why do amp workers.......

#4
ask if your married????

and ideas why they ask???

They are genuinely curious. Some cannot fathom that so many guys are not getting serviced by their SOs. They perceive that if they were in a relationship, they would make certain that their husbands would have enough sex so that they will not stray. But they do anyway, since sex is so cheap an accesible. I never heard a Chinese guy say that his wife is denying him access unlike so many American women. I have heard some woman from a the Mao Tse Tung era say over forty, that they done their job and want to lighten up on the sex. But not this generation.

Some of the AMP women think if you are married chances are you are less likely to have STDs. That is like the alcohol removes all germs.
 
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They are genuinely curious. Some cannot fathom that so many guys are not getting serviced by their SOs. They perceive that if they were in a relationship, they would make certain that their husbands would have enough sex so that they will not stray. But they do anyway, since sex is so cheap an accesible. I never heard a Chinese guy say that his wife is denying him access unlike so many American women. I have heard some woman from a the Mao Tse Tung era say over forty, that they done their job and want to lighten up on the sex. But not this generation.

Some of the AMP women think if you are married chances are you are less likely to have STDs. That is like the alcohol removes all germs.
That's my take as well.
 
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They are genuinely curious. Some cannot fathom that so many guys are not getting serviced by their SOs. They perceive that if they were in a relationship, they would make certain that their husbands would have enough sex so that they will not stray. But they do anyway, since sex is so cheap an accesible. I never heard a Chinese guy say that his wife is denying him access unlike so many American women. I have heard some woman from a the Mao Tse Tung era say over forty, that they done their job and want to lighten up on the sex. But not this generation.

Some of the AMP women think if you are married chances are you are less likely to have STDs. That is like the alcohol removes all germs.
Actually, that is quite untrue. American women will give sex much more than Chinese women, Chinese people are still extremely conservative as a whole, but Americans have gone through so many sexual liberation movements already, did you not hear about the Chinese professor who got arrested for having orgys? We just happen to know the ones willing enough to work at massages.
 
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Actually, that is quite untrue. American women will give sex much more than Chinese women, Chinese people are still extremely conservative as a whole, but Americans have gone through so many sexual liberation movements already, did you not hear about the Chinese professor who got arrested for having orgys? We just happen to know the ones willing enough to work at massages.
Nope! Your statement is not even close to accurte sorry to say. I live with a Chinese person 20 years and have gone out with others. I guarantee you, that once you reach your middle age, a chinese wife will have less issues with having sex than their American counterparts. I an attribute this to they keep themselves in better shape so less issues with hating with what they see in the mirror, a cultural desire to please their men or not refuse them and less inhibited by religious considerations (living in a godless soceity).

Yes Chinese are more conservative than Americans. That just means they are not discussing it in the office or with their friends. You wont see as much of it in the movies. But trust me, there are more hookers per population in China than here. The American women here may be more in to making certain their own sexual pleasures are met and that is what the female liberation movement was about. They want good sex, where Chinese women want it to, but can live with it out it, and will not make the guy lose face over it. They are more focused on other more important things there like survival and economic prosperity.
 
#8
Breaking down morality into a "more or less" continuum oversimplifies things. Some societies are freer about having sex, while maintaining taboos about discussing sex, etc. There are actually a lot of ways to view the subject.
 
#9
ACCNTS is correct

In my experience all the middle aged Chinese housewives I know do have more sex than their American counterparts but this might be explained by the fact that all the Chinese women I know work in AMP's!!!
 
#10
There's also the fact that each and every Chinese woman (AMP worker or not) is an individual, and they are free to draw their own boundaries irrespective of what the next gal is or isn't doing. While cultural influences tend to make certain behaviors prevalent or absent, there's a huge difference between "most" and "all." When you do the math, it's unlikely that any man has sampled enough of the HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS of Chinese women to draw a statistically sound conclusion.

I knew a Chinese girl, hot little 20 year old spinner, back in the college days (think Nixon administration)... she dropped her pants for me so fast, I forgot I was a skinny nerd! I know another Chinese girl, 27 years old today, who laments that all guys want to get into her pants; nobody wants to wait until marriage. A third of a century later, with China's opening to Western influences and with first-hand life in USA, these two women's sexual conduct couldn't be more different.

Bottom line: YMMV in all aspects of this hobby.
 
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Popeye, the one truth that is out there, is that a Chinese woman (and not an ABC), is far less likely to deny a SO sex unlike what half the middle age guys report on this board.
I find it incredible that some American wives tell their husbands that they are inconsiderate for asking for sex. If for whatever reason, my SO and I do not not have sex and she has her period or fatigue, she will just do a BBJ for 12 minutes without me asking. In her mind, what is the big deal about 12 minutes of her time and it keeps me happy. I cannot understand why an American woman would not do the same if she does not in to sex at the very least.

Some guys here, second guess their right to ask their spouse for sex. I never heard of a Chinese guy complain that his wife would not give him sex. Now I know some will say they keep it private, but NOT ONE.

Now what the Chinese womne do do, which I do find bazarre, is that they will leave their husbands for years at a time for different reasons. Look at some of the AMP woman and how they started the journey into the AMPS. Now I do not know too many American woman that do this. And look where this lands most Chinese woman. Divorced and unmarriable.
 
#13
They know men lie about that subject. Most men are married or have a significant other or both. Many of the amp girls have husbands and families back home also.

So why would the women ask, if they know their customer's natural inclination is to lie? LOL

Yes alot of the women have families at home, but the odds are low that they will stay married. The women are obviously cheating, but do you think for a second that their husbands are not as well? Put it this way, if you could have a sex for ten dollars and it was very accessible and your wife was away for years, what would you do? These women chase the illusion of money and fortune and never end with it and destroy their families instead.
 
#14
@Accnts. I think u have a great take on it. but then explain why us men cheat for free. and PAY for it at the same time!

i guess society cannot blame us for the stigma that has been created thst makes it "ok for men to cheat. Yet makes women whores...

This coming from a married man who is unfufilled sexually due to medicaly reason on my wifes behalf and im toying with the idea of massage and even swinging...
 
#15
There are many reasons and would take half an hour to explain. The old cliche that most men pay for sex here, is because they dont have to bother with the wine and dine and the drama that getting sex from women on a regular basis entails. Some here, have no game at all and that is the only way they are able to get sex. Some here are older and pay for sex with young women that would never do it with them normally. Affairs are tempting but filled with land mines.

I hope this succintly answers your question.
 
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Single, Married ? I need a husband.

They are sizing up the situation. There are a large percentage of middle to older age guys marrying these whores because they have nothing else to do as they get closer to checking out. I see a lot of older guys walking around with amp girls in the city or at the casinos. Some girls pay for their faux marriages and the guys just let them work without a care.

It's quite unusual for the girl to actually find an American and curtail her working. ONLY if the guy is loaded or she she gets busted and he is paying her enough to live happily. That is almost never. The money is made too easily especially if she's a good provider.


So why would the women ask, if they know their customer's natural inclination is to lie? LOL.
 
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They are sizing up the situation. There are a large percentage of middle to older age guys marrying these whores because they have nothing else to do as they get closer to checking out. I see a lot of older guys walking around with amp girls in the city or at the casinos. Some girls pay for their faux marriages and the guys just let them work without a care.

It's quite unusual for the girl to actually find an American and curtail her working. ONLY if the guy is loaded or she she gets busted and he is paying her enough to live happily. That is almost never. The money is made too easily especially if she's a good provider.
I often thought this was the stuff of urban legends. The middle aged (over 40 plain to ugly women of LI) have almost no shot at this. I have never heard of a customer marrying this group of women. I have been doing this now decades. I have heard this happenned with some of the more attractive Korean women but not the used up middle age Chinese women.

Most of the women at the AMPs have given up on men and know the score and can accurately see what the mirror shows them. That is why alot get fater, because food is their only comfort.

Now there are already middle aged Chinese women who are married to other Chinese men who mostly do not know about the extent of their wife's activities or in rare cases are so desparate for money (sick relative) that it is tolerate.

There is not anyone on this board (we are talking about hundreds over the years) that have even remotely that they would even consider marrying them and the people on this board are most tolerant.

Old men, no matter how they look, always have options other than an AMP. Women outnumber men. I doubt any are marrying them. Dating them, yes, marrying them, no.
 
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