Re: 2 cents
Originally posted by ArodsTwin
we all have the right to our opinion, its america. A close buddy of mine has dealt with her for a while, and his friends, so iv also heard of the ins and outs of her etc. He has told me on several occasions she likes to play the "poor me" role, so dudes feel bad for her.
Of course shes pleasant to those giving her money, its business, i just dont think shes the kind of woman thats nice unless you are showing her money. Which is why she seems to love her girls untill they arent working for her. Im NOT saying im right, its just impressions. Iv read her posts on here and Iv just gone with my gut, she doesnt seem right.
Dear Mr. Twin:
I was trying to back off from saying anything on all of this but I needed to say something since it is a direct attack on me. What Larry1017 posted was true and it was not a letter written to the gentleman but a post up on what was my yahoo group. Everything Spanky has said was true and as for your friends using my service that is great and I am glad but I have no one feel sorry for me at all. I am a woman that has had this business for 9 yrs actually 4 years in training and 5 yrs in the business. I was trained by a very well respected woman in this business by the name of Alice may she rest in peace and I learned everything I needed . I am not saying you are right in your accusations and if you really knew me well enough you would know that when I used to throw a $125.00 special I got nothing but $25.00 so is it really not about money. It was about girls that came to me with sob stories and told me how they needed my help only to betray me and ruin me in this way. Getting back to what Larry1017 posted, it was the reply to a post that a gentleman that had never used my service put on my yahoo group at the time where he slammed me in a way and I was defending myself so although I think Larry had good intentions in posting the response, I think he should have used a little better judgement.
All that Spanky said was true in his post and I have gotten alot of *****s in the past couple of days telling me to defend myself when in reality there is nothing to defend. There are alot of people that have known me for many yrs such as dudester and dai dai and have even came to my parties. Not to mention Tonka a valued friend to me as well.
I did not love my girls for the money trust me on this and I do not have anyone feel sorry for me trust me on that one as well.. Many a time a girl would come in for the day not to make any money and for me to give them money at least 100 dollars so they did not go home empty handed. Mr. Twin I am not as bad as you think I am . I am too good actually. None of this would have ever happened to me if I would have listened to my husband when he said a heart of gold gets you into trouble.
There were many girls here in the years that have come with drug problems , having their children taken away , no place to live, or better yet abusive boyfriends. I have taken in children to foster them when these girls needed to get their act straight, I put a woman to live in my house which was a big mistake and used to go with her to NA meetings to clean herself up all for her to go back where she was to the drug dens . I even kept a girl while she while she was preganant and went thru the whole pregnancy with her and my ex husband delivered the baby in the back seat of our car on the njtpke. Remember that one guys? That was a good one. Lastly after someone was left incapacitated due to her boyfriend trying to murder her I would see her every day that I could and my girls at the time would take money from their own bookings to make sure this girl was ok till she was able to get on her feet. I remember walking 4 flights of stairs to bring her food for her refrigerator for her and her children and I remember crying with her as she stared at her very scarred face and neck.
I am not asking for saint hood Mr. Twin what I am asking you is to give me the benefit of the doubt. Although I really do not have to defend myself I need to for my self respect. Now that I am closed for good I can concentrate on other things. Am i happy about it? No not at all. Not cause of the money but because I liked what I did and all the great pepole I got to meet. So hopefully this will clear things up for you and I am most sorry you feel this way .
Actually I am sorry about all of it but I did what I thought was best for my clients and the girls. Be well always all of you and happy hobbying and be safe . This is it goodbye and I am hoping one day people can find another Jewelsare4ever.
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