So I’ve been posting every week or two in RAOMD and hen I’ll cross post in another 4-6 local subs. Can’t say I’ve had much luck, but two weeks ago I got a DM from an early 40’s hottie, dead marriage yada yada yada. Turns out she lives not too far from me. But, I find out that the kind of work she does and I happen to figure out who she is, and I know her. So now I’m really torn because she’s basically me, as a woman. Totally open to all kinds of sec and taboos etc etc etc. I sent a BS pic but she sends real so I confirm that we have met before in real life, but I don’t tell her.
We are texting each other and speaking on the phone multiple times a day for about a week and it’s finally do or die time as she wants to meet and spend a day at a hotel fucking 7 ways to Sunday. I feel very conflicted so finally come clean that I know who she is and that we’ve met before. She’s totally freaked out but doesn’t care because she just wants to fuck. I use a burner and never sent anything that could be easily traced to me, but in the end, I reveal myself and we decide that we have too much to lose to move forward.
But tomorrow night we will both probably be at the same industry event, and there will be cocktails, so let’s see if we can stick to our moral high ground.