Can you tell if she's faking it?
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Jacky Joy on how to tell if she's faking it:
http://pussbuzz.com/sex-class/lesso...-out-if-your-girl-is-faking-by-jacky-joy.html
In this video on how to finger a girl, she may or may not actually have an orgasm (is she faking it?):
http://pussbuzz.com/sex-class/lessons/item/132-how-to-finger-your-girl.html
http://pussbuzz.com/sex-class/lesso...-out-if-your-girl-is-faking-by-jacky-joy.html
In this video on how to finger a girl, she may or may not actually have an orgasm (is she faking it?):
http://pussbuzz.com/sex-class/lessons/item/132-how-to-finger-your-girl.html
I go with a couple of ground rules, none of which are probably carved in stone.
If she is a street hooker who just blows you, but moans while she does it, I enjoy it more, but she most def didn't cum.
If she starts to moan before you enter her, have really started to get going or stops the second you cum, she is faking it.
If she can't look you in the eye, won't kiss you and seems like she would rather be anywhere but with you, she faked it.
If she negotiates like crazy, seems to genuinely dislike you and talks/texts during the appointment, she faked it.
If she cries out like a porn star, there was never any sort of building up to it, makes you clean up yourself and wants to end the appointment early, she faked it.
Keep in mind, none of these offend me, I would rather have a nice sexual connection, but often you just find women who are doing this solely for the money and don't even try. I suppose this allows them to avoid any sort of emotional attachment to the deed and frankly I couldn't be a female prostitute. I could however def be a male prostitute, but unfortunately I have never really seen this as a viable carreer option for myself. Another life hopefully.
If she is a street hooker who just blows you, but moans while she does it, I enjoy it more, but she most def didn't cum.
If she starts to moan before you enter her, have really started to get going or stops the second you cum, she is faking it.
If she can't look you in the eye, won't kiss you and seems like she would rather be anywhere but with you, she faked it.
If she negotiates like crazy, seems to genuinely dislike you and talks/texts during the appointment, she faked it.
If she cries out like a porn star, there was never any sort of building up to it, makes you clean up yourself and wants to end the appointment early, she faked it.
Keep in mind, none of these offend me, I would rather have a nice sexual connection, but often you just find women who are doing this solely for the money and don't even try. I suppose this allows them to avoid any sort of emotional attachment to the deed and frankly I couldn't be a female prostitute. I could however def be a male prostitute, but unfortunately I have never really seen this as a viable carreer option for myself. Another life hopefully.
On the other hand...
If she seems really pleased when she meets you, is sweet and you seem to click initially, then you are off to a good start.
If she mentions several times she'd like to see you again, and thanks you for making her cum, she probably did.
If she tells you that you are a good lover and you bring her slowly to a building crescendo, she probably did.
If her back sweats, not in a gross way, but in a warmed up, I am working it way, she probably did.
If her vag muscles clamp on you and she tells you that she usually doesn't get off in a certain way, but did with you, she probably did.
I remember years ago that I met the loudest horniest girl of my life. Not gorgeous but she wanted to fuck four times, moaned like crazy, told me later that everyone tells her how loud she is, constantly begged me to give it to her etc. I think she came, but I guess the moral of the story is that we are looking for a good or amazing sexual connection and we know when we have that. Anything sub par we don't want, but good is good, right?
If she seems really pleased when she meets you, is sweet and you seem to click initially, then you are off to a good start.
If she mentions several times she'd like to see you again, and thanks you for making her cum, she probably did.
If she tells you that you are a good lover and you bring her slowly to a building crescendo, she probably did.
If her back sweats, not in a gross way, but in a warmed up, I am working it way, she probably did.
If her vag muscles clamp on you and she tells you that she usually doesn't get off in a certain way, but did with you, she probably did.
I remember years ago that I met the loudest horniest girl of my life. Not gorgeous but she wanted to fuck four times, moaned like crazy, told me later that everyone tells her how loud she is, constantly begged me to give it to her etc. I think she came, but I guess the moral of the story is that we are looking for a good or amazing sexual connection and we know when we have that. Anything sub par we don't want, but good is good, right?
I was seeing an SA girl for about 3.5 years. It ended amicably - we both tired of it at about the same time. A couple of months later - she asks if she can email me a fucked up question. I'm like sure - so I get this:
Hey there,
I hope you're having a good weekend. I have a really fucked up question for you, and I hate to ask it because I don't want to hurt your feelings at all. But I would like to know, for future reference. Also, full disclosure: I know I'm fucked up and diabolical. I'm working on changing that.
I'm wondering if you could tell that I faked most of my orgasms. A lot of them were real and I always enjoyed my time with you, but I faked most of them. It's hard for me to come, and I felt so much pressure to because you always wanted me to. And I always wanted to please you. I get the sense that you thought they were all real, but I thought I'd just ask directly so I can know for sure.
Again, I hope this doesn't offend you in any way :-/ Hope you, the family, the job, are all doing well!
Honestly - when I'm in this sort of relationship - I just want to make sure that we are both happy. If I know how to make a girl cum - great - I feel like they work harder to make me cum when I take good care of them. I always came
Hey there,
I hope you're having a good weekend. I have a really fucked up question for you, and I hate to ask it because I don't want to hurt your feelings at all. But I would like to know, for future reference. Also, full disclosure: I know I'm fucked up and diabolical. I'm working on changing that.
I'm wondering if you could tell that I faked most of my orgasms. A lot of them were real and I always enjoyed my time with you, but I faked most of them. It's hard for me to come, and I felt so much pressure to because you always wanted me to. And I always wanted to please you. I get the sense that you thought they were all real, but I thought I'd just ask directly so I can know for sure.
Again, I hope this doesn't offend you in any way :-/ Hope you, the family, the job, are all doing well!
Honestly - when I'm in this sort of relationship - I just want to make sure that we are both happy. If I know how to make a girl cum - great - I feel like they work harder to make me cum when I take good care of them. I always came
When I became personal friends with a few Mamasans I was informed the girls were instructed on how to make a man feel he is a good lover. In other words, they were taught how to fake it. Also, I was informed having orgasms wears out the girls. They were trained in getting a guy off as quickly as possible, without deriving much pleasure from the encounter- keeping it strictly commercial.
Note I am an established regular in many of the AMP establishments I visit, so there are years of intimacy and trust developed between me and the owner. The trust I have with the owner is usually conveyed to the provider, and often dissolves any awkwardness from being with someone new for the first time. I’ve learned when the lady is at ease, and comfortable with you, she will get off with you- orgasms are all in the head of the recipient. Although if you have skills in the sack it does not hurt.
What I’ve learned is no two women are the same, so not all orgasm in the same way. I learned a long time ago from a former girlfriend to ask what gets a woman off- if I am in an intimate relationship with her. Once I see the woman truly orgasm, I know what to look for, and if she wants to orgasm during an encounter will assist accordingly.
Not all women wish to orgasm during every sexual encounter because they get tired, get lightheaded and want no more sex after. Now this rule does not apply to true nymphomaniacs, but they quickly burn out of the flesh trade. Being a nymphomaniac does not make for a good provider in the long term.
Unless you truly click with a provider, keep the female satisfaction quest to encounters with civilians. Use the commercial encounter for practice and honing your intercourse skills. Then apply what you’ve learned with a civilian partner and watch her ask you to make her orgasm- because she is deriving so much pleasure, she wants to cum. Then let her teach you the technique that works on her. That is, if she knows how to orgasm in the first place- many never have.
Regards,
Pops
Note I am an established regular in many of the AMP establishments I visit, so there are years of intimacy and trust developed between me and the owner. The trust I have with the owner is usually conveyed to the provider, and often dissolves any awkwardness from being with someone new for the first time. I’ve learned when the lady is at ease, and comfortable with you, she will get off with you- orgasms are all in the head of the recipient. Although if you have skills in the sack it does not hurt.
What I’ve learned is no two women are the same, so not all orgasm in the same way. I learned a long time ago from a former girlfriend to ask what gets a woman off- if I am in an intimate relationship with her. Once I see the woman truly orgasm, I know what to look for, and if she wants to orgasm during an encounter will assist accordingly.
Not all women wish to orgasm during every sexual encounter because they get tired, get lightheaded and want no more sex after. Now this rule does not apply to true nymphomaniacs, but they quickly burn out of the flesh trade. Being a nymphomaniac does not make for a good provider in the long term.
Unless you truly click with a provider, keep the female satisfaction quest to encounters with civilians. Use the commercial encounter for practice and honing your intercourse skills. Then apply what you’ve learned with a civilian partner and watch her ask you to make her orgasm- because she is deriving so much pleasure, she wants to cum. Then let her teach you the technique that works on her. That is, if she knows how to orgasm in the first place- many never have.
Regards,
Pops