Love to hear your 'theory' or are the hotels you're bringing them to scaring them sober?
Lots of illegals working in strip clubs in NNJ are living in loft/attic apartments. Dont know what rents go for, but it's worth looking into it. Talk to a stripper who is obviously an illegal alien. How many is that? All of them? If you're banging 4 or more a month or the same one (WHY?) 4 times a month, the monthly rent cant be too different than getting a hotel room the same number of times.
The only other option is to make the first date some kind of overnight stay at the beach; something like what you mentioned in another post.
Good idea I like it I like it, gonna ask around I know a few in that situation in Ironbound Newark.
Well, my theory on why some of them freak out at the thought of going to a hotel with me is actually quite simple and makes perfect sense. Its the old plausible deniability defense mechanisim. If they go back to my "apartment" they can, in their mind, rationalize to themselves that sex doesn't necessarilly
have to happen, if it does it does, but they are just going to "hang out" or so they think. But going to a hotel means one thing and one thing only: that I am banging the shit out of them and they can't rationalize it any other way. Its just a fucking game and semantics but there you have it, there is no doubt in my mind that this is the reason.