So, I finally get around to writing this review. A few months ago, I was with this couple http://www.eros-ny.com/files/ny-bdsmcouple1-bdsmcouple1.htm. The session went as follows. All the arrangements were made over ***** and I met the dom near his crib. He was reasonably trust inspiring (dont ask me how I knew this) and so I went to his upper east side place with with. There, as promised, I was met by his sub, an accurately described all American almost bomb shell, but very close. She was blond, about 125 pounds, all natural, and very sexy. Soft skin, about C cups, no excess body fat that would bother anybody. The place was somebodies place, but I couldn't tell, if someone lives there or it is just used for special purposes. Either way, it was comfortable enough with some furniture, a computer, a live-in kitchen etc. Upon arrival, dom-dude directs me to his love chair where I sit down. I felt a bit rushed, because I like to pace myself. Sub-woman is clothed in underwear and blindfolded as advertised. She is very hot. We get some formalities over with and I proceed to sit down in said love chair. I don't really get undressed and she starts fondling me. Throughout the whole thing, she is bossed around and mildly humiliated by her dom who stays with us all the time, again, as advertised. This is a bit unusual for me, but what the hell. After a few minutes, me put on a wrapper and she proceeds with some licking and blowing, which she does very well. The whole thing ends up being a change of scenes every few minutes. Spanking, caning, some mild bondage, and some good fucking. She genuinely seems to enjoy what she is doing, i.e. anonymous sex and he is kind of the master of ceremony. We fuck for some time and change positions a few times until I come. After about half an hour everything is over, again as advertised. This was the first time that I had sex with a fuck hole. There was no pretending that this was anything other than brute sex. No feeling, no emotion etc. At the end of the day, it was more like masturbation than sex, or more like being a porn star than having sex. For me, it showed me that I am really looking for more than a fuck bitch when I am looking for intimacy. Ironically, this throws the whole hobbying thing into question for me because I am looking for something that will never be there. But that is another story for a another thread. At the end of the day, if you want to fuck like a porn star with someone who is probably quite a bit better than a porn star, then this might be something you might enjoy, unless it gets on your nerves that you are being watched by some dude while doing it. Would be happy to provide more detail upon request. The session was half an hour and I left some money for beer, liquor and misc expenses in the amount of 225, which I thought was fair.
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I have *****ed with the guy you visited. He was very rigid (and arrogant) in what he would allow and I felt he just wanted an anonymous cock for her ( was she blindfolded when you got there?), while he put on his show. I have been around the scene in NP4P for over 20 years,as well as working with some Pro-Dommes thought it might be worth investigating as I have no trouble being watched, actually I enjoy it. I cold undersatnd the thought of her not knowing who she was servicing, but his attitude was too cold for me. Thanks for confirming my suspicions. BTW there was a pro sub who advertised last week. She is totally into be spanked, caned, paddled etc.and sent me some pics that showed she tood a pretty substantial beating ( or whoever in the pictures did. She was also very tiny & said she would not disrobe above the wate and absolutely no sexual touching by her or to her. I put her on the back burner since I like soft and sensual along with the hard, getting both people naturally high on the pleasure of the pain (something any sub will confirm), but also some softness and intimacy after, which she was not willing to provide. Besides I am also very much a breast man & they were strictly off limits too
She was blindfolded and I was exactly that: an anon cock for his bitch. But I thought she was really hot and so I wasn't bothered by him that much. I am still looking for a good BDSM provider and I had contact with one who seemed promising but she got nervous so we stopped. There aren't many that will let you fuck them while being tied up. In fact, I can count the number of times on one hand where I was able to do that.
i SAW HER PICS AND SHE INDEED LOOKED HOT, BUT THE COLDEST FUCK i EVER GOT WASFROM A HIGH FASHION MODEL." dON'T MESS MY LIPSTICK, DON'T TOOUCH MY HAIR. MOVED AS MUCH AS A STELL i BEAM BOLTED DOWN> yES THERE ARE INDEED SOME SINGLES WHO WILL ALLOW THIS ONCE TIED, ALTHOUGH THEY ARE PUTTING THEMSELVES IN A RISKY POSITION. oNCE TIED SHE IS A TARGETFOR ANYTHING & SOME GUYS GET CARRIED AWAY WITH WHAT THEY ARE DOING. tHERE ARE ALSO COUPLES WHO WILL ALLOW ANOTHER MAN (OR MEN TO JOIN) AND USE THE WOMAN TOTALLY INCLUDING ALL KINDS OF SEX AND THE WOMAN GETS OFF ON THE HUMILIATION, THE DEGRADATION, AND THE THOUGHT OF BEING USED, AS WELL AS BEING TURNED ON BY THE FACT THAT SHE IS PLEASING HER mASTER/MISTRESS AND WILL DO ANYTHING THEY ARE DIRECTED TO DO
SirF - I also like to fuck tied up providers. I've had about a 50% success rate getting them to agree to do that.
I generally ask if I can tie their hands when I see them the second or third time.......so that they are comfortable with me. But it also seems to work on the first date when I wait until we have been at it for 20-30 minutes.
It seems to be one of those things that many girls will do, but won't admit to up-front because they don't want to attract the nut cases.
I generally ask if I can tie their hands when I see them the second or third time.......so that they are comfortable with me. But it also seems to work on the first date when I wait until we have been at it for 20-30 minutes.
It seems to be one of those things that many girls will do, but won't admit to up-front because they don't want to attract the nut cases.
I also find it helps to return the favor. I once did a switch and let her tie me up. She then proceeded to fuck me while my arms were tied behind my back and tied to my balls. Legs also tied up. It was a fun time, but I definitely felt vulnerable. I mean you never know with some people. Go figure....
I think the more trust you develop, the better your chances. After all the sub is pretty helpless to stop you once she is tied up & also what Jack Sprat said about many being reluctant to admit they might be into it ahead of time. Even when I mention D/S to a vanillagirl whocan't seemto comprehendit in theleast. I break it donw into simple terms & ask them if they have ever enjoyed having a manon top, hold their hands down over their head or even find themselves bring their hands up their by themselves .Many do acknowledge that they do & I just point this out to them as the simplest form of submission. Same applies to a girl who likes getting pounded hard or having her neck or nipples bitten on a bit roughly.Just my experience. If I am doing a scene with a couple I always defer to the Dom/me of the couple, letting them set the pace and the rules. Lately I have found a few couples into the cuckold scene where the man sits by and watches while his lady is taken by a "Bull" or "Bulls" Who are better endowed or make him feel or even in his own mind that they are superior to him. I find that although there have been a number of ads on Cl of couples seeking a single man, most seem to simply be picture collectors, or are just looking for material to enhance their own fantasy. I have even posted myself. Most of the responses are from toal idiots who send cock shots or phone numbers, with no descrition demanding a call.I write back LOL if this is how I & my partner could recognize them in public (by their cock shot )sghould we meet in public). ESpecailly anoying when the ad specifically states NO one line responses & no cock shots or phone number without other information. (0+ percent send just what they are asked not to send anyway. Hundreds will reply, some with a mass mailing letter not even Bcc'ing the To: portion of the *****.
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or grab a handful of hair while doggie and/or slap her ass, or put your hand on her throat, . That seems to make some of em really wild once they get past the fear factor. It is something that you need to be real carefulwith more carotid pressure than chhoking and best have cpr certification , just in case.I always insit on medical info, medications and any psuch history, hoping for honesty.I was at a club once & this girl was doing her first domme scene with a guy who claimed to be in perfect health and then had a grand mal seizure. girl thought she killed him. When we got him back to coherencehe admitteed hehad history of, but was afraid to reveal lest he be refused play. He was promptly escorted to the door and banned
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I experienced similar to SirF's review. I saw this BDSM couple, which was a little against my grain, as I do not like to perform in front of other men. I went because I have been seeking the services of a submissive for some time. I had one once in life and lost her and have suffered since. Submissives can be wonderful. The guy kept his pants on and stayed out of the way for the most part and he mentioned he was 'straight as a rail' a few times. The guy is a little abrupt on the phone but in person he somehow managed to make me feel pretty comfortable. I get up there and it went pretty much as they advertised. I will say she is very very beautiful and man, what a great body!! She is great in bed too. I offered extra for anal and the guy got a little bent out of shape, but they did it for me once they realized I am not a huge salami. All in all, I rate it a nine out of ten because of her. It was weird in that he cheers her on and holds her leash- not my cup of tea- BUT I would do it again and probably will! The couple seems to have some hidden chemistry which might be representative of a good Ds relationship...not sure, but I felt like they let me in a bit for the time I was with them.
I experienced similar to SirF's review. I saw this BDSM couple, which was a little against my grain, as I do not like to perform in front of other men. I went because I have been seeking the services of a submissive for some time. I had one once in life and lost her and have suffered since. Submissives can be wonderful. The guy kept his pants on and stayed out of the way for the most part and he mentioned he was 'straight as a rail' a few times. The guy is a little abrupt on the phone but in person he somehow managed to make me feel pretty comfortable. I get up there and it went pretty much as they advertised. I will say she is very very beautiful and man, what a great body!! She is great in bed too. I offered extra for anal and the guy got a little bent out of shape, but they did it for me once they realized I am not a huge salami. All in all, I rate it a nine out of ten because of her. It was weird in that he cheers her on and holds her leash- not my cup of tea- BUT I would do it again and probably will! The couple seems to have some hidden chemistry which might be representative of a good Ds relationship...not sure, but I felt like they let me in a bit for the time I was with them.
I saw a listing on CL for these same folks, and briefly corresponded. My issue is that the guy has so many rules, and there doesn't seem to be much leeway. Also, I too like to take my time and a half hour is awfully short ... I'd want her to suck my cock for that long while I called her bad names, yanked her hair, and smacked her around a little bit, but the idea of paying $225 to be a "cock," while amusing and a turn on in some ways, just isn't quite the mlleage that would compel me into what sounds like a strange scenario (although that in and of itself could be fun for some people).
If the set up was just a little looser, or the dom was open to accmodate special requests, it might be more appealing.
Damien, do you actually speak at all during the session? Or is it mute except for the couple? Does she say anything. Do you get to touch her in any fashion besides fucking?
If the set up was just a little looser, or the dom was open to accmodate special requests, it might be more appealing.
Damien, do you actually speak at all during the session? Or is it mute except for the couple? Does she say anything. Do you get to touch her in any fashion besides fucking?
I'm bringing this over from another thread, because it's really appropriate for here.Moral is never leave anyone who is restrained or restricted in anyway alone. this tory could have a very different ending if the other domme hadn't checked in on him. Especially anything to do with suspension or hanging. Ropes slip or break & equipment breaks and the results can be disastrous. It's possible this guy was trying to off himself too
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He basically whipped her a little, held her leash, and called her a few names while he cheered me on. He asked me to call her 'slut' while I reached my pleasure point. Other than that, I was pretty quiet and he was too but she made a lot of noises and begged for it- for real! That was kind of hot. He did a decent job of making me feel comfortable and he encouraged me touching her pussy and ass a little at the onset of the session...he asked that I allow him to sort of 'lead the way' and I did, though I am not submissive or whatever. All in all she is great at sex and he really didn't bother me mcuh. Once again, I probably wouldn't repeat as the couple thing is not my thing but she is a great great piece of ass! He did say something about her not liking abuse from other men though...not my thing anyway.
Ah bebedoll , so eloquently put. It is difficultto find someoneinto being used her. I do have afuck buddy with a pretty busy life, but from time to time. I use herhard & long & sometimes include others,which she is usualy blindfolded for....I had spoken to this Dom & aside from the factthat he would not go more than 1/2 hour, he told me he wanted silence so she didn't know who was there. He also didn't want her dommed at all, just fucked and made to suck cock. To me too short a time frame for any intimacy or time to enjoy myself & just be used basically as a dildo for her,then ushered out the door. As you know the after glow is as important & anything. So I passed on his offering as he was totally rigid on his many many rules
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As for going back? Well, I am not into the couple thing, but, I loved the sex with her. I had also written back to the DOM and asked for a few extra 'things' and he is a bit rigid as someone stated on this thread, yet he also took the time to explain that it is his submissive who sets the limits, not he. Apparently, these two are in a real relationship and she does not wish to be dominated by anyone but him..that sucks for me as I would like to get some experience in this but they were pretty clear...anyway, I will possibly go back for seconds if I get horney enough....she is super hot! After that, I will move on and maybe try to get some experience on my own in domination. I find that fascinating. There was one provider on a site that offered submission but aaggghhh the quality was bad in looks. That makes this BDSM couple ten times worth it to me! I felt safe and clean and she is hot. I did ask the guy if I could call her names and slap her tits and he told me she would get really mad. I guess it makes sense that these submissive providers don't want to be hurt by a stranger like me. I would guess there are some things money can't buy.
I saw this BDSM Couple. The submissive is very beautiful and the man is a bit arrogant, as you previously stated. I had a great experience and she pleased me but I will say one thing about the 'intimacy' and 'afterglow' you have mentioned. There is nothing intimate in that experience and in general, when I seek intimacy, I go to GFE women from the EROS site or from Screw magazine. I still get what I pay for, not much other than a sexual experince, unless they are acting! This BDSM Couple is supposedly in the BDSM lifestyle and they are providing an experience which to me seemed along the 'professional' lines. I would suggest looking for intimacy or 'buying' a submissive is impossible! I have had a few submissives over the years and my wife is submissive to me now. This submissive the DOm from the couple has a gem for sex. Nothing more, nothing less, to me at least. The best way to find a submissive whom will give you intimacy and an afterglow is to own one!!!! This couple offers nothing other than a quick way to 'get off' and get off well and I did. I have been back twice and may go back again...but I have no illiusions of what I get. Sir F, you are right on the money!! Any provider that would let you spit, shower, beat, or abuse her and tie her would be untrustworthy to me for sure. They would have to be on drugs or dirty. Let's get real!
Jiffy why don't you check it out for the curiosity factor and report back. The couple is not in the lifestyle as they do not attend any clubs or meet with anyone in the lifestyle other than professionally. Finding a lifestyle submissive is a pretty arduous task and good ones are rare and yes I am speaking from experience. Things like showers between a committed couple is a matter of choice & urine is sterile if you have no infections. It is less likely to transfer disease or illness than having someone lick/ream your ass. From a clinical aspect what is the difference between spitting and kissing?, saliva is saliva & if the couple determines they are into that type of play then it is a matter of personal choice. Just like slapping a chick in the face in a vanilla scenario is abuse in the B/D S/M arean it can be a loving caress, same with spanking. Tying up a sub under supervision of someone who know what they are doing is the best way for one to learn as you can only learn so much online without a real model ( like teaching yourself karate or judo from a book without a partner & a sensei) Remember some people think anything other than missionary for purposes of procreation is immoral and wrong, and would be appalled by anything like DFK or a BJ. Just my opinion & experience & I have been around this lifestyle for close to 30 years. You are fortunate to have had submissives in the past and one in the present as your wife. In a commercial transaction however, intimacy is rare & sincere intimacy even rarer. It is an illusion we indulge ourselves in for a period of time. That is also imho many find themselves feeling disenchanted once they are out of the environment & back in the real world. For the moemnet in time that I am in Play mode, I can block out my everyday problems