I blame this on porn

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Byrd340

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nylust said:
Totally, you're more tolerant than you thought you were. Your fucked up false morality and bizarre ideas about gender are getting in the way.

Suggestion. Take a deep breath. Go play when you're NOT drunk. Remember you're having fun and own it. Only fools can fault you for that. Enjoy your life. It's too short to have regrets about not experiencing stuff. You're brave enough to act on it. Don't beat yourself up for making progress as a human being.
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Totally agree. Do it when you're sober and conscious of what you're doing, then you'll see if you like it. Like a lot of behavior, if it's associated with stuff like drinking or drugs in your mind then there's a chance it becomes compulsive and that leads to guilt. You may find that if you do it when you're not drunk, you don't like it and it gets "out of your system". Or you may find that you do like it (and maybe that's what scares you).

For my part, I've spanned the spectrum. Started out with girls, then had my first shemale experience and, for two years, lived with a Tgirl. That was in my late 20s. Then I moved on and started dating women again, but also TGirls. I've had five serious relationships in my life, three with women, two with TGirls. I don't really think about it, it comes down to what you enjoy. These days, I tend to see providers simply because I can afford to and because I'm not really looking for emotional ties. But, as with most things, it comes down to what you're comfortable with I guess.
 
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Byrd340

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She was a provider when I met her, but, once she moved in, she stopped. She was making enough money in her day job (costume design) by that point that she did not really need to continue.
The other Tgirl I dated was a provider and continued throughout our relationship. We kept the two things separate and I guess it worked OK but only for a while. Eventually it got to be rather stressful.
 
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Kingaddictx

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eh it's happens.

The important thing is that you enjoy yourself. If this is what floats your boat, to hell with what anyone else thinks. Your the one having a good time of it. You only live once, ENJOY IT.
 
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scotty12

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I remember there was a conservative talk point a while back telling young guys that porn would turn you gay. If i look at porn i don't even like a guy with a woman, just all women. However i do stare at the trans porn pictures when surfing for movies a little longer than i should be. Probably no big deal they do look like women (yikes!)

I do like when i see 2 women and the clitorus comes out and kinda looks like a tiny penis. Is that gay????????
 
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