So here a continuation of my story from yesterday with my situation. We had a long day. We texted in the morning. Then we didn’t speak because I knew she had a test for Her online class . I didn’t message her til midnight and said goodnight ,no emoji or anything .20 mins she text me telling Me she’s sorry that she been having rough day. She get her test result as we text and i told her I was proud of her but I didn’t show much emoij because I didn’t want her feeling bad if I sent lovey dovey shit .
She said was tired so she gonna sleep . I said cool good night . 10 mins later she text she can’t sleep and ask if I was awake. i reply yes and we start joking be it probably the Anxiety from her test. 5 mins she break the news . “now that have you attention....”
Tell me I should start looking for another Sb because it isn’t gonna work out . She said she cares for me . She doesn’t wanna break my heart .So i threw my new offer. Her offer had went from $500 to $300 . I counter $200-$250 and she still wouldn’t say yes to me these past days .
Well so at this moment I threw a offer. A date , There no sex and we not exclusive. I pay the bill . I told her I understand she stuggling so I’ll give $50 as a gift so consider is a price for our date . She was so happy. It a friend date . She still feels bad I said that because she said would never charge a friend to hangout .I Told her it helps us see what we could of been. So I’ll take her to dinner and we learn about each other .
Now before she accepted she did ask me one question at this point she knew the term she know about the $50 , no sex . I pay for dinner. So because she has feelings Still she ask if it only This gonna be a 1 time thing that I am seeing her ? I said no if click then we can carry on be friend. She was so relief and take me for the $50 she getting .we spill more feelings . She I am very nice and she shock that I am single . (she don’t know anything about the bunch of girls I have been with. I told her I had 2 long term. Agreement , separate times). so I told her i am single because girls play many games and the long term Arrangement had trust issues because other guys on there have mess up their mental health because some guys poke hole in condoms . So she text me and used my name . She like “_____ can I give you some Advice ?” “You should gtfo SA” followed by “those girls don’t deserve you . If you looking for love maybe try a dating site” I told I don’t that swipe app because it caps off at 50 and they play games too. So she referred me a site . I might check it out . I would share in but I can’t post name I think.
she care for me and I told her “don’t get jealous because it seem like now your trying to get me laid by many girls for free” she told me “don’t jealous of my 90 years” I told Her “it okay if she get jealous tho that she can beat who I meet on that site up if they try to play me” she said she can definitely do that . I told I’ll toss her 90 off a bridge lol. When I told her all of this it out a smile on her face .
she got clingy again and she it sick the way we meet. She wish we meet at school or something . I told her it’s fine , god/destiny has wired way of putting people on certain path . She told me Saturday she felt selfish because wang me and her as a relationship but knew it wasn’t gonna work and she didn’t wanna be a penpal. I told it fine we can be friend we can keep in touch . But my offer work for her because she want to spend time with me . She came to the reality that she only gonna be SA 1-2 year maybe if she can find that 1k paying SD who doesn’t want sex. She know it not gonna be a guy like me . She said “I expected to meet some old fart and not worry about feelings and hurting anyone”
I flirt and tease Her by telling that I can Still always make feel special , I can still make her feel important , can still make her feel like a princess and have my attention. tease her by telling she hasn’t lost me , she just doesn’t have me . We hope later on depending how we are in life maybe we can become something . It not guaranteed. So she doesn’t wanna hold me back. She said she doesn’t deserve me .she care for me and seeking well she said she there for the money I guess because she did she an empathetic person and that site is perfect for now because some people don’t deserve it . so it was a good talk and glad we can agree to something . Who know how this will play out but Friends this can work.
she told me that I should’t feel one sided either . If I need advice or some to talk to . I can always hit her up .
so I told her start picking from her list on where she want to eat. Saturday she had joke about a list she gonna have for me . So she reply now saying “you how girls don’t where they wanna eat but yet a foodie , well that’s me” we are planning. After covid leave hope we meet .
She was getting sleepy and I told she gonna be so attached to me she might wanna meet for 5 days a week. And said I sound liked a clingy bf because I would show up. Lol
so told her goodnight clingy gf who stay up very long . 2:30 she said she gonna go to be at 2:45 then turn to 3:10 and Well our convo last til 3:50am .
I wanna thank
@billyS ,you a great dude man. If it wasn’t for You giving me the idea of a regular date if she was honest then I would felt like shit that we parted way. The $50 is a one time thing she knows and after I said that she told me before she accepts .is ita one time thing so that how you know her feeling are there .she just taking it slow. If I would of said that it a one time thing then she would probably wouldn’t reject the offer because she doesn’t wanna be hurt because what if the date goes well. I told her don’t worry it not one time thing . She told me she would of missed me . Anyways once again thanks . Your the goat. Not only you help me out with this situation but whenever I have had questions on the forum and moderation . You reply ASAP . You’ve looked out for me a lot .
also thanks
@ayyitsDano you were looking for me too. I fear that a couple of years before I started SA actually like what if this hobby gets me broke . I know I dump a shit load of money into this . So that gets me mad when other girls the on the site make go see them and give shity service like it is . I am a hard worker . My money is not given to me . I ain’t rich so you said some wise word and had a good point. I wish I could hear some of your stories . I know it’s way too much to write about . But wish I can Be in your shoes to see . But yea thanks to your too