been getting the same thing... girls actually give me a number and talk for a bit and then fall off a cliff
They found another guy and are off the market.
They purposely dont let you filter on IP geo location because you’ll get rid off most fakes/bots too easy, and will have very few legit options left... they bank on you browsing hundreds of fake/bot profiles and send messages till it tires you out, hoping to get an answer back
Autohotkey, I automate a bunch of mouse clicks, tabs, type the message, enter, control-F4, to deal with all these fake girls. You need an IT background to use it.
Doing a foreign login, easily done with TOR or a VPN, legit causes a 1-2 month, not USA geo IP on your profile. I have to do a email reverify if I login from a VPN since my account is auto frozen for fraud if I do an overseas login. Although rare, some are "global traveller" models that meet and fuck, that have no job but their looks. Couchsurfers.com or free apartment between leases from a real estate agent daddy that tricked or an acutal modeling agency. Some asian women walk around NYC with Lycamobile or asian SIM cards (free roaming to USA) and I met them in person but they have a not-USA geoip on seeking. Voice call is most important part.
Basically, 6 copy pastes from you to her by DM is all it takes to get a number. Next think you do is ONLY do a voice call or face time. 95% of scammers are men who CAN NOT pick up on the phone. 5% of scammers are legit english speaking women who ask for an airplane ticket and free room in NYC from 1000+ miles away. "im looking for ONE sucessful (husband), there is no one in X, so I want to move to NYC". *goodbye*
I always copy paste a link to her profile in my text thread so I can see if she changes her city by tapping the link and getting back her profile. Disabled/banned/city changing, pretty high chance i'll delete the txt thread.
Immediately thereafter, she texts me a screenshot of her reporting me to SA claiming I offered her "sex for cash and train fare" whereas the words "cash" and "sex" were never used by either of us and the only mention of money was her requesting 1.5k per month. I am truly stunned she did this and will be pissed if my account is deleted or I'm suspended. I'm hoping that since our convo was off-site and my profile/username was not on the texts that they'll take no action. I don't know if I should report her or just let it go and hope for the best.
Tell us if your suspended. This is why you voice call the SB, and get a quote on voice or a no particular gift platonic bar meeting. Ignore the report threats. Its petty revenge by her for you being 'cheap".
Have you ever noticed you get most activity/favorites/messages from girls right after to join or renew, and right before expiration? It’s too well orchestrated for average member to nice
Free women can only 1st message free men, free men who can't read what the woman wrote until man buys premium. A women needs an Edu email or $7 a month to message premium men. That instantly creates the effect you see.
I dont know if the seeking UI for women puts free men on the home page or top of search results above premium men.
My trick is 2 accounts, message her back from the premium account if she cold DMs your free account. Use incognito tabs to keep both profiles open same time. Make sure your pics are different or seeking AI/rev image will catch you. Never upload images that can be found by google image search, that will auto lock your account. If google image search indexes your pic weeks after you uploaded, that is no drama. Also uploading same pic from a banned profile will auto ban your new profile IME.