Slipping off the condom; gamesmanship or scumbag move?
- Thread starter Seekingsmash7
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good post but BBFS definitely not limited to just SA. for some reason, SA girls think they are so different from streetwalkers and don't think the consequences apply to them. maybe this is just how some of them rationalize their choices.
bbfs on the menu for most providers...just comes down to price. I'm sure someone will bring up their atf and deny that their provider does it but cmon now...
I think it's mainly a part of the casual sex culture today. I've found that many just ask if you're clean and if you say yes bareback away.
bbfs on the menu for most providers...just comes down to price. I'm sure someone will bring up their atf and deny that their provider does it but cmon now...
I think it's mainly a part of the casual sex culture today. I've found that many just ask if you're clean and if you say yes bareback away.
To me in my opinion it is all about respecting the woman's choice to have a guy wear a condom or not for whatever reason it is her choice if I know about it before meeting and setting a time to meet than it is my choice to pass her up and look for a woman who will go bareback again it a=is all about respect weather she is a SB or a provider or a casual hook up to slip it off with out knowing is wrong and to some degree I agree with pokler it can be considered rape while we know she would call LE it is still wrong.
Yeah. It’s wrong to slip off a condom without her consent and then go back in raw and cum inside her. Regardless if your neutered or not. Have you ever considered that a woman may be requesting you to wear a condom for YOUR protection?!?! Like, maybe she does have something and is doing the right thing by keeping you covered???
This is some disturbing shit. Even though Smash is a positive contributor, always posting reviews this is just not right. If there was someone on this board who was into ******** (statutory rape) sex my guess is they would be removed from the board. This guy is flat out telling the board that he is raping girls, and is bragging about it. I might be new here, but I don't think this is a matter of morals or ethics, I think it puts the entire board at risk. There doesn't seem to be anyone else who agrees with him, thank god.
Depends on the Moderator.
When it comes to BBFS I will delete posts of guys who try to turn a good BBFS thread into a lesson on STD or lecture on the dangers of bare back.
This thread was NOT started by Seeking. He made a comment in the SA thread about slipping off the condom and it drew a lot of comments. So much so that it was distracting from the thread.
So I moved the discussion to the Coliseum where members could feel free to give there take.
As a mod I tried to give the new thread a neutral title and let the members decide for themselves.
That does not mean I condone the action.
When it comes to BBFS I will delete posts of guys who try to turn a good BBFS thread into a lesson on STD or lecture on the dangers of bare back.
This thread was NOT started by Seeking. He made a comment in the SA thread about slipping off the condom and it drew a lot of comments. So much so that it was distracting from the thread.
So I moved the discussion to the Coliseum where members could feel free to give there take.
As a mod I tried to give the new thread a neutral title and let the members decide for themselves.
That does not mean I condone the action.
Daryl93ny,
I kind of doubt any moderator gave you shit or deleted posts simply because you "liked bbfs" and your post was on topic. Moderators, like billyS, are supposed to get rid of posts which are off topic, like where he says someone mentions he had bbfs and guys decide to turn the thread into a general referendum on the topic. The fact is we delete many more anti-bbfs posts than pro-bbfs posts. Think about how much more often someone writes they did it and multiple users castigate them for it, as opposed to someone posting about cfs and someone goes on a rant about that.
billyS did absolutely the the right thing as far as I concerned:
He took a tangential discussion which was only being deleterious to the thread it was in and moved it both to a new thread and appropriate forum.
And I think this is probably the appropriate time and place to say I think this points out how much having some experience as a Moderator has shaped and honed his skill set. I'm not sure that earlier in his "career" he would have spotted this situation as quickly or realized that this was the appropriate action to take (as opposed to just mass deletion of posts for being disruptive).
So next time someone wants to complain about Moderator's actions, realize that they aren't random and thoughtless, but the results of their experiences here and made based on their experiences with an awful lot of bullshit which people try and slip past them on a daily basis.
I kind of doubt any moderator gave you shit or deleted posts simply because you "liked bbfs" and your post was on topic. Moderators, like billyS, are supposed to get rid of posts which are off topic, like where he says someone mentions he had bbfs and guys decide to turn the thread into a general referendum on the topic. The fact is we delete many more anti-bbfs posts than pro-bbfs posts. Think about how much more often someone writes they did it and multiple users castigate them for it, as opposed to someone posting about cfs and someone goes on a rant about that.
billyS did absolutely the the right thing as far as I concerned:
He took a tangential discussion which was only being deleterious to the thread it was in and moved it both to a new thread and appropriate forum.
And I think this is probably the appropriate time and place to say I think this points out how much having some experience as a Moderator has shaped and honed his skill set. I'm not sure that earlier in his "career" he would have spotted this situation as quickly or realized that this was the appropriate action to take (as opposed to just mass deletion of posts for being disruptive).
So next time someone wants to complain about Moderator's actions, realize that they aren't random and thoughtless, but the results of their experiences here and made based on their experiences with an awful lot of bullshit which people try and slip past them on a daily basis.
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correct me if I’m wrong... Tried to find NYS Penal Code involving “non consensual condom removal” or “stealthing” and couldn’t find any law against it. NYS Penal Code 130.20 involves non consensual sex but doesn’t specifically explain details. Looks like there were attempts to amend this law to include Stealthing and making it a sex assault or sexual misconduct. Not rape. But the bills weren’t passed? So, currently, in New York State there is no specific law against this behavior.
https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2019/s4401
https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2019/s4401