Looks vs Service
- Thread starter Slinky Bender
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There has to ba a minimum amount of service and looks
I mean, An extremely hot girl with absolutely bad service is of no use to us as a provider while a provider with amazing service who looks like jabba the hut on a bad day makes a session unenjoyable.
I sort of have a point system. it's not really a point system, but it's the best way of describing it. Looks make up for a little bit of deficiency in service and vice versa. And, when the point add up, and they fall within acceptable parameters, I will probably have a good time.
However, good technique and service seem to carry more points than looks.
I mean, An extremely hot girl with absolutely bad service is of no use to us as a provider while a provider with amazing service who looks like jabba the hut on a bad day makes a session unenjoyable.
I sort of have a point system. it's not really a point system, but it's the best way of describing it. Looks make up for a little bit of deficiency in service and vice versa. And, when the point add up, and they fall within acceptable parameters, I will probably have a good time.
However, good technique and service seem to carry more points than looks.
Looks vs. Service
Given a certain minimum in the looks department, service wins out every time.
Comment - I have found that the two tend to be inversely proportional to each other to a certain extent. I have usually been disappointed when I have a choice and go strictly by looks. The provider tends to be less service oriented.
Given a certain minimum in the looks department, service wins out every time.
Comment - I have found that the two tend to be inversely proportional to each other to a certain extent. I have usually been disappointed when I have a choice and go strictly by looks. The provider tends to be less service oriented.
Definitely service. I have yet to be with a provider that was unattractive or even plain. They have run from pretty to stunning. But I have always found it interesting that the better the service, the better she looks . . . and the worse the service always has me thinking . . . "hmm, you don't look quite as good as I thought."
Service all the way.
You know, the unhappiest guys I know in this hobby are those who say they just want the best looking girls. They so often come away feeling like it was all for nothing.
Sometimes you get lucky and get both...Shauna, Alex, and Charley spring to mind. but I would rather have a great time with an ok looking gal than spend all my time trying to get a reaction from a girl who looks like she should be in a magazine.
I have come to heed the advice of a good friend..who says that the best demographic is a mid 30's single mom. these are women who know who they are..know what they want...know what a man wants, and know how to get there.
I gotta say...I have had a LOT of great times in this group. From ladies who might not have been the first one I would look at in a room, but who push all the right buttons when it counts.
jb
You know, the unhappiest guys I know in this hobby are those who say they just want the best looking girls. They so often come away feeling like it was all for nothing.
Sometimes you get lucky and get both...Shauna, Alex, and Charley spring to mind. but I would rather have a great time with an ok looking gal than spend all my time trying to get a reaction from a girl who looks like she should be in a magazine.
I have come to heed the advice of a good friend..who says that the best demographic is a mid 30's single mom. these are women who know who they are..know what they want...know what a man wants, and know how to get there.
I gotta say...I have had a LOT of great times in this group. From ladies who might not have been the first one I would look at in a room, but who push all the right buttons when it counts.
jb
Slinky - There is service and there is looks.
But we need to come up with a third catogory. Maybe you guys could come up with some suggestions.
What would you classify the time inbetween seeing her in person for the first time and services performed. I spent over six hours with a provider last night. She is better looking then all the ladies in NY IMO (including Shauna, althought I have never seen Shauna in person). I would have stayed the night had circumstances been a little different. But I spent that much time with her before I got a sniff of her services.
I didn't spend all that time just staring at her because she's gorgeous or waiting for the service portion of the date. I spent that time with her because we were having a great time. One of the best dates I have been on since I have started this hobby.
To me GFE starts there, that inbetween time and finishes between the sheets. If I don't connect in that inbetween time (no matter how long or short that inbetween time is) I don't want to do some of those physical things that consider a woman to be GFE.
I think the "inbetween time" is more important then both looks and skills.
But we need to come up with a third catogory. Maybe you guys could come up with some suggestions.
What would you classify the time inbetween seeing her in person for the first time and services performed. I spent over six hours with a provider last night. She is better looking then all the ladies in NY IMO (including Shauna, althought I have never seen Shauna in person). I would have stayed the night had circumstances been a little different. But I spent that much time with her before I got a sniff of her services.
I didn't spend all that time just staring at her because she's gorgeous or waiting for the service portion of the date. I spent that time with her because we were having a great time. One of the best dates I have been on since I have started this hobby.
To me GFE starts there, that inbetween time and finishes between the sheets. If I don't connect in that inbetween time (no matter how long or short that inbetween time is) I don't want to do some of those physical things that consider a woman to be GFE.
I think the "inbetween time" is more important then both looks and skills.
"But we need to come up with a third catogory"
The third category is "Charisma". You know what charisma is, don't you ? It's that ethereal, hard to describe quality....which you can't quite put your finger on.....the women with very large breasts have ( ladies, you know that's a joke ).
"What would you classify the time inbetween seeing her in person for the first time and services performed ?"
Eternity?
No, wait, that's the time period between when you orgasm and when you hear the front door slam ( yes, I know, another bad joke ).
The third category is "Charisma". You know what charisma is, don't you ? It's that ethereal, hard to describe quality....which you can't quite put your finger on.....the women with very large breasts have ( ladies, you know that's a joke ).
"What would you classify the time inbetween seeing her in person for the first time and services performed ?"
Eternity?
No, wait, that's the time period between when you orgasm and when you hear the front door slam ( yes, I know, another bad joke ).
she was at the proper age for mandatory retirement....
she had a website for about a week a couple of years ago. i don't remember the url or if it's even still up. it definitely would have changed your mind about seeing her and hoping for the best. someone once said she looked like a fat penny crone (from fox 5 news in NY)......that about sums her up perfectly.
she had a website for about a week a couple of years ago. i don't remember the url or if it's even still up. it definitely would have changed your mind about seeing her and hoping for the best. someone once said she looked like a fat penny crone (from fox 5 news in NY)......that about sums her up perfectly.
looks verse service verse personality
personality is the most important thing guys with out that you may as well have a so so session with a pretty looking wet mop i hope that a least some of you enjoy having a decent conversation with the person that you are with
i know that i enjoy getting to know you
and look foward to the next time :0)
not to say that looks and quality are not as equally as important but i think that most of us (providers) have those 3 qualities ( ihope)
xoxo
lisa
personality is the most important thing guys with out that you may as well have a so so session with a pretty looking wet mop i hope that a least some of you enjoy having a decent conversation with the person that you are with
i know that i enjoy getting to know you
and look foward to the next time :0)
not to say that looks and quality are not as equally as important but i think that most of us (providers) have those 3 qualities ( ihope)
xoxo
lisa