I never heard it put that way.
The way I heard it was:
you don't eat where you shit.
Which of course means that you keep things separate. You shit in the bathroom, you eat in the kitchen.
I was walking with a buddy of mine (ex-UG'er) couple months ago thru Flushing. When we were walking down Main St by 40th rd every couple of feet one of the girls would come up to me, hook her arm with mine to walk along side me and ask me if I was glad to see her.
* see PS at end of this post.
He got a chuckle out of it and all I could think of was I was so glad my SO wasn't there.
So
@mugi why in the world would you park on 40th rd? Besides the fact that the road is always jammed up as only a couple of cars can exit onto Main at a time (few pedestrians obey the DONT WALK sign at 40th and Main so you almost have to run them over to get out of 40th) ?
Plus I do not ever recall seeing empty parking spots there and you won't know that there are spots or not until you get there.
May I suggest that you park 2 blocks away in SKYVIEW parking garage (3 bucks for 3 hours) and you can figure out a way to get to your
business meeting w/o bumping onto the other ladies while you FSO was there.
PS reminds me of the Mae West joke where she met up with male friend of hers "Is that a pistol in your pocket or are you just glad to see me"
Frankly speaking, the meeting was on 40th Road. There are many businesses on the north side of the street. And, I was at least going to drop my “FSO” right in front of the building, because why make her walk against cold and inclement weather, while carrying items.
And, a spot was open on the south side of 40th Road, near Main Street. Too convenient to pass up.
(In the past, I have parked countless times on 40th Road, coming from College Point and making a right onto Roosevelt and hanging a right onto 40th Road. You now have a choice of, I believe, one or two hour parking. Two hours is $6.00, I believe.)
And, in all candor, why should I be afraid? I fear LE, certainly. I fear many other things. But, running into a working girl on the street with my “FSO” is not a major fear. Because, even coming face to face, with a working girl, with my “FSO,” she is not going to deliberately blow my cover and try to expose me, unless I ill-treated her in the past, which I never do. I usually end each session giving them a short massage, and affirming their beauty and nicely tipping.
If she does make a move to walk arm-in-arm, unwittingly, soon she would realize that I am accompanied by my “FSO,” and I would pull away like the whole drama is a case of mistaken identity, and brush it off and move on. Surely, the girl will not embarrass herself and act in an unbefitting manner to expose her identity.
I have actually sat on a bus for close to an hour, in another venue, with my “FSO” to my immediate right, and my working girl to my immediate left. That was nerve wracking, but the girl was cool.
On another occasion, on a bus in a distant city, a girl was not so discreet. She was giggling and chatty, too loud, and too close for comfort. I was scared. It was like karma
smearing shit all over my face.