I remember your posts, sorry to hear it got to the point it did. But honestly, you have to treat these women and the situation like a business deal. I hate to sound cold or crude, but think of where we are meeting them? On a P4P site, I mean when it gets to that point for anyone, they have lost all respect for themselves. You think they going to respect you? SO MANY FUCKING TROLLS OUT THERE THESE DAYS. My advise if you continue on SA, would be to try and detach yourself from the emotional part of things, and work on the physical aspect.
I know some guys will "Poo-Poo" this approach, especially the ones who see the more popular girls on this site. I try and see the good in everyone and every situation, but I have learned from experience the majority of people will ALWAYS let you down. Its a harsh reality if you partake in this kind of game. You can't catch feelings, trust your gut always. I cringed when you said "She just hung out with him" and she met him on "TIND", you can't really believe that, do you? And don't fall for that BS about you not being around enough, thats just an excuse for her to hang out with that other guy. Throwing it in your face shit, if she was really loyal, she wouldn't have hung out with him in first place.
These fancy pants, slick SA women know how to work a guy, especially one they feel is a little more caring and sensitive (Nothing wrong with that at all!) Just remember WHERE you met her. Honestly, I am in the same situation right now with one from SA, gut says she is a badass PRO. Reeks of it, but I am putting out crumbs to see where it gets me, or until she gets fed up and exposes herself. She is a 10, drives a nicer car than me, dresses like a model, WTF she doing talking to me? Its all a head game. But she is mad cool, but I am not lucky enough to think I just stumbled on the 2% of SA girls that are really "Good-Good". Not!
Take all this however you want, this is a site where we all help each other. I mean NO disrespect at all, not my style.