We rate girls all the time. Be honest, how old are you, and what would you rate yourself 1-10 NOW. Not when you were 20 with hair and muscle, today
I was born in 1946. I cannot remember the last time I was in a gym. I do not exercise at all.
When I was young, and saw a girl smiling at my pants, I thought that she liked my genitals.
Now, when I see a girl smiling at my pants, I know it's the bulge in the POCKET that is attractive.
In retrospect, maybe it always was?
I am slim (Bariatric surgery) fit (Quadruple bypass) and have lived in NYC my entire life.
So stable, I border on stagnant....I can count the number of places that I have lived, on one hand!
My hobbies include Telegraphy, Cryptography, Mongering, and Fishing. I have been doing all four for some time now. I am retired, and can devote all of my time to my hobbies!
Rate myself 1-10? I would be more critical than most providers. (4?)
Most providers rate you on "how long will you stay, and how much will you leave?" (10!)
They really don't care about your appearance, unless you look like you should be on a "WANTED" poster.
I am non-judgemental, and my sexual tastes run towards Vanilla. I feel protective toward victims.
Providers sense this (they have to develop that skill FAST) and immediately feel "comfortable."
My wife died 20 years ago, and my children are older than most providers I have seen.
In fact, I have never been intimate with ANY woman over 40, be it amateur or pro.
One of these days, just for bragging rights, I must find a legal provider who is one-fourth my age.
My tastes actually run toward women in their thirties.....