OK. As guys, we all know about the expected white lies (ie: is my ass fat? No, not at all hon... etc.)
Frankly, I hate this. But what I hate more is that when *I* ask questions of a woman, I really actually DO want an honest answer.
I am fuckin' sick of being told I am the best lover, the nicest guy, have the best DATY skillz they have ever experienced, and am hung like a porn star. etc. Bullshit. As I see it, I'm a grumpy asshole with a slightly larger than avg dick that puts an annoying emphasis on making sure my partner cums. Real truth is likely in between the two.
In one case, even years into a relationship I didn't get honest answers. I hate that.
I actually have better luck with providers in that area. I tell 'em up front I hate flattery, and oftentimes that's that. Not always, but often enough.
Anyone else feel that way?
Frankly, I hate this. But what I hate more is that when *I* ask questions of a woman, I really actually DO want an honest answer.
I am fuckin' sick of being told I am the best lover, the nicest guy, have the best DATY skillz they have ever experienced, and am hung like a porn star. etc. Bullshit. As I see it, I'm a grumpy asshole with a slightly larger than avg dick that puts an annoying emphasis on making sure my partner cums. Real truth is likely in between the two.
In one case, even years into a relationship I didn't get honest answers. I hate that.
I actually have better luck with providers in that area. I tell 'em up front I hate flattery, and oftentimes that's that. Not always, but often enough.
Anyone else feel that way?