New thread to save the SA one from rambling...
The more I think about it, the more I realize that part of the appeal of SB’s is that you can have somewhat meaningful relationship with women that you’d never consider dating seriously.
It can be super clear from the outset that there are aspects to her personality and behavior that you’ll eventually get sick of. With a real relationship, that’s a good time to bail and focus your energy on someone else.
But since you have a good idea that an SB relationship isn’t going to evolve much, and certainly isn’t going to be permanent, it’s wasier to sit back, enjoy it for what it is, and bail only when it gets to be more trouble than it’s worth.
Small pointless lies are a quick deal killer in most of my real life relationships - romantic, sexual, or otherwise. But they’re easier to overlook with someone for whom I’ve already protected myself. Yeah, it might be annoying to second guess certain claims, on the other hand if the veracity won’t really effect me, then who cares?
The focus changes from: is she lying? To Do I care?
In addition to being more likely with charged personality ... I find there there is just too much white lies that goes on along with that spirit too.
It can be super clear from the outset that there are aspects to her personality and behavior that you’ll eventually get sick of. With a real relationship, that’s a good time to bail and focus your energy on someone else.
But since you have a good idea that an SB relationship isn’t going to evolve much, and certainly isn’t going to be permanent, it’s wasier to sit back, enjoy it for what it is, and bail only when it gets to be more trouble than it’s worth.
Small pointless lies are a quick deal killer in most of my real life relationships - romantic, sexual, or otherwise. But they’re easier to overlook with someone for whom I’ve already protected myself. Yeah, it might be annoying to second guess certain claims, on the other hand if the veracity won’t really effect me, then who cares?
The focus changes from: is she lying? To Do I care?