thanks guys
yes, caldonia is the one that i've heard really nice things about. it's off season so hopefully i can get a tee time.
bahuba: you can try Black Bear in hamburg nj on rt 23 north. very nice course, about $65.00 to ride. played there 3 yr ago. only the 2nd time out for me. it was a disaster! but i'll be back. i'm a little better now than i was then. there are a number of sister courses in that area that are supposed to be really nice. Crystal Springs(my long time golfing friend calls it the hardest course he ever played on, but i don't think he ever played bethpage), Wild Turkey(brand new this year), Ballyowen, i checked this place out it is a replica of a true scottish links course. no trees, killer rough, people say it's really nice. also there is Skyview in sparta. about 2 yr old, very hilly, some really nice scenic vistas as part of it is on the side of a mountain. High Mountain in franklin lakes is nice also...wide open fairways...just what i like!! all these courses require about 7-10 days advance tee times for weekends. maybe 5-7 for weekdays. you can check with them.
a little less upscale but still a nice course is the Meadows in lincoln park. water is everywhere! must be accurate. you can walk on with no problem on weekdays, weekends require a tee time...7 days advance.