The current status of most strip-clubs where dancers are providing extras has become so toxic in the NY/CT/NJ/PA area from it having become an arena where everyone is trying to get over on everyone else that I can suggest only one viable method for the best chance to have a good time in a strip-club if you are looking for extras. While this advice may seem slightly counter intuitive it is the best way to TCB in S-C's. Do NOT have an agenda when walking into the club other than having a good time. Yes, you want sex but if you are actively looking for it, especially if it can be easily discerned how you are looking for it is "as cheap as you can get it", even if you find it you won't like it. At least not enough to make nickel and dime'ing worthwhile. I'm not saying overpay. I am saying don't come off "custie" [dancers hate that, every sex worker hates that] by being an obvious "sex me up on the cheap" bozo.
When everyone is "out for blood" and your attitude is, "I'm not here to get over, I'm just about having a good time" while presenting yourself as knowing and no target for manipulation yourself the overall effect is: "I'm not going to try and get over on you. You aren't going to be able to get over on me. If you want to do something that makes us both happy [in different ways, obviously} and have a good time doing it by all means lets do that."
This kind of "no agenda" approach works. At least it does for me. So the next time you go into a strip-club looking to make Mr Happy live up to his name, don't go looking to get the most for the least. Just go looking to have a good time, the right "partner in crime" will have the best chance of finding you that way, and then have fun. Then because you know up from down and the value of a good time, pay her what it is actually worth and tip her if she went above and beyond.
Yeah, you might have spent a small fraction more than your friend but you will have had a better time.
When everyone is "out for blood" and your attitude is, "I'm not here to get over, I'm just about having a good time" while presenting yourself as knowing and no target for manipulation yourself the overall effect is: "I'm not going to try and get over on you. You aren't going to be able to get over on me. If you want to do something that makes us both happy [in different ways, obviously} and have a good time doing it by all means lets do that."
This kind of "no agenda" approach works. At least it does for me. So the next time you go into a strip-club looking to make Mr Happy live up to his name, don't go looking to get the most for the least. Just go looking to have a good time, the right "partner in crime" will have the best chance of finding you that way, and then have fun. Then because you know up from down and the value of a good time, pay her what it is actually worth and tip her if she went above and beyond.
Yeah, you might have spent a small fraction more than your friend but you will have had a better time.