that they have regarding there own privacy—which is common sense. To some a little mystery can be considered " part of the thrill or an additional element of mystique to themselves" (Just my opinion)
Through they’re own bias alias and protection methods- it’s still not enough for some hobbyists and providers and this is not directed to anyone-just an observation! Some feel that they must know the type of toilet tissue that a provider or hobbyists use’s to wipe his or her own ass! Granted YES safety is always the first issue. Yes Of course everyone wants to have the element to be "anonymous".
HOW much information is really needed for both sides to feel comfortable enough to escape from our everyday lives and have some fun?
We have many threads pertaining to the subject regarding providers methods of verifying and also on hobbyist’s feeling’s regarding giving up personal information and several informational threads with suggestions on how to protect ones information. Both the provider and the hobbyist have very valid points in these discussions. The one item in common between both sides is that they each require some type of anonymity. Although the industry standard practices to protect one’s privacy, it does not promise anyone and they should not expect that our personally identifiable information or private communications would always remain private and this includes the provider or anyone in general!
Ok both sides indulge each other and give the so-called required information to satisfy each other and it still is not enough! This pisses me off. I am not being a feminist, especially not on this board…but… because a woman is a provider, she is automatically labeled as a woman of the night-Does this mean that she has to give up all her privacy for you to feel secure enough to see her & to continue spending time together? There has to be some type of boundary!
Many may want to avoid the "limelight" of popularity or simply want to live private lives.
All parties involved have families and a life and their own reasons that they have regarding there own privacy—which is common sense. To some a little mystery can be considered " part of the thrill or an additional element of mystique to themselves" (Just my opinion)
Through they’re own bias alias and protection methods- it’s still not enough for some hobbyists and providers and this is not directed to anyone-just an observation! Some feel that they must know the type of toilet tissue that a provider or hobbyists use’s to wipe his or her own ass! Granted YES safety is always the first issue. Yes Of course everyone wants to have the element to be "anonymous".
HOW much information is really needed for both sides to feel comfortable enough to escape from our everyday lives and have some fun?
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