My 40-something coworker had regular hookups with a 20-something waitress where lots of the office ate, and every single one of his and her coworkers knew about it. The worst was that the wife would occasionally stop by WITH THEIR BABY and insist on eating at the place (which was reasonable and very good). I'm convinced that at some point the wife was intentionally torturing them both. One day he and I were going on a business trip together, he arranged the car service from our office to the airport, and the waitress was the "car service". It was just the three of us in private for the first time ever, so I said to them, listen I'm never going to say anything but everyone knows what you two are doing and someone is going to say something. She cried and said either we stop fucking or I'm changing jobs. So, she changed jobs.
You don't crap where you eat.
You don't crap where you eat.